In the latest update of the plot of "The World of Man", I was punched in the face because of Qiao Chunyan.
Frankly, at the beginning of the story, Qiao Chunyan was my favorite character, because of her sobriety in the world, but also because of her firm choice in love.
It's just a pity that no matter how beautiful the love, in the end, it has lost to the cruel reality, and even with Qiao Chunyan, it has become the way we hate it the most.
To be fair, over the years, qiao Chunyan has helped Zhou Bingkun's family the most, but later, Qiao Chunyan's mentality has been unbalanced.
In the "big pot rice" era, Qiao Chunyan was the backbone of the bath's business, and he has always achieved the position of deputy director, as for Cao Debao, although he did not have the status of Qiao Chunyan, he worked in the soy sauce factory, and the salary treatment was not bad.
At that time, Qiao Chunyan, the spring breeze was proud, not only good for his brothers and sisters, but also very good for Cao Debao's family.
However, after the end of the turbulent years, Qiao Chunyan was removed and became a foot-rubbing worker again. After experiencing such a situation, Qiao Chunyan really felt the warmth and coldness of human feelings, and it turned out that those colleagues who were pestering her also began to point fingers at her.
As the story slowly progresses, the relationship between Cao Debao and Qiao Chunyan also has problems.
After Cao Debao's father died, Cao Debao wanted to do a big job, but the family did not have much money, and if he did it, he might not be able to live a long time. After a big fight between the two, Cao Debao proposed to divorce Qiao Chunyan and moved in with his mother.
Of course, this matter is only a lead, in the previous story, Cao Debao has fallen in love with other girls, although he will not divorce Qiao Chunyan because of this matter, but Qiao Chunyan wants to rent out his mother's house, which completely touches his bottom line.
Screenshot of the TV series "The World"
If it is only like this, we will still think that the problem is in Qiao Chunyan, although we all know Qiao Chunyan's knife mouth tofu heart, but in all fairness, in their marriage, Qiao Chunyan is also too strong.
However, as the story progressed, I found that the problems between them were not all in Qiao Chunyan, and Cao Debao himself was also responsible.
Needless to say, the original photon film six little gentlemen, Lü Chuan and Tang Xiangyang, have long changed their fate through the college entrance examination, and Zhou Bingkun left the soy sauce factory in order to prove himself, and also did a career.
The other two people who were similar to Cao Debao, Sun Chaochao and Xiao Guoqing, also had a hard time, but in my intuition, the two of them also performed better than Cao Debao.
Sun Chaochao is very hard, whether it is doing odd jobs or later flipping business, he is trying to live.
As for Xiao Guoqing, although he had an inattentive daughter-in-law, his original intention had never changed, whether it was when he was a janitor in the military factory or when Zhou Bingkun came to collect the house, he knew what he should do most.
Only Cao Debao, since beating him out of work, has been staying at home and has never taken the initiative to look for a job.
Of course, this also has a certain relationship with Qiao Chunyan. I have to admit that Qiao Chunyan is really powerful, after working as a pedicure woman for a period of time, she became the chairman of the district women's federation, there is a person in the family who eats public meals, even the house is divided into units, Cao Debao can also stay at home as a "family cook".
However, the problem is that with the development of the times, Qiao Chunyan's cultural level is not enough, and she was taken from the position of director of the Women's Federation and once again became a pedicure woman, fortunately, there is a deputy manager's name, and there is no need to be as popular as it was at the beginning.
However, there is also a side effect, that is, the women's federation wants to take back their original house.
Blessings are incomparable, and misfortunes are not alone. Things are not going well at work, and things are a mess at home.
When Qiao Chunyan returned home that day, Cao Debao told her that her mother had lost the hospitalization certificate and wanted Qiao Chunyan to issue a certificate to her mother in their unit so that she could be reimbursed.
Because of this incident, the two had a big fight.
Later, they found Zhou Bingkun and wanted to find Zhou Bingyi to find a job for Cao Debao through Zhou Bingkun, so that the two of them could also have a relatively high income and go out to rent a house.
Outside the play, we all know that since joining the shi, Zhou Bingyi has cherished his political feathers very much, and even if Zhou Bingkun has a problem, he does not dare to help easily; of course, Zhou Bingkun has always been very conscious, except for Cai Xiaoguang's incident, he has never found trouble for Zhou Bingyi.
Now that Qiao Chunyan was doing this, it was really difficult for Zhou Bingkun.
Zhou Bingkun was embarrassed, but Qiao Chunyan did not see it this way, Zhou Bingkun suggested that Cao Debao and Sun Chaochao do odd jobs, but also make a lot of money, Qiao Chunyan immediately blamed Zhou Bingkun for forgetting everyone's love.
Later, because Zhou Bingkun helped Sun catch up, Qiao Chunyan was even more reluctant and immediately found Zhou Bingkun, saying that Zhou Bingkun should not divide his friends into three, six, nine, and so on.
However, she forgot that the situation in their family was completely different from Sun Chaochao's family, and if Zhou Bingkun did not help Sun catch up, she would probably go to jail, but their family was not like this.
For this, Zhou Bingkun said it very well -
"You say that your family will not be able to eat, the big guys help you, that should be; but your family can't eat meat, you say let the big guys help you, there is excess to help you, yes, you say that this is not superfluous, then it should not be, you should not be polite." 」
Thinking about it carefully, if Cao Debao is a little more reliable, Qiao Chunyan will not live to this point.
Back to the beginning of the story, the reason why Qiao Chunyan likes Cao Debao is because she saw Cao Debao playing the harmonica, in other words, she fell in love with Cao Debao at first sight.
The union between them, to paraphrase the current parlance, is a real flash marriage.
Remember that Cao Debao once said that what he wanted to marry was the daughter of a high-ranking cadre who had fallen into distress, and Qiao Chunyan was not the ideal object he wanted at all.
Although I don't know how deep Cao Debao's feelings for Qiao Chunyan really are, from the perspective of being a husband, Cao Debao is unqualified, and even their sons are not as good as -
Cao Niu niu couldn't go to college and knew how to move bricks to earn money to prove himself, but Cao Debao didn't seem to do anything except nibble on his daughter-in-law at home.
At this point, Zhou Rong and Qiao Chunyan are also a little similar.
Although he didn't like the fact that Feng Huacheng had cheated on him, since he arrived in Jichun, he had been working hard for their little family, but a literati who had no ambitions really couldn't give Zhou Rong real happiness.
However, after Zhou Rong remarried to Cai Xiaoguang, she immediately became the young girl again, and the most important thing is that from the situation that the family of three got along later, although Feng Yue has not changed her name to Cai Xiaoguang's father, it can be seen that in this family, Feng Yue is very happy.
Just think, if Zhou Rong continues to live with Feng Huacheng, I don't know what virtue they will live their lives into.
(Although many people say that Zhou Rong is not worthy of Cai Xiaoguang, from the later story, Cai Xiaoguang is really the most suitable person for Zhou Rong.) ）
It is said that in the later stories, Qiao Chunyan will be further blackened, and I am not surprised by such an ending, after all, their life in a chicken feather is all supported by Qiao Chunyan.
People often say that the best feng shui in a family is the hostess of the family, but we have forgotten that this sentence should also have the second half of the sentence, that is, the biggest confidence of a family is the male owner of the family.
If in a family, it is always just one of the parties to fight alone, and the other half will definitely be particularly tired.
Just like Cao Debao and Qiao Chunyan in the story, if Cao Debao can be as positive as Qiao Chunyan, no matter how much difficulty occurs, they will definitely be able to survive.
Just like Feng Huacheng and Zhou Rong in the story, if Zhou Rong is not so idealistic and can live in reality like Feng Huacheng, they may have been assigned to the house long ago.
This is the case in the TV series, and marriage in reality is actually rarely an exception.
Those couples are very powerful, and when they encounter things, they can face each other kindly together, no matter how difficult it is, they can survive it.
Just like Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan in the story, along the way, they have encountered more wind and rain than any other family, but under their side-by-side combat, they have overcome most of the difficulties along the way, not only supporting their own small family, but also becoming the backbone of everyone.
Of course, there are some exceptions.
I remember that in "Meritorious Service", someone once commented on the relationship between Too Min and Yuqin - "Men top the country, women top the family, even if we are not together, as long as we can become each other's strong backing, we are the best couple." ”
However, such a person, it is precisely because they marry (marry) the right person that they have such a harmonious relationship, but if they can not give each other a solid reliance, they may have already divided up.
So, before we choose to get married, be sure to polish our eyes.
(Originality is not easy, if there is a reprint, please indicate the source.) ）