Wen | Wu Qingqian
In the TV series "The World of Man", Qiao Chunyan has two major characteristics, one is the supremacy of interests, greed and selfishness, and the other is self-righteousness, always feeling that he is very smart. The first point is that in the face of self-interest, she will always choose interests, no matter how strong the friendship, how good the friends have to give way, even for the iron brothers who grew up together and the brother Zhou Bingkun is no exception; the second point, let her often treat people as fools, train her acting skills around interests, feel good about herself, and think that honest people like Zhou Bingkun can't see it.
Qiao Chunyan has always felt that Zhou Bingkun is not a shrewd person, even a little stupid person, at least compared to her and Cao Debao's stupidity, helping people can help to the end, even if they suffer losses, they do not know how to use relationships to live a good life, only know how to do it. It is precisely because he feels that Brother Gan is stupid, Qiao Chunyan always sells misery in front of Brother Gan again and again around interests, using Zhou Bingkun.
Once it was for the mother-in-law to reimburse more than 700 yuan of medical expenses.
Once, Qiao Chunyan's mother-in-law accidentally lost more than 700 medical invoices, and without invoices, she could not be reimbursed. In the early 1990s, more than 700 pieces was not a small amount, plus at this time, Qiao Chunyan was informed by Hua Jie, director of the District Women's Federation, to return the house she had divided when she was the deputy director of the District Women's Federation, and she wanted to get the money for medical expenses back. In order to get this large amount of money back, Qiao Chunyan started the idea of Zhou Bingyi, who was already executive vice mayor. Knowing that she and Zhou Bingyi had little intersection and shallow affection, and could not even meet each other, she planned to borrow Zhou Bingkun's hand to achieve her goal. Ran to Zhou Bingkun, who had moved back to the old house, for help.
After Qiao Chunyan sat for a long time and waited for Brother Gan to come back, he first said about the house, thinking about saying that he would soon have no place to live in this relatively big thing, so that Brother Gan would sympathize, and then talk about the invoice for the mother-in-law's medical expenses, if Brother Gan took the initiative to say that it was best to find Zhou Bingyi to help, he also used the word to force people to die, and tried to show how miserable it would be after his house was taken back. Unexpectedly, Zhou Bingkun did not think that the house was difficult for her here, and suggested that Cao Debao, who was unemployed after the collapse of the soy sauce factory, find a job, plus Qiao Chunyan, and go out to rent a house. Cao Debao, who had been eating soft rice for some time, also wanted to find something to do, and when he saw Zhou Bingkun say this, he asked the other party to help him sum up. Zhou Bingkun then suggested that he learn from his grandson to catch up and go to the labor market to do odd jobs, and Cao Debao, who was as high-hearted as his wife, could not look at the odd jobs and refused with a look of disgust.
Zhou Bingkun's suggestion also made Qiao Chunyan feel aggrieved by her husband, underestimating the strength of their husband and wife, plus the house Zhou Bingkun did not say to find Zhou Bingyi to help, a little angry Qiao Chunyan also said the invoice directly. Zhou Bingkun's answer still disappointed her, and she made it clear that she could not help. Qiao Chunyan is not dead-hearted, and it is to take many years of friendship, but also to take the neighbors to say things, but also said that just such a little broken, in your brother's deputy mayor is still a matter, a word of things, ah, but also said to find Zhou Bingkun's sister-in-law Hao Dongmei to do some other invoice reimbursement. This is nakedly faking and favoritism, how could Zhou Bingkun, who has always been honest and responsible, let his brother and sister-in-law do such a thing, Qiao Chunyan's request is not sensible. This made Qiao Chunyan sprinkle up, saying that she just didn't understand things, and strongly asked Zhou Bingkun to help her. Zhou Bingkun was also very annoyed, saying that the government was opened by your family or by my family, and asked her to go directly to his brother, what is the use of looking for him, and asked Qiao Chunyan to think about others. Qiao Chunyan knew that the invoice was gone, and left angrily, no matter what Brother Gan thought of her.
Once for the house to be taken back.
Qiao Chunyan's house in the Women's Federation was originally asked by sister Hua to move after the Spring Festival, but Qiao Chunyan has been dragging her feet and dragging for more than half a year. After being urged by Sister Hua again, in order to continue to delay, Qiao Chunyan invited Sister Hua to a banquet at Zhou Bingkun's Ji Dining Hall Restaurant and sent money to Sister Hua. But Sister Hua refused, which made Qiao Chunyan unable to get off the table, and Sister Hua discussed seniority, vented her dissatisfaction, and as a result, she was scolded by Sister Hua, letting her find reasons in herself, don't always think that her sister Hua has always been in the position of director is only by her husband, but also let Qiao Chunyan die and then delay the heart of moving, if you do not move before the tenth of the next month, it will be enforced.
This result made Qiao Chunyan sprinkle all her anger on Zhou Bingkun, thinking that Zhou Bingkun did not help her to become what she is today, and regardless of the face of brother Gan, ran to Zhou Bingkun, who was still working, and said something that he had broken off relations with Zhou Bingkun, asking Zhou Bingkun's friends to be divided into three, six, nine, and so on, the thing to catch up with is your help, you begged your brother, why can't I help it? Don't you just let your brother get some invoices to reimburse the old lady for seven hundred dollars.
Zhou Bingkun did not feel that he was at a loss, thinking that he helped Sun catch up with Chao and helped Qiao Chunyan was not the same, not a matter of deep affection, but of a different nature. Sun Chaochao was cheated of money, if he didn't help, Sun Chaochao had to go to jail, and then what to do with Yu Hong and the child, he asked his brother Zhou Bingyi to help Sun Catch up with the person who cheated the money to find and get the money back, which is not illegal, but also in line with morality; and Qiao Chunyan's invoice is a fraud, it is absolutely impossible to open this head, once it is opened, it will be repaid later, not to say far, the house will definitely let Zhou Bingyi help again, this is not only harmful to Qiao Chunyan, but also harmful to his brother, not to mention that without these seven hundred pieces, they will not live the same life. But Qiao Chunyan was quite unreasonable, thinking that there was no difference in nature, only a difference in who to treat as a friend, and said that once the leadership building was moved, their whole family had to sleep on the street, she had already informed the brothers and sisters to help her move things on the tenth of the next month, zhou Bingkun was not a buddy sister, so she did not have to go.
They all broke off relations, which shows how angry Qiao Chunyan is, this is not only for the invoice, but also for the house, originally thought of both benefits to be fished, but now they can't get the same, and they are angry to break off relations with Brother Gan. In fact, even if Qiao Chunyan moved out of the leadership building, it was not as tragic as she said, Cao Debao was an only son, there was a house in the family, and her mother's family also had a house, whether she moved back to the Cao family or her mother's family, there was a place to live, and she would not have to sleep on the street. These Zhou Bingkun knew that naturally did not buy her account.
In the end, it is still Qiao Chunyan's greed and selfishness at work, although her family background is not as good as Zhou Bingkun, and there is no longer a compilation at work, but since Zhou Bingkun moved back to the old house from the new house, she lived best among several friends, the house has its own bathroom, running water, which makes her feel superior to her friends, every year the party is to call everyone to her house to get together, it can be said that the house is where she can get when comparing with Zhou Bingkun. If you move back to the Cao family or the mother's house, it is not all a house with light characters, you have to go to the public toilet to go to the toilet, and the water must be mentioned to the place where the tap water is, and the place where you have to go is gone, of course, you are not willing to move back. If you accept Zhou Bingkun's previous suggestion to rent a house, the house is on the grade, you can continue her sense of superiority, but burn money, she does not want to spend this money, spent this money in other aspects of the quality of life will be greatly reduced, after all, Cao Debao has no job.
This determined that when the boss Qin Zong wanted her to introduce Zhou Bingyi to him for the transaction to rent her a house, he would definitely achieve Qin Zong's wishes at all costs. When Qin Zong proposed this transaction, Qiao Chunyan was moved, but he had a headache when he remembered that he had broken off relations with Zhou Bingkun the other day, and if the relationship with Zhou Bingkun was not good, how could he let Qin Zong bend over to Zhou Bingyi. In the end, It was Qiao Mother who thought of a solution for her, first accepted Qin Zong's request, moved to a new house, and invited Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan to come on the grounds of happy moving to a new house, and Zhou Bingkun did not dare not come because of his affection. Zhou Bingkun did go, and also brought Zheng Juan and brought a lot of gifts, but not to hinder the face, but to cherish friendship.
After Zhou Bingkun went to Qiao Chunyan's new house, he saw Qin Zong, and then Qin Zong invited guests at the Ji Shan Tang Restaurant from time to time, and also made a business card for him, how could he not know the reason why Qiao Chunyan suddenly took back the words of breaking off diplomatic relations and reconciled with him as before, but he was not at ease about the supremacy of the interests of his sister, just like Cai Xiaoguang tolerated Zhou Rong's selfishness, but he was for friendship, and Cai Xiaoguang was for love.
Once was to refuse Zhou Bingkun's loan after he was released from prison.
After Zhou Bingkun was released from prison, he lost his staff and work in prison, and he saw that everywhere was demolition, planning to take a driver's license and buy a truck to do the business of pulling goods. But the family's deposit is only more than six thousand yuan, and I don't want to borrow from my brother and sister, thinking that qiao Chunyan and Cao Debao are the richest among several friends, I want to borrow sixty thousand yuan from them, saying that I will pay it back according to the bank interest. Qiao Chunyan did not want to borrow at the beginning, but learned the lesson of the last time he broke off his friendship, did not dare to refuse easily, said hurtful words, even if one day he wanted to use Zhou Bingyi's relationship, the brother could not be pulled up again, so verbally happy, cheerful and cheerfully agreed, but then very naturally made up Cao Debao just entered a batch of cables, bought back and did not sell, Lai Laosan owed them eighty thousand yuan, tomorrow to ask for money lies, but also kicked Cao Debao with his feet, suggesting that the other party lied together. Cao Debao immediately understood the spirit, acted in partnership with his wife, and performed a state of attaching more importance to brotherhood and inserting knives for friends, which made Zhou Bingkun moved and felt that the good life was far away.
As a result, the husband and wife summed up in the evening, unified thinking, and resolutely did not borrow. Cao Debao wanted to borrow, although they had a total of sixty-five thousand, but they didn't owe debts, and the house also existed. Also said that Kun Er is quite business-minded, he used to do that bookstore, restaurant, do one into one, this time he wants to become again, we can also follow the money, my current business has no tomorrow, it is not legal, so it is better to borrow money as an investment. But Qiao Chunyan's attitude was very resolute when he proposed to borrow money from his brother gan to the husband and wife to discuss the matter of borrowing money - not to borrow, saying that he was brave enough to die, how old was Bingkun this year, he had been in it for seven or eight years, these seven or eight years, how much has this social change, you don't say him, we are a bit unable to keep up, if he can't pay the money, what to do? We can't force him to ask for it. The problem is that he himself is not strong, his brother in Beijing, the director of the obstetrics and gynecology department of his sister-in-law's provincial people's hospital, his sister's university professor, his brother-in-law's famous director, we can use it all in the future? Why doesn't he care about his brother and his sister borrowing it, that person's family background is stronger than ours, the status is higher than ours, you say that his family is so powerful, why borrow money to borrow our people's heads? It must be that the brother and sister do not borrow it, and they are worried that they will not be able to pay it back. So the husband and wife completely agreed and did not borrow.
The next day, Qiao Chunyan bought a bunch of food to the Zhou family, and said that Lai Laosan sent it, Lai Laosan wanted to continue to pay the account, Debao went to their house to find him, ran, hid, when can we get the money back We have no bottom, this money is afraid that it can not be borrowed. We will continue to collect debts, and we will send you the money back. I also blame the embarrassment, I will send Lai Laosan to you, it is an apology. Zhou Bingkun is not stupid, as soon as he hears it, he knows that it is made up, how can Qiao Chunyan let people owe her money, others who do not owe her dare to ask for help, who dares to owe her money. Although Zhou Bingkun was very sad not to borrow money, what made him more sad than Qiao Chun not borrowing money was that His sister cheated on him, and if he didn't want to borrow it, he was not so uncomfortable. However, he still understood Qiao Chunyan, after all, he was a poor egg from prison, and Qiao Chunyan and his wife did not believe that he was normal.
Cao Debao is a bit weak-hearted about this lie, and he is also worried about Zhou Bingkun's anger at him, but Qiao Chunyan is not, saying that Brother Gan really wants to be angry with her, she can't help it, they are not great people, there is no need to be so great, take out all their belongings to start from scratch for others. Gong Weize has also been a friend for so many years, but when they have a problem, he does not care, the friend cannot be trusted, and he has to rely on himself. In this world, if you don't have power, you have to have money. Although Qiao Chunyan's words are also big truths here among ordinary people, Zhou Bingkun is not someone else after all, and has always regarded them as friends, which is again a point of not borrowing, and it is also a lie, it is indeed not authentic, and it is no wonder that Zhou Bingkun is sad.
Qiao Chunyan's little thoughts, she also thought that Brother Gan couldn't guess thoroughly, in fact, Zhou Bingkun was not stupid, he had always been like Mingjing'er, he was kind, he didn't want to embarrass his friends, he cherished friendship very much, and he always chose to forgive His sister. Zhou Bingkun has long seen through Qiao Chunyan as a person, knows Qiao Chunyan's greed and selfishness, treats others as fools, and has pointed out Qiao Chunyan's personal problems many times.
One was when Qiao Chunyan was divorced. Faced with the doubt that Zheng Juan could not understand that Sun Chaochao and Yu Hong were so difficult not to divorce, and Qiao Chunyan and Cao Debao had a good life but wanted to divorce, Zhou Bingkun said that the root cause was that "all are poor, all are rich, there can be no poor and rich." At that time, the secretaries and restaurants run by Zhou Bingkun were very good, and they were regular workers in the publishing house, there were establishments, and they were promoted all the way, and their lives were better than those of Qiao Chunyan and his wife, and Qiao Chunyan, who was not satisfied and had a high heart, not only buried his father-in-law, but also started the idea of the Cao family's house, and wanted to drive his mother-in-law to the countryside to live with his sisters. This annoyed Cao Debao, although Cao Debao obeyed Qiao Chunyan in everything, but he had a very good opinion on Qiao Chunyan's coolness in this matter, so the two divorced.
Second, when Qiao Chunyan asked Zhou Bingkun to solve the problem of her mother-in-law's medical expenses to Zhou Bingyi. Zhou Bingkun was very disappointed in the ignorance of His sister And Cao Debao, they were much better in that day than Sun Chaochao, who did not have a stable job, and Yu Hong, who had been unemployed at home for a long time before finding a cleaning job, but he still sold miserably here, and said that he could not, refused, and sprinkled when he refused, so he told Zheng Juan that Qiao Chunyan and his wife were poor together, if it depends on who is rich, then there are more words. If Zhou Bingkun had a bad life at this time, the business of the hotel and bookstore was not good, there was no mention of being the director of the logistics department, there was no deputy mayor brother Zhou Bingyi, the director of obstetrics and gynecology hao Dongmei's sister-in-law, Qiao Chunyan and his wife were always good among friends, then there would be so many words, running to him to scold and grin.
The third is when Qiao Chunyan and Zhou Bingkun broke off friendship. Qiao Chunyan, because she failed to bribe Hua Jie, learned that Zhou Bingkun asked her brother to help Sun Chaochao to get back the money that had been cheated, but she did not ask her brother to help her, so she was very angry, so she broke off relations with Zhou Bingkun. When he returned home, the water flowed freely, and asked Zhou Bingkun to talk about Qiao Chunyan to see if he could help. But Zhou Bingkun refused, saying don't spoil her, who has nothing to do with life, you said that your family is going to be unable to eat, the big guys help you, but your family can't eat meat, you say let the big guys help you, there is excess to help you, you said that this is no extra, that does not help you, you should not pick a gift. Isn't it Sun Chaochao who can't eat, but Sun Chaochao didn't force Zhou Bingkun, it was Zhou Bingkun who took the initiative to help, and it wasn't Qiao Chunyan who couldn't eat meat and forced people to help, this is typically unsatisfied, well, I want to be better, if I rely on my own efforts to fight for it, the problem is that Qiao Chunyan wants to rely on relationships, and its requirements are still criminal, naturally can't help.
In 1976, when Zhou Bingkun was imprisoned for a poem by his former brother-in-law Feng Huacheng, Qiao Chunyan repeatedly took care of Zheng Juan and Li Suhua; in 2001, when Zhou Bingkun was released from prison because of Luo Shibin's incident, Qiao Chunyan warmly welcomed Zhou Bingkun, and it was also sincere to see Zhou Bingkun come to tears. But these true hearts must not be entangled with interests, once the interests are involved, this true heart has to give way to the interests, then the greed shown is more real, so Zhou Bingkun did not help her solve the medical expenses, the house is also sprinkled and broken, and later asked to borrow money also resolutely do not borrow, not a dime, and finally framed Zhou Bingyi for the matter of dividing the house is even more cruel. However, Zhou Bingkun, an honest man, still chose to forgive, and he did not know where Qiao Chunyan came from, so he made such a friend, just like Zhou Rong met Cai Xiaoguang.
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