This is a story that takes place in the 1950s and 1960s, and is based on the people living in the northern city of Guangzi film community zhou surnamed Zhou as the main line, showing the ups and downs of the Zhou family's parents and children, their relatives and friends, in the vicissitudes of the years after career setbacks, emotional changes, and changes in the times.
After eight years of painstaking efforts, the author Liang Xiaosheng has created a real humanized and socialized work for us, restoring the sophistication of human feelings in the world but warm and touching moments, a "human world", earning enough tears from the world, and also exhausting the truth of this world.
About parents
For children, parents are the backing, but also synonymous with home, parents are here, life still has a way to go, parents go, life is only the way home. Parents are there, that is, home is there, parents go, then there is no home, brothers and sisters, are just rootless duckweed, can do filial piety for parents, is the happiness of children.
Regarding the filial piety to parents, Feng Huacheng once said that filial piety in raising the mouth and body and nourishing the mind, taking care of the body and food of the parents is filial piety, and achieving fame brings a sense of accomplishment to the parents is also happiness, the eldest son of the Zhou family, Zhou Bingyi, and the eldest daughter Zhou Rong are the latter, and the second son, Zhou Bingkun, is the former.
As the younger son of the Zhou family, there are old knots of brother and sister, and the mother's eyes are loved, Zhou Bingkun should receive the most attention and love, but at the same time, the weight he bears is also the most.
From childhood to adulthood, his brother and sister have excellent grades, after the resumption of the college entrance examination, they were admitted to Peking University, only he was mediocre, he experienced twists and turns in the wood factory soy sauce factory, even the Spring Festival relatives, only the elder brother and sister were praised, he was always the most inconspicuous person, but he was the child who took care of the most around his parents, and he was the person who paid the most for the whole family.
When Zhou Mother was seriously ill and comatose, it was also Zhou Bingkun who was taking care of her, her parents had something to do, the first reaction came to mind only this little son, even Zhou Mother said that only Bingkun made her feel most at ease, her brother and sister could work outside with peace of mind, and it was indispensable that Bingkun took care of her parents as a backing credit behind her, to a certain extent, their success was also part of Bingkun.
Your parents sign your birth certificate and you sign your parents' death certificate.
Such profound and incisive and tear-jerking words still echo in your ears, your parents witness your growth and long journey, and you witness your parents' aging and sending them away is the norm of life.
Looking at the children of the Zhou family who sent their parents away, Presumably the saddest thing is to accompany their young son Zhou Bingkun, and the most regrettable is that they have not had time to accompany their parents all the time, Zhou Bingyi and Zhou Rong, which are one of the few "reunions" they have.
It's just that from now on, the mountain is far away, the rest of my life is still long, and I will have to rely on myself in the future.
About sophistication and human nature
The friendship of the six little gentlemen in the play is the highlight of the friendship highlighted in the whole play, led by Zhou Bingkun and Cao Debao, six people, in order to successfully buy pork that is difficult to eat on weekdays, formed a small group, the light word piece six little gentlemen, they are young, full of spirit, and each other is never ambiguous.
When Zhou Bingkun had the upper hand in fighting Luo Shibin and Shui Ziliu for Zheng Juan, Cao Debao resolutely came forward to help, when Zhou Mu fell ill and was unconscious, and no one in the house took care of him, Qiao Chunyan helped to massage Zhou Mu's acupuncture points, and taught Zheng Juan, who took care of Zhou Mu, how to massage, and when Zhou Bingkun was implicated in prison because of feng Huacheng's affair, his friends did not say a word to help him take care of his mother.
Qiao Chunyan once said at the dinner table of the friend's party that whoever has difficulties will tell everyone that if they can help, they will help, and if they can't help, it is better to say it than to hold it in their hearts.
It is often said that you rely on your parents at home and your friends when you go out. In life, there are always difficult times, there will be times to ask for people, the existence of friends is like a warm sun in the cold winter moon, a friend is enough to melt the ice of the heart.
If the light character pieces will not be demolished, if everyone's situation is the same, then most people will still believe that their friendship will last forever, but no matter how deep the friendship is, it will not be able to withstand the word human nature.
It is said that it is easy to share the rich and the rich, but in fact, the most difficult thing in this world is the selfishness and greed of human nature, which is more difficult than the common suffering, and the rich and noble, especially the degree of wealth is not the same.
Qiao Chunyan and Cao Debao are the first people to get rich in the light character film, and they are also the first to live in a building with a separate kitchen and toilet, but the desire is difficult to fill, if this person is never content and grateful, he will eventually fall into the quagmire of the swamp of desire, and it is painful and difficult to extricate himself.
In order to give her son Cao Yuanfang an independent house, Qiao Chunyan pretended to be a houseless condition so that Zhou Bingkun was assigned to the house through the relationship of the mayor's brother Zhou Bingyi, but everything was subject to the rules and regulations, not whose relatives could cross the line, because without help, Qiao Chunyan turned his face to Zhou Bingkun, and even reported Zhou Bingyi in real name.
But to whom did Zhou Bingkun's grievances tell him that as the mayor's brother, he had privileges? The answer is clearly no.
I owe you or do you deserve it! It was Zhou Bingkun's desperate grievances and cries.
The so-called Sheng Mi En Dou Mi Vengeance, when helping becomes a natural obligation, paying to give becomes a matter of course, the word friend is a tired shackle, because it is a friend, so you should help me, but they forget that helping itself is not an obligation, helping is a sentiment, not helping is a duty, and there has never been anything that is natural and natural.
Remember Wu Qian, who lived in Bingkun's house? Because the original owner of the Zhou family's new house wanted to come back to live, causing the Zhou family to move back to the old house again, she turned her face on the spot, because Xiao Guoqing did not have a job, they could not afford to rent a house, but she forgot, this house was originally the Zhou family's, difficulty is not the reason to turn the other cheek, poverty is not the fault, the wrong thing is that I am poor, I have no gratitude.
Qiao Chunyan is the same, for self-interest, never consider the situation of others, both self and selfish, the ugly side of human nature is undoubtedly displayed, but the original girl Chunyan is so delicate and cute, bright and moving, even if she is the lowest pedicure, Qiao Chunyan can face it optimistically and break out of her own piece of the sky.
That optimistic and brave Chunyan was lost, and when she called Zhou Bingyi by her name like a shrew in the city, I wanted to ask, did Chunyan ever remember what you looked like? People's hearts are not enough to swallow elephants, and now you are full of calculations and meanness, and the friends around you are scattered one by one, what can you get in the end?
But on the other hand, for a small person like Chunyan who has no backing, from pedicure to leader, he was beaten back to his original shape, ups and downs again and again, through vicissitudes and ups and downs, presumably only by relying on himself to fight for it, he can get what he wants.
Perhaps in the eyes of people, she is bad and selfish, but her difficulty is also painful, if she has the ability, who is willing to calculate.
Speaking of Zhou Bingyi, he is a clean and honest official, bent on being a good official, but the water is clear, there is no fish, many things are not the power of one person, perhaps some people say that his brother did not stain him with any light, even if he was in prison, Bingyi did not come forward, seemingly ruthless, but in fact helpless.
Rights are not tools for doing whatever they want, not to mention that there are greater rights above rights, and who can understand the bowing and helplessness of staying at the governor's in-law's parents-in-law's house, and his difficulties have always been buried in the deepest recesses of his heart.
No matter who it is, what remains unchanged is the sincere and hot heart, the yearning for life.
Human nature has always been the product of beauty and ugliness, good and evil, and in "The World of Man", no one is an absolute good person and a bad person, they have their own evil, but they have their own good.
Knowing the world without sophistication, seeing through the cruel truth and defects of life, still loving life, and sunning all your life, is the real world, this trip will eventually be worth it.