Wen | Wu Qingqian
Zhou Rong (played by Song Jia) in the early stage of the TV series "The World of People" is a very selfish person, and it is also annoying because of this selfishness. But I have to say that her life is very enviable, because she has a daughter who is admitted to Tsinghua and will make money, and there is a man who loves him wholeheartedly, Cai Xiaoguang. However, this luck or good life is not something that ordinary people can learn, but only Zheng Juan (played by Yin Tao), who has a primary school culture but is extremely powerful, we can learn and learn her tenacity.
The first half of Zhou Rong's life had an obvious trait, that is, selfishness. Specifically, it is manifested in the following things:
First, regardless of the opinions and feelings of the whole family, secretly ran to the mountains of Guizhou to join the team, but also said that this is the responsibility of his sister, in order to take care of his younger brother Zhou Bingkun, who is slightly smaller than himself and his brain is not smart enough, so he goes to the mountains and goes to the countryside instead of his brother;
The second is to marry Feng Huacheng at the age of twenty, although as an independent individual, she can make her own decisions in the matter of marriage, but before marrying, she always has to speak to her family, but she left a letter and ran to the mountains of Guizhou to find Feng Huacheng, and when she wrote again, she was already married;
The third is to put the daughter Feng Yue in the brother's house, to the younger brother, the sister-in-law to bring, even if the doctoral return to Jichun to work, or put the daughter in the brother's home, a release is to put more than ten years;
The fourth is to look at Feng Huacheng with a high attitude, like to be self-centered, often talk and do things without regard to her husband's feelings, and also disdain Feng Huacheng for giving gifts to the house to win poetry awards, completely ignoring her husband's efforts.
However, with the deterioration of the marriage relationship with Feng Huacheng, especially after Feng Huacheng took the initiative to propose divorce, and Cai Xiaoguang has been enlightened, Zhou Rong gradually realized her own problems and began to improve continuously. She had no resentment towards Feng Huacheng and accepted the facts frankly, and many years later, when Feng Yue mentioned her encounter with Feng Huacheng in Guizhou, she also said that she had greater responsibility for the divorce step when they got into a divorce, and asked Feng Yue to apologize to him for her the next time she went to see Feng Huacheng.
For Feng Yue, a few years before the divorce, Zhou Rong, who was finally assigned to two rooms and one hall, took Feng Yue home to live and no longer bothered her brother. After Zhou Bingkun was imprisoned for Luo Shibin's death, Zhou Rong also received Zheng Juan for a long time, not only to help his brother take care of Zheng Juan, but also to repay the kindness of his brother and sister-in-law who took care of Feng Yue. After Zhou Bingkun was released from prison, he wanted to start a business, and Zhou Rong also borrowed 80,000 yuan to his brother free of charge, and resolutely refused to let his brother pay it back.
It can be said that Zhou Rong in the second half of her life was reborn, from self-centered to a person who thinks about people, and her brother Zhou Bingyi also praised her progress and knew how to consider the feelings of others. And this change also makes the audience change from the previous spit and disgust to envy and envy.
I have to say that Zhou Rong's life is really good, and while heaven gave her a good look, it also gave her wisdom and luck. She is the most eye-catching girl in the light word film, her academic performance is particularly good, she did not go to high school to go to the mountains and go to the countryside, she was admitted to Peking University in one fell swoop after the college entrance examination was restored, and after graduating from college, she studied at Peking University for a master's degree and a doctoral degree. After graduation, he returned to Jichun to teach at the university, and after working for a few years, he was rated as an associate professor for the first time, becoming the youngest associate professor in the school.
When I was in middle school, there were countless suitors, and Cai Xiaoguang, a classmate and a high-ranking cadre, fully protected and admired them. Accompany her to Beijing to participate in poetry meetings, admire Feng Huacheng, help her go to Guizhou to pursue love, even if you know that Zhou Rong only has Feng Huacheng in her eyes, know that Zhou Rong is married to Feng Huacheng, with children, they can't, Cai Xiaoguang still pretends to be Zhou Rong, and goes all out to help Zhou Rong, but when Zhou Rong asks for help from him, he goes all out. When he was in school in Beijing and in Jichun, Cai Xiaoguang often mediated conflicts between Zhou and Feng and helped Zhou Rong get a house. After the death of her parents, Zhou Rong cried to Cai Xiaoguang that she had become an orphan, and when there was no parental love, Cai Xiaoguang also confessed to her affectionately and took the initiative to propose marriage, not abandoning her for having a teenage daughter. After the two married, they were always in love, and they grew old together.
The only daughter is also very contentious, although she once fooled around for love for a while, and grieved for Zhou Nan's unexpected death for a while, but it didn't take long to adjust, and she was admitted to Tsinghua, and went to university at Tsinghua and got a master's degree. After graduation, he entered a large company, soon entered the management, and had the power to arrange work for his brother-in-law Zhou Bingkun and his friends in the company, although there was also Zhou Bingyi's power influence here, but Feng Yue's ability was also on the one hand. After that, he went overseas to develop business for the company, was responsible for overseas markets, and finally opened his own company, with business in many countries, and also donated money to the mountain village primary school that Zhou Rong was concerned about.
Even in the unsatisfactory marriage with Feng Huacheng, there is no need to take care of housework in the marriage of more than ten years, and Feng Huacheng is still willing to follow her to Jichun to develop and give up everything in Beijing.
Zhou Rong's luck is really too good to say, even if it is the best luck among the various characters in the whole play, so good that people can't believe it, and in reality, there may really be no such people who have been favored by heaven. Therefore, Zhou Rong's good life can only be envied, it cannot be learned, but the luck is not as good as Zhou Rong's Zheng Juan can learn, learn Zheng Juan's strength.
Although Zheng Juan also has a good face, she was not born in a harmonious family and a well-off worker family, she is an orphan, fortunately survived by selling popsicles to survive the adoption of Zheng's mother to grow up. She also did not have a guardian spirit like Cai Xiaoguang, although tu Zhiqiang took care of her, but Tu Zhiqiang was blind with the water flow and Luo Shibin, only liked men, and harmed her to be violated by Luo Shibin, and became pregnant because of it. Later, Tu Zhiqiang was also sentenced to death for killing people in righteousness, and Zheng Juan did not even have a place to live and had to return to her mother's house. Mother Zheng did not let her beat the child, and had to give birth to the child and become a single mother.
Zheng Juan's only luck is to meet Zhou Bingkun, if it were not for Zhou Bingkun sending her money every month, even if the water flowed, Luo Shibin was caught and had no money to send, he would have to take out the heirloom pawn and continue to send her money, maybe Zheng Juan's mother and son would not survive. Zhou Bingkun not only materially helped Zheng Juan, but also fell in love with Zheng Juan in the process of helping, and resolutely married Zheng Juan despite her family's opposition, allowing Zheng Juan to marry a reliable man and enter a reliable family.
Of course, this luck also leaves Zheng Juan's efforts. When Zhou Bingkun was arrested and imprisoned for being implicated in Feng Huacheng's poems, the Zhou family was left with only a vegetative person Li Suhua and a two-year-old Feng Yue, and it is not known when Zhou Bingkun came out. In the face of this situation, ordinary people have long run away, but Zheng Juan did not.
If Zhou Bingkun has not yet gone to prison, by taking care of Li Suhua and Feng Yue to fight a paper marriage, Zhou Bingkun is really risky after he is imprisoned, after all, whether Zhou Bingkun can come out is still a problem, whether Li Suhua can wake up is also a problem, although Zhou Zhigang sends money on time every month, but that little money is only barely enough to maintain life, she has to take care of the old and the young too tired, especially to give the old massage, the hands are deformed, whether this pay is really difficult to say.
But Zheng Juan didn't care, her kindness and tenacity could be seen here, but those who were not good at character or could not bear hardships and were not strong enough had long since surrendered and run away. It is also in this way that after being released from prison, Zhou Bingkun was more determined to marry Zheng Juan, and Zhou Zhigang went home to serve Li Suhua and Feng Yue for one night, and after knowing that Zheng Juan's difficulties were not easy, he finally compromised with Zhou Bingkun and accepted Zheng Juan, a little widow.
After marrying into the Zhou family, Zheng Juan's life was not idle, and she became a full-time housewife, which was both an active choice and a condition. Zheng Juan is a more traditional woman, at home with children, do housework is not rejected; she does not have the wisdom of Zhou Rong, only went to primary school, there are a number of words are not well understood, after the college entrance examination recovery did not think about the college entrance examination, go to college, because of the low culture, the job is not easy to find, can only be at home like Li Suhua was a housewife; Li Suhua did not wake up in those years to take care of people day and night, Zhou Nan, Feng Yue is still young and also needs to be taken care of, and then Li Suhua woke up, the brain is not very sober and also needs to be taken care of, and the re-mention of care seems to be Zheng Juan, Because Zhou's family has jobs outside and wants to earn money.
When Li Suhua died with Zhou Zhigang, Zhou Nan and Zhou Cong were also older and no longer needed to be taken care of, Zheng Juan ushered in two major blows in her life, one was that Zhou Nan died unexpectedly while studying in the United States, and the other was that Zhou Bingkun died of Luo Shibin due to a fight with Luo Shibin, and then went to prison. Moreover, these two blows occurred in succession, Zhou Nan was Luo Shibin's only son, and Luo Shibin, who had lost his fertility, accused Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan of not returning Zhou Nan to him early because of Zhou Nan's death, and finally had a physical conflict with Zhou Bingkun. Zhou Bingkun was imprisoned for Luo Shibin's serious injuries.
When Zheng Juan went to the United States to bring back Zhou Nan's ashes, she learned that Zhou Bingkun was imprisoned, so she went to ask Zeng Shan and Shui Ziliu to forgive Zhou Bingkun. Because Luo Shibin died after being in a coma for many days, Zhou Bingkun had to be sentenced. After some twists and turns, Zhou Bingkun was finally sentenced to nine years. This judgment has a great impact on Zheng Juan, one is the spiritual level, Zheng Juan has deep feelings for Zhou Bingkun, after experiencing the pain of losing her son, she was sentenced to prison by her husband, which was too big a blow, the second is the material level, Zhou Bingkun is the only source of family income, Zhou Bingkun's imprisonment means that the family income is broken, Zheng Juan and Zhou Bingkun together, are all at home as housewives, suddenly taking over the economic responsibility, need to slowly adapt.
In the face of such a blow, how strong the will is to survive. But Zheng Juan survived, did not go to ask anyone, did not think of letting the system, the big sister-in-law Zhou Rong, the sister-in-law Hao Dongmei, and the eldest brother Zhou Bingyi take care of it, only asked her husband's good friends Xiao Guoqing and Sun Chaochao to get a car and a pot, sell baked sweet potatoes in winter, and sell popsicles in summer to earn money to live a life. Of course, Zhou Rong and Hao Dongmei could not bear that Zheng Juan's life was so bitter, and once a monthly salary would take out some money to receive help, Sun Chaochao and Yu Hong saw that Zheng Juan's life was not good, and because Sun Xiaoning had said before that they did not give money to Zheng Juan's house, they would give Zheng Juan some money from time to time, which was rent. These allowed Zheng Juan's life to be maintained, and when Zhou Bingkun came out and wanted to buy a truck to start a business, Zheng Juan also took out more than six thousand yuan she had saved.
Think about if you rely solely on the help of relatives and friends, Zheng Juan can't rely on that little money to support herself and her son Zhou Cong, nor can she come up with more than six thousand yuan, let alone send Zhou Cong to high school and college, she can rely on her own hands to basically achieve self-reliance, survivability and tenacity are worthy of recognition. This is worth learning, but also we can learn, life is not smooth, when facing setbacks, especially when zheng juan suffered a huge blow, should be strong, have confidence in the future, rely on both hands to support a home, otherwise want to survive only afraid of difficulty.
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