Killed by a man who has been in love for twenty years, is she wronged?

One blogger I follow on Weibo has lost love these two days.

In her words, it is caught off guard, in fact, it is quite unexpected for fans, because everyone thinks that this month, men have spent money and time carefully and thoughtfully, and the next marriage proposal must be.

Didn't expect it to be a breakup.

The reason for the breakup was that his mother urged him to get married and have children, and the blogger had children in a previous marriage, and was in his forties and did not plan to have children again. Also, his mom didn't approve of him being with a woman 12 years older.

On the one hand is a girlfriend who has been together for more than a month, on the other hand, the focus of life after the death of his father is only his mother, looking at the mother who is crying and suffering, the man gives up the blogger.

Procreation is an irreconcilable contradiction.

The reason why many relationships develop smoothly, I think the decisive factor may still be - luck. Yes, luck, the efforts of both sides are part of it, and more is lucky.

First of all, the parents of both sides are tacit, if one of the parents really makes up their minds to block, then even if the two people are finally together, this relationship also carries a heavy sense of guilt for the family, and when quarreling, it will be brought up countless times, and the probability of becoming a resentful couple is greater;

The second is that the economy is not tense, only have the leisure to be good to others, every day for money anxious people, they are tense and irritable, how to love?

Then to solve the problem of different places, only rely on mobile phones to maintain feelings, just like the castle in the air, seemingly sweet in fact illusory, can meet at any time, practical care and companionship, is critical;

Finally, neither side has considerable sexual resources. You are a beauty, more people pounce on you, all kinds of benefits are offered with both hands, then you always have a time when your will is not firm. The so-called one-life and one couple, in other words, is also the warmth of two ordinary people with the same pace.

Is there a kind of person who has worked hard but supported each other out of trouble? Of course. But stability is also staged, when it is difficult, two people just want to single-mindedly out of the mud, and when they go out, it is another world, and the relationship will be tested again.

Therefore, a truly qualitative intimate relationship must be in full swing, but whenever an irreconcilable contradiction arises, it is also a matter of minutes to say that it is broken.

The reason why Lin Qishuang was able to sit firmly in Lin Qi Pavilion in the early stage, I thought about it, there are four reasons -

First, her hand did not reach Shou An Tang, and her grandmother did not bother to take care of her;

Second, the big lady is soft-hearted + the house bucket is low, whether it is temperament or body appearance is not as good as Lin Li men;

Third, Minglan did not know that her mother was harmed by Lin Jiao's frost and did not weave a net for her;

Fourth, Sheng Hong is a soft-hearted and well-arranged.

Under these various factors, Lin Yanshuang only had a good life in Shengfu, but she felt that this was all because she had the ability to capture the heart of the lord. This psychology will create an illusion for her: no matter what she does, Sheng Hong will cover her.

In Sheng Hong's heart, she did have a place, but more important was the future of the Sheng family and her own face. When Lin Wanshuang decided to challenge the latter with pampering, the contradiction between her and Sheng Hong appeared.

Let's start with this conversation:

Lin Xiaoshuang: The sixth girl is also anxious, estimating that on weekdays and the little grandfather can not say two sentences, a moment of eagerness to get together, we Mo'er is different, the little grandfather to her, it is really good, in the past when they studied together, the two people like to discuss poetry together.

Sheng Hong: Huh? What do you mean?

It's very alert here. He had just reprimanded and punished Minglan for playing polo with Xiao Gongye, but Lin Dishuang used this matter to sell Mo Lan out. Mo Lan and Ming Lan are both concubines, and for Yu Shenghong, the Lang Jun who matches them will not be much worse.

Although she coveted the little grandfather before, it was all discussed within Lin Qige, this was the first time Lin Qishuang put this ambition on the surface, and she felt that with Sheng Hong's love for her, she would definitely accompany her to whimsical. Didn't expect to punch in the face.

Lin Jiaoshuang: Hong Lang, think about it for us Mo'er, if you can work with the Qi family...

Sheng Hong: My God, how big a breath you have, you opened your mouth and closed your mouth to say goodbye to the prince of the Prince's family.

Lin Jiaoshuang: Honglang, you are scared of the slave.

Sheng Hong: You scared me, your courage is really big enough, you don't want to think about what kind of portal this Qi family is, when the father's position is Zheng Yipin, awarded the Duke, the mother is the chai queen's person, raised in the palace, crowned the lord of the county, this couple only has this one son, the future title is naturally his.

Lin Jiaoshuang: Yeah, then if we Mo'er can kiss her family, you are also good to Honglang.

Sheng Hong: Quickly stop, if the little grandfather of Qi is a stupid boy who covets beauty, there may be a glimmer of hope in this matter, but the family is a dragon and phoenix in the individual, a good child who is realistic and self-motivated, the county lord looks just like the eyeballs, the princess is worthy, don't move this idea. Don't be afraid to lose people when you pass it on.

Maybe for Minglan, Sheng Hong's father has many incompetences, which has made her suffer a lot of grievances, but I also said before that this is what our audience sees from the perspective of God. Changing any man, sitting in the position of Sheng Hong, is not necessarily doing much better than him.

Moreover, I think that a person who has self-knowledge is worthy of respect, and he is not worthy of the position and is ambitious, and it is easy to break into trouble. All the members of Lin Qi Ge are the latter.

Lin Xiaoshuang: But after all, he studied at my house, and he also has some friendship, if he accompanies more dowries, like the eldest sister, ten miles of red makeup.

Sheng Hong: Ten Mile Red Makeup? You got ten miles of red makeup?

Lin Jiaoshuang: Slave, slave maid only has a little industry to give a little money to support, naturally not. However, since the eldest lady has married over, her dowry is also for the family.

Sheng Hong: Only the most unproductive man at the end of the day will hit the idea of a woman's dowry, you look at the brother-in-law of the eldest lady, my brother-in-law, my brother-in-law Kang, didn't he just move the dowry of the Wang family, and now in front of the Wang family, he has not been able to lift his head, you want me to go to that point?

Lin Jiaoshuang: Hong Lang, Hong Lang You want to think of a way, we can't let Mo Er's lifelong event be delayed.

Sheng Hong: Yes, I will naturally pay attention to Mo'er's affair, and you should think about it these days.

The last subtext is that I can't come these days, you should reflect on it.

The seeds of contradiction have been sown.

Lin Wanshuang made up her mind to let her daughter marry a rich man, and at the same time worried about the dowry of the big bride, and in Sheng Hong's heart, Mo Lan could match a scholar, as for the dowry of the big bride, only the most unproductive man in the world would beat the idea of a woman's dowry.

If lin qianshuang dressed up for the glory and wealth of the past and Sheng Hong's same heart and virtue, then Mo Lan's marriage was the beginning of their apparent separation from morality. That's why she encouraged her daughter to go boldly.

Mo Lan: Since Daddy refuses to listen to Ah Niang, the daughter can only fight on her own. In this life, I must put Hualan and Rulan under my feet.

Lin Jiaoshuang: Good boy, ambitious.

Mo Lan: It's only terrible, it's not in the right shape, and it will lose the face of the Sheng family.

Lin Qishuang: You are confused, what matters about the face of the Sheng family, what matters is the face of Lin Qige, if I lose the face of the Sheng family and can complete my face, it does not matter if I lose it a hundred times.

Mo Lan was full of poetry books, how could he not even understand the truth that under the nest, An had finished his eggs? If your marriage is just a tool to step on your sisters, can you really live behind closed doors?

Although he refused Lin Wanshuang, Sheng Hong still cared about their mother and daughter in his heart, so he also worried about Mo Lan's marriage——

Sheng Hong: I thought about it all night yesterday, and in the move to be examined in Beijing, there was a scholar named Wen Yanjing, whose character was despicable, and the article was well written, didn't you and Mo'er worry about her marriage? I think it's better to match this person.

Lin Jiaoshuang: The students that Hong Lang looks up to are naturally talented and beautiful. I just don't know which adult's child it is.

Sheng Hong: Not an adult, but also an innocent man, although he has been farming for generations, his ancestors have been studying, and when he came here, he was a young man

Lin Yanshuang: Farming?

Sheng Hong: Farming.

Lin Jiaoshuang: How many fields and how many properties does his family have, and does he buy and sell shops?

Sheng Hong: There are only a few acres of thin fields, which are taken care of by the old mother and brothers in the family, although they are not rich, but they do not worry about eating and wearing.

When Lin Yanshuang first mentioned marrying a rich family, Sheng Hong choked on whether she was out of ten miles of red makeup, this time talking about Wen Yanjing, Sheng Hong choked her again: If you don't only look at the character of talent, then why did you leave the head lady outside and not do it, to be my little ah.

Sheng Hong talked and talked, ran out of patience, shirked his official duties, and left again. In the past, Lin Qige was a gentle township in Sheng Hong's heart, and since Lin Qishuang pulled him to talk about Mo Lan's marriage, it became a troublesome spirit.

But here, Lin Yanshuang is still not dead hearted, she still holds Sheng Hongneng to generate electricity for love, and sends Mo Lan into the high gate household. So there was a banquet, he ate, she watched, he drank, she poured wine. Then, delicately said what she needed -

Lin Jiaoshuang: It's just that this Wenju family is really poor, if we Marry Mo'er, then I'm afraid, it will be twenty years of suffering first.

Sheng Hong: The family is not so poor, but the family is not big, but this child is very talented

Lin Jiaoshuang: Hong Lang, even if he is talented, he will be able to be crowned hou and worship in the future, I don't have hot eyes, I just want Mo Er to have a hot meal to eat, you will hurt Mo Er.

Sheng Hong: It seems that you are not satisfied with the son-in-law I am looking for, and even so why do you have to go around in such a big circle, you told me bluntly, and saved me from having to waste my tongue. I went to the study.

You misunderstood me, I didn't misunderstand.

Finally, after three times, the talks collapsed.

The old rule, after Sheng Hong left, Mo Lan went online. After the mother and daughter discussed, they held back a big move:

Lin Jiaoshuang: You can rest assured, your father will not help you plan, Ah Niang I will help you plan. Now this matter can only be a dangerous move, desperately thrown. If you do what I mean, you will have to endure your grievances and lose your shame. If you don't go, then you'll sit here obediently, waiting for your father to come back with a lift and send you away. My good girl, everyone is difficult to come over, if I was hesitant to have a good day to hug before and after today, if I had not rushed to carry your third brother in my belly, then I would have been driven out of the street by the Sheng family.

Mo Lan: Mother is right, if you can marry into the Earl's Court, it doesn't matter what grievances and shames.

Then, Lin Yanshuang bought the concierge and the small house, and inquired in advance about the Liang family to go to the world of Yuqingguan Shangxiang, let Yunzhu dress up as her at home, and she dressed up as a lady to go to Yuqingguan to meet Liang Han, and the two also fixed the Yuqingguan high-grade big bed room.

A good bead fetal dark knot.

At this point, Sheng Hong found that the person he had loved for many years turned out to be a wolf in sheep's clothing, not only was the wolf's ambition but also shameless, and he did not hesitate to destroy the entire Sheng family for his own interests.

At this end of the scale, is their own future, the reputation of the Sheng family girl, the face of the Sheng family, and the other end of the balance is the Lin Yanshuang who reveals his true face. He did not hesitate to give up Lin Jiaoshuang.

In the past, Sheng Hong had a lot of love for Lin, mainly because she engaged in the small things of the inner house fighting for favors, children fighting with each other, and in the end, the basic grievances were the big lady and Minglan, and it was normal for him not to care about anything. The needle did not hit his body, how can he know that it hurts?

But in Mo Lan's marriage, the two people's ideas are completely opposite and irreconcilable, and Lin Wanshuang has been pampered for many years, going farther and farther on the road of no return, when she comes to the step of endangering the safety of the Sheng family, her love affair with Sheng Hong will be exhausted, and her life will be extinguished.

Twenty years of love, but that's it.

Lin Wanshuang probably couldn't imagine that this time Sheng Hong would be so cruel.

Whether it's the boyfriend who suddenly mentioned the breakup of the blogger mentioned earlier, or the Sheng Hong who killed Lin Wanshuang with a board, I think they all chose the more important part of themselves. Losing you, losing love with you, is something he can afford.

When you are reluctant, think about how easily you were given up; when you can't bear it, think about whether it will be as difficult to decide as you are if you change him.

There is an answer to everything.