In the outer chapter of "Knowing or Not", Zhu Yuli mentions the ending of Shen Congxing and Zhang Guifen.
Although Zhang Guifen is only a supporting role in the novel "Know It or Not", she is a charming female character who is quite popular with readers.
She was born noble, was the only daughter of the British public, and had the courage that a tiger woman should have, when the second time the capital was in turmoil and there were thieves breaking into the palace, Shen Congxing's eldest son listened to the ghost words of the concubine and aunt Xiao Zou, hid behind the cabinet, and lost the face of the Weibei Houfu, while Zhang Guifen was not afraid at all, and directly confronted the thief.
At that moment, he personally shot and wounded several thieves with a soft bow, and two of them were captured and saw a room full of women and children, who were arrogant and arrogant, and frightened with filthy words. Zhang Shi was extremely angry, and without saying a word, he brushed a few swords and cut off the ears of the two thieves, and threw them on the ground to feed the black mastiffs--at that time, the scene was full of solemnity, and the people in the Shen Mansion did not dare to make a sound.
After this, the Shen family went around seeing the Zhang clan up and down; the Zhang clan's life in the following decades was also extremely fancy, the concubines did not dare to resist, the stepchildren did not dare to talk, if it is said that the blessings of misfortune are unknown, this is not mentioned.
At this moment, Zhang Guifen made the name of the door tiger girl, and her personality charm was completely displayed, not only in the circle of nobles in the capital, everyone was in awe, did not dare to look down on her again, did not dare to say bad things about her, but also made Shen Congxing like her more and more, more and more inseparable from her.
Especially the eldest son's marriage is not smooth, married to the princess but not a good life, the family is making a chicken flying dog jumping, Shen Congxing can not stand it, simply moved to live with Zhang Guifen, two people gave birth to four sons and two daughters.
As a result, Shen Congxing was caught in a dilemma. On the one hand, he was attracted by Zhang Guifen's unique charm, and he liked her more and more, and he also liked the children born to Zhang Guifen, on the other hand, he felt ashamed of his ex-wife, and he could not let go of his ex-wife Da Zou in his heart.
Daddy was miserable, he really liked the brothers born to his stepmother, and he liked them more every day, but when he dreamed back in the middle of the night, his heart was always pressing on our dead mother. I can't go in and out, and I can't retreat, and I have two sideburns.
Treating the children of the Great Zou clan, Shen Congxing naturally loved him, not only doing his best to ask for the title of the eldest son and let the eldest son successfully attack the knight, but also attached great importance to the marriage of the two daughters.
The youngest daughter, Shen Yuzhu, is a person who can carry a clear, assertive, and understand who is sincerely good to herself, close to her stepmother Zhang Guifen, and does not believe in the provocation of the little aunt Xiao Zou's family, and has also been treated well by Zhang Guifen.
Under the guidance of Zhang Guifen, Shen Yuzhu entered the boudoir opened by Xue Everyone, learned a lot of principles of life, made many friends, learned the necessary etiquette, and more importantly, met a good relationship, did not fight with Zhang Guifen's little nephew, and finally married him and lived a happy and happy life.
However, the eldest daughter Shen Zhu was not so lucky, and she was miserable by Xiao Zou's pit when she did not listen to advice.
Shen Zhu is the eldest daughter of Shen Congxing, who, like her brother, was raised by her sister-in-law Xiao Zou. In fact, the reason why the Zou family gave Xiao Zou to Shen Congxing as a concubine was to firmly bind the children left by the Great Zou clan to the Zou family, respond to the Zou family's needs, and become a tool for the Zou family to take and take from the Weibei Marquis.
If the Xiao Zou clan did not enter the Weibei Hou Mansion, and the children of the Great Zou clan were taught by their stepmother Zhang Guifen, then they might be able to distinguish between right and wrong under Zhang Guifen's teaching, see through the true face of the Zou family's selfishness and misdeeds, and would not turn to the Zou family, and the Zou family would lose the only big tree that could protect them.
Xiao Zou taught her sister the two children left behind, but did not do good things, did 3 bad things.
First, she instilled too many wrong ideas into her sister's children, teaching them to hate her stepmother Zhang Guifen, not trust Zhang Guifen, only trust her and the Zou family, and also invented the principle of 'aunt ≥ stepmother'.
My aunt told us from childhood that we should be more guarded against Daddy's new wife, stepmothers are black hearts, sisters will steal their father's favor, younger brothers will steal the title of eldest brother, and always love the thrilling stories of Ningyuan Marquis to encourage us not to take our stepmothers and younger brothers and sisters lightly.
Second, she used the children as tools for the Zou family to make profits, and took advantage of her sister's position in Shen Congxing's heart to ask Shen Congxing for many benefits.
Not only that, but my aunt often asked us to ask our father for favors, taking the opportunity to ask for this and that, what kind of farm shops, errand rewards, the more the better. My brother stretched his face, overwhelmed, my sister was born to be a bridesmaid, only wait for people to hold her share, or I confessed, directly said, I will not.
Third, she can make a miserable mistake for her sister's children in the marriage matter.
When Shen Congxing's eldest son was discussing relatives, those who were right in the family were unwilling to give their daughters to the sons of the uncles of the dynasty, resulting in the eldest son having to remain the lord and no longer have a career.
Why? Only because of the little Zou clan.
Imagine that after getting married, if the bride honors the Zhang family, Aunt Zou will certainly be dissatisfied, and the husband will not be pleased, but she wants her own golden and noble concubine to please a concubine, and when she is a serious mother-in-law, it will not cause people to laugh - people like the Zheng family, there are heads and faces, and good concubines are flat and low-status, and even the tired mother's family is not good to go out to meet people.
Sure enough, after the eldest son married the princess, he asked the princess to treat Xiao Zou as a serious mother-in-law, which angered the princess and made the family restless.
As for the eldest daughter Shen Zhu, she was also choked up enough. Shen Zhu reached the age of talking about marriage and marriage, and there were two candidates.
One is The Prince of Wei Shizi, gentle and honorable, with outstanding talent; the other is a small general who has just made meritorious contributions to the Dynasty at the border pass, a young hero, and he is very heroic.
Shen Congxing pulled Zhang Guifen to discuss, and Zhang Guifen adhered to the most important principle of looking at the details of life and being comfortable, and suggested choosing General Bo Xiao.
"You have to look at the bottom of your life. The Bo family has a simple population, a thick family foundation, and a good door style, which must be worry-free. Although the Wei Wang Shizi is good, but in the end it is the prince of the clan, there are four side concubines who can enter the jade, and the flowers and plants of all roads can be less? Even if you are wronged, who can do anything? ”
Marry high, there are difficulties in marrying high, if you want to wear the crown, you must first bear its weight, and all the grievances you can only bear yourself.
In the end, Shen Zhu did not listen to Zhang Guifen's advice, and at the instigation of Xiao Zou's instigation, he chose to marry The Prince of Wei Shizi, and as a result, as Zhang Guifen expected, Shen Pearl had a bunch of sisters and needed to be with other women, and when the King of Wei died, Shizi inherited the throne, Shen Pearl had to leave the capital, follow her husband to the domain, completely leave her father, and even her aunt and empress could not protect her.
Shen Zhu didn't listen to advice, it was really stupid. As Zhang Guifen said, living a life can not only look at the superficial glory and wealth, but also consider it for a long time.
Women, remember, the choice of mate must look at the specific situation of the man's original family, pay attention to their family style, and pay attention to the character of the man's family. Marriage is not a matter for two people, you have to deal with men's families, therefore, be sure to know them beforehand.
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