Don't marry, don't marry! I don't want this dowry! They Yuan family engaged in this kind of flower head, why stop the boat to dock, it is better to turn around now and go back, and tell his father, our Sheng family daughter is not rare in their Earl's Palace!
This is what the eldest lady said when she heard that it was not the counts and the couple who had come to hire them, but their eldest husband and wife, and she was so angry that she slapped the table.
Sheng Hong took a look at it and thought that he had to be coaxed well, this was a marriage he had chosen for thousands of times, and he couldn't mess it up.
He stood up and walked toward the eldest lady and began to perform with emotion. After some persuasion from his coaxing and deception, Lady Wang finally recognized this family affair, although she was a little reluctant, but she did not object, which was considered to be acquiescence.
Let's take a look at how Sheng Hong persuaded the eldest lady.
First of all, when the eldest lady accused him of not hurting Hua'er, he said emotionally that when he was sent to the bitter and cold land of Lingzhou as an official, it was the eldest lady who was worried inside and out, and Hua Lan was also born at that time.
He meant that the eldest lady and Hua Lan had suffered with him, and besides, Hua Lan was so well-behaved and sensible, how could he not hurt her.
Second, when the eldest lady said that the family he was looking for was not as good as he had said.
He said that the son-in-law was indeed a good son, and he would definitely be able to make peace with his daughter Qinser and Ming in the future, and have children and daughters for a harmonious life.
Third, the eldest lady said that the Yuan family had no faith in what she said, and she did not want HuaLan to be wronged.
He said that although the Yuan family did not believe what they said, it was also the earl's house, no matter how it was protected by a knighthood, and Hua Lan would not suffer hardships in the past.
Fourth, he said that the dowry had been unloaded from the ship, and the house was full of guests and officials, and the matter was irreparable.
In the end, the eldest lady was forced to dress up and go to the front hall with him to accept the Yuan family's conscription gift.
Let's take a look at why Lady Wang changed from strong opposition to acceptance?
Sheng Hong knew the eldest lady, knew that she was soft-hearted and not strong enough.
First of all, he mentioned the suffering of Lingzhou in that year, and affirmed the efforts of Lady Wang in that year. When Lady Wang remembered that year, it was really bitter. But now he can still remember his own efforts at that time, indicating that he has a conscience, and his heart softens when he thinks about it. Next, what he said was naturally easy to accept.
Then it is from the hardware of the family and the character of the son-in-law to explain the benefits of this marriage, the big lady has a bad brain so that she can see a lot, and naturally knows the future of this earl's court.
Finally, it is emphasized that the dowry has been unloaded, the guests have arrived, and it is humiliating to regret it.
Lady Wang is the daughter of Master Tai, and this face cannot be lost, so even if there is some reluctance in her heart, there is no reason why she should not be.
Sheng Hong not only understood the hardships of the eldest lady in those years, but also could stand in her position to solve her concerns, afraid that Hua Lan would marry into the Earl's Palace and suffer, and did not want to be seen as a joke by outsiders, so he could successfully persuade the eldest lady.
People are emotional, as long as you let the other party know that you understand him, stand in his position to solve problems for him, he is mostly acceptable.
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