Recently re-brushed the play "Know It or Not", I found that several characters in this drama have serious childhood shadows.
They act irrationally as adults in order to compensate for their injured childhood.
As a result, either the concubines are pampered and arrogant, or the father and son turn against each other, and the future of the children is affected.
Today, I will pick a few father figures in "Know It or Not" and talk about the influence of fathers on the growth of children.
01.
The eccentric papa red wolf swallows the bitter fruit himself
The red wolf in the play is an eccentric father, his own mother is a concubine, and when he was a child, he was beaten and angry.
The reason why Lin Xiaoniang has been favored for many years is because she has caught the shadow of the red wolf's childhood, and she can't move to dress up as weak and pitiful, arousing his desire to protect.
In fact, the red wolf was ostensibly protecting Lin Xiaoniang and her children, but in his heart, what he really wanted to protect was the concubine who had suffered a lot, and the weak and injured self.
It was because he had always wanted to compensate for his childhood injuries, as the lord of the injustice, the favored Lin Xiaoniang did not know that the sky was high and thick, and killed Minglan's mother-in-law.
The selfishness of teaching Mo Lan a good child is even more in order to marry Mo Lan into the rich, and he actually committed the ugly thing of having an affair with Liang Liulang and getting pregnant before marriage, which almost ruined the reputation of the Sheng family.
At this time, he repented and recognized the true face of Lin Xiaoniang and took care of her.
But the red wolf only blamed Lin Xiaoniang for teaching bad children, and he never reflected on himself, as a father, what he had done wrong.
Mo Lan almost harmed the reputation of the Sheng family, and Chang Feng's indiscriminate remarks about the establishment of the prince caused him to be scolded by the emperor, which were the evil consequences of his years of eccentric connivance with Lin Xiaoniang.
In order to make up for the lack of his childhood, the red wolf blindly favored Lin Xiaoniang's children, thinking that he loved them, but in fact, he was accustomed to killing children. Of course, the final bitter fruit was also swallowed by himself.
02.
The rebellious son Gu Tingye was angry with his father
Second Uncle Gu has been eager to get his father's approval and love for the first half of his life, so he has worked hard to study and seek fame.
But he never understood why he worked so hard, and the eccentric father still didn't look up to him, only liked his big brother.
Until he learned that in order to fill the deficit, the Gu family forced the old Marquis's original Qin Grand Lady to marry his mother-in-law Bai, and Bai knew the truth and could not stand the stimulation and died in childbirth.
In fact, the old Marquis himself could not face it, the Gu family did the unbearable behavior of forcing his beloved wife to die for money, and he felt guilty in his heart, so he especially favored Gu Tingyu, the eldest son left behind by the Great Qin clan.
Even if the eldest son did the underhanded act of informing and destroying Gu Er's future, he would not reprimand the eldest son, but instead reprimanded Gu Er for not covering his mouth.
Old Marquis hated the injustice of fate in his heart, making it impossible for him to stay with the Qin clan, and the feudal etiquette made it impossible for him to resent his parents and elders, so he had to send all his anger on Gu Er.
Therefore, on the one hand, he favored the eldest son, no matter what wrong things were, he always blamed Gu Er for doing wrong, and on the other hand, he was extremely harsh on Gu Er and scolded him at every turn.
Outsiders looked like Gu Er was the concubine of the Hou Mansion, with a noble status, but only he knew it, because of his father's eccentricity, this family brought him only endless pain.
It is precisely because of this that Gu Er will be particularly greedy for the little warmth he gets from Manniang, because this is the warmth he has always desired since he was a child but cannot get from his family.
He would only be deceived by Manniang, a snake-hearted woman, and when both Minglan and his own nurse reminded him that Manniang was not a good person, he did not believe it at all.
In the end, for manniang, a bad woman who was completely unworthy, confronted the old Marquis, the old Marquis was so angry that he vomited blood and was driven out of the house by the Gu family.
The most rare thing about the role of Second Uncle Gu is that he has experienced so many pains brought to him by his original family, and he has also given up and sunk himself.
But in the end, he did not let the harm of the original family trap him, and Minglan's words made him think about the future of his daughter Rongjie, and also laid the groundwork for his marriage with Minglan.
In my opinion, his marriage to Minglan is a process of healing each other, and both of them understand how difficult it is to lose their biological mother, the father to behave unfairly, and the life of the children.
03.
The organ calculated that Gu Tingyu bowed his head for his daughter
If you want to give the characters in "Know It or Not" a ranking of wisdom and cunning, Gu Tingyu, the eldest brother of Second Uncle Gu, can definitely rank in the top three.
However, his fate was quite tragic, his mother,daqin was forced to die by the Gu family, and the old Marquis later married Bai Shi, although she was his stepmother, she was very good to him.
However, he listened to the provocation of his aunt Xiao Qin and told him that his mother was killed by Bai, and he hated Bai and Bai's son Gu Er from then on.
With the old Marquis's love for him, he dug a pit for Gu Er everywhere to frame him, and he himself was obviously in particularly poor health, and he had to take medicine all the time from birth.
It was impossible to pass the examination to obtain a meritorious name, but Gu Er, who still had to go to the emperor to inform the victim, failed to make the list, and could not take the meritorious name before the age of 50.
Typical damage to others is not good for oneself, with a sentence to cut off Gu Er's career, harming his own brother can be said to be stable and accurate.
If this is in the palace fight drama "The Biography of Zhen Huan", Gu Tingyu must at least be a cruel person of the level of the empress dowager.
However, when he knew that his life was imminent, for the sake of his daughter, he did not say a word of soft words, and he bowed to Gu Er.
Gu Tingyu looked sick and crooked, like a very weak chicken, in fact, his temper was quite like the old Marquis's special stubbornness, and he himself was not in good health and secretly envied Gu Er's strong physique and majestic style.
He also said that if it were not for his mother's hatred, he would be willing to hand over the title and the entire Hou Mansion to Gu Er, and he could also be regarded as a man with a frank heart.
However, he had been used by Xiao Qin all his life, living in his mother's hatred and unwilling to be relieved, until for the sake of his daughter Xianjie's future, he bowed his head and softened with Gu Er.
And the wisest thing about him was that he did not continue to pass on the hatred of the previous generation to his sister.
Uncle Gu Er, the eldest brother, was really scheming, and he saw Gu Er very thoroughly, and he calculated that even if Gu Er said harsh words in his mouth, he still cared about Gu Er's family in his heart.
In order for Gu Er to be able to take good care of his wife and daughter after his death, he must show enough sincerity.
He first agreed to Gu Er's request to give bai a genealogy, and also gave Bai a commandment as Ning Yuanhou.
Then he told him all the family's property and the old Marquis's dying instructions, and then took him to the ancestral hall and told him in front of the ancestors of the Gu family in the past that he should not think that his meritorious service in the military was all his own credit.
Even if he is anonymous, his face is clearly telling others that his surname is Gu, and the Gu family has served in the army for generations, so many of his old subordinates will help him.
Just this one made him unable to get rid of the Gu family forever, and then said what Gu Er had always wanted to know, in fact, the old Marquis had also calculated for his future before he died, leaving him the dowry of his mother-in-law.
Now he also had to plan for his daughter's future, so that Gu Er would treat his wife and daughter kindly no matter what.
He himself had lived in hatred for Gu Er all his life, and he was too tired to live, he didn't want his daughter to repeat his mistakes, and he didn't want his wife and daughter to be used by Xiao Qin.
In the face of his brother who had been fighting all his life, gu er couldn't refuse at all.
And sister Xian, a smart little girl, also inherited her father's wisdom and scheming.
Before Gu Tingyu died, he instructed them not to mix with Xiao Qin and Gu Er's struggle for the title, to live their own lives in peace, and to carefully remember the words of being closer to Minglan in the future.
Although it is not shown in the play, it is described in the original novel, precisely because the sister remembered her father's words and found a good marriage with the help of Minglan.
Earning a good future, Sister Xian did not waste her father's calculations before his death.
Summary
From the performance of several fathers in the play "Know It or Not", it can be seen that in the process of raising children, the father's "favoritism over the other" is unfair, and it will really cause a lifetime of psychological shadows for the child.
And being hurt by the original family, there is no need to give up on yourself, let alone like the red wolf, do not know how to reflect, and continue to spread the damage, which Gu Tingyu has done particularly well.
You can learn from Uncle Gu to try to find the lover who healed each other and start a new life of his own, you say?
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