During the period of chasing "The World of Man", a conclusion was drawn, that is, Zhou Bingkun's life was too difficult.
When he was a child, his brothers and sisters left one after another and threw the family to him, at first his mother was fine when she was healthy, but after Zhou's mother fell ill, all the burdens were on Zhou Bingkun.
Fortunately, with Zheng Juan, Zhou Bingkun was able to survive the most difficult days. During that time, he served his comatose mother, took care of his sister's daughter, raised other people's children, and had to solve various problems for the six little gentlemen.
After Zhou Bingkun's career was on the right track, Luo Shibin ran to grab the child again, fortunately, Zhou Nan's plasticity was very strong, although there was a brief swing, but under the correct guidance of the two of them, Zhou Nan waited until after graduating from college before going to see Luo Shibin.
Although in the follow-up story, Zhou Nan recognized Luo Shibin, in his heart, the status of Zhou Bingkun's two sons has never changed.
The weather was unpredictable, the day was just a little better, but Zhou Nan had an accident. When at the airport, Zhou Bingkun and Luo Shibin did not agree with each other, and Zhou Bingkun accidentally killed Luo Shibin and suffered nine years in prison.
After being released from prison, Zhou Bingkun was already forty-eight years old, and the best years of his life were wasted in vain.
As the text on the Internet says, Zhou Bingkun is the most like Zhou Zhigang, and over the years, no matter how much suffering he has suffered, he has "chewed and swallowed" and has never complained.
Zhou Bingkun has many shining points, such as kindness, such as strength, such as optimism, but in my intuition, what I admire most is his independence.
Zhou Bingyi's officials became bigger and bigger, and Zhou Rong's life became happier and happier, but over the years, he basically did not open his mouth to them.
Screenshot of the TV series "The World"
In my memory, in the plot of the first fifty episodes, the number of times Zhou Bingkun asked Zhou Bingyi for help, one hand could count it.
The reason why it has become like this is because of Cai Xiaoguang's incident.
At the beginning, Cai Xiaoguang was admitted to the university, but the factory was deliberately difficult, and there was really no recruitment, Cai Xiaoguang found Zhou Bingkun, and wanted to ask Hao Jinlong to intervene in this matter through Zhou Bingyi's relationship.
Although this matter was finally resolved, since then, the Hao family has been estranged from the Zhou family, and decades have passed, and the fathers of the two families have not met.
From God's point of view, I can't say that Hao Jinlong and Jin Yueji are selfish, but they are somewhat overly cautious, after all, the Zhou family has never been inflammatory.
(Of course, the Zhou family is not a person who tends to be inflamed, but it does not mean that other people are not, and once they open their mouths, they do not know how much trouble will be made.) ）
In my intuition, the reason why Zhou Bingkun did not ask Zhou Bingyi for help in the event was also because of this matter.
Many people say that Zhou Bingyi is selfish, but from another point of view, this is just the highest side of Zhou Bingkun's personality, although he does not read much, but he can understand people very well, and knows the difficulties of his brothers and sisters, so no matter what he encounters, he only thinks about carrying himself and never opens his mouth to Zhou Bingkun.
However, Zhou Bingkun never expected that even if he did not open his mouth, things related to him would involve Zhou Bingyi.
Because of the things that Zhou Bingkun compiled, the people who wanted to be installed by others were not solved, Zhou Bingyi offended a secretary, if it were not for Jin Yueji's help, it is likely that Zhou Bingyi would be the so-called director of the research office all his life, and he would not be able to do anything practical.
Of course, after so many years, Zhou Bingyi never mentioned this matter to Zhou Bingyi.
The second time Zhou Bingkun opened his mouth with Zhou Bingyi, it was also for the sake of others.
That time, Sun Chaochao was pitted, not only facing huge compensation, but also facing the disaster of imprisonment. He did not dare to tell his wife Yu Hong about such a thing, and could only complain to Zhou Bingkun.
Because of this incident, Zhou Bingkun opened his mouth to Zhou Bingyi for the second time.
At that time, Zhou Bingkun went to look for Zhou Bingyi, but Zhou Bingyi went to deal with the workers' troubles, Zhou Bingkun did not see Zhou Bingyi, and when Zhou Bingyi was busy with the things at hand, Zhou Bingkun had already returned home, and he had to go home to find his brother.
Hearing that his brother had been busy for a day without even eating, Zhou Bingkun was very distressed, and he wanted to find his brother to help him and swallowed it back.
"What's the matter?"
Although Zhou Bingkun did not open his mouth, but what kind of personality his brother was, Zhou Bingyi knew it and took the initiative to ask about his brother.
"Since I came, you said, there is nothing you can do to go to the organ to find me."
"Anything can be done, but if it can't be done, don't blame me."
Even though Zhou Bingyi had already spoken to this point, Zhou Bingkun still couldn't bear to trouble his brother and said that he wanted to "do business on business" .
In the face of his brother's hesitation, Zhou Bingkun said two words - "say things", and then said a sentence of "what you let me judge for myself." ”
Many people don't understand Zhou Bingyi, sun catches up with the matter he shot, but when Zhou Bingkun is in prison, he does nothing, but in my opinion, only in this way is the most normal -
Sun Chaochao's incident, Sun Chaochao was originally a victim, Zhou Bingyi to help reasonable and legal; but Zhou Bingkun's manslaughter, Yu Qing, Zhou Bingyi should help, but Yu Is reasonable, Zhou Bingyi should not help.
After all, Luo Shibin at that time was the object of Jichun City's investment promotion, and once it was not handled well, it would negate all the achievements of Jichun City's reform and opening up.
Zhou Bingkun was very stubborn, and after he got out of prison, he was still the same as before, no matter how difficult the days were, he did not open his mouth to his brother and sister. There are two reasons for this -
First, in the years he was imprisoned, although Zhou Bingkun worked in the field and did not go to see him (some people say that this is not true, but this is the most true, a friend works in a township office, his home is in a neighboring county, but in a whole year, he went home once and only stayed for three days), but all these years, Hao Dongmei has been sending money to Zheng Juan.
Although Zheng Juan was also trying to earn money, according to the economic situation at that time, the money Zheng Juan earned was simply not enough to maintain the life of mother and son.
Although the money was sent by Hao Dongmei, they were two sons, and Zhou Bingyi definitely supported this matter.
As for the second, it was because Zhou Bingkun knew that if he opened his mouth to his brother and sister, according to the character of his brother and sister, he would only give him money and would not let him return it at all.
Zhou Bingkun, who had been strong for most of his life, would not bother his brother and sister at all.
Therefore, when he lacked money to buy a car, he would rather go to Cao Debao and Qiao Chunyan for help than to say to Zhou Bingyi, but when he borrowed money, he found that friends and friends were not the same, and Cao Debao was not willing to borrow money at all.
There was really no way, Zheng Juan first told Zhou Rong about this matter, and then persuaded Zhou Bingkun to borrow money from his brother and sister, and Zhou Bingkun reluctantly told Zhou Bingyi about this matter (did not say borrowing money).
As soon as Zhou Bingkun opened his mouth, the next day Zhou Bingyi and Zhou Rong immediately sent him money, solved Zhou Bingkun's problems, and took the first step in starting a business.
When I saw this scene, I suddenly remembered a sentence - when life is the most difficult, it will always be your relatives who can really stand behind you.
Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan understand Zhou Bingyi's difficulties and have not been looking for Zhou Bingyi's help, but in their hearts, there is always a knot, especially Zheng Juan, who has not been able to understand why Zhou Bingyi did not help Zhou Bingkun get rid of the crime, of course, the reason why Zheng Juan will be like this, not because of resentment, but because of heartache, heartache for her husband.
Some people say that this is a flaw in Zheng Juan's personality, but in my cognition, Zheng Juan's performance is the most real -
The reason why we feel that Zhou Bingyi is selfish is because in the hearts of those of us who are grassroots, we all have the idea of "one person becoming an official, and the chicken and dog ascend to heaven", and we will feel that when Zhou Bingyi becomes an official, he should do more things for his family, but we forget that Zhou Bingyi, as a member of the public family, also has his last resort.
So that day, after Zhou Bingkun was drunk, Zheng Juan took the initiative to ask about it.
"I don't help him because I said it didn't count." Although Zhou Bingyi did not say it thoroughly, Zheng Juan quickly understood, "Emperor Laozi, and the common people are in charge." ”
The knots in her heart were unraveled, Zheng Juan was immediately relieved, and we were also relieved outside the play.
Suddenly, I felt that Zhou Bingkun's greatest luck in this life was to marry Zheng Juan's wife, if it were not for Zheng Juan's persuasion, he would not have told Zhou Bingyi about his own business, and he might not have succeeded in starting a business.
On the other hand, if it were not for Zheng Juan taking the initiative to open her mouth, they might have a gap in their hearts until they died.
Some words must be said, whether it is a misunderstanding or a request, whether it is a relative or a friend, just like Zhou Bingyi's words - "Anything can be done, and if it can't be done, you don't blame me." ”
But if you don't say it, you probably won't be able to do anything.
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