"In the World of Man": The same cadres, why is Mrs. Qu and his wife more humane than Governor Hao's husband and wife

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"The World of Man" is too top,No cheating, divorce of the dog blood plot, no workplace PUA, as soon as it is broadcast, it relies on the fireworks of the story to win the ratings championship, with what?

In addition to being close to life, the fate of interlocking characters, and the performance of old drama bones is particularly exciting, "Human World" shows the complexity of human nature to the fullest.

I remember Keigo Higashino once said:

There are only two things in this world that cannot be looked at directly, one is the sun and the other is the human heart.

The most difficult thing in the world is also the human heart, especially Hao Dongmei quarreled with her mother twice for the sake of her in-laws, and the slap of her mother Jin Yueji made the mother-daughter relationship completely drop to the freezing point.

The root cause of the contradiction between mother and daughter lies in Zhou Bingyi's search for Hao Dongmei and asking her to find her father, Governor Hao, to solve the problem of Cai Xiaoguang's schooling. Although governor Hao later resolved the matter, he also became wary of Zhou Bingyi.

As the saying goes: "The poor are in the downtown area and no one cares, and the rich are in the mountains and everyone climbs." ”

What's more, like Zhou Bingyi, who became the son-in-law of a provincial governor, Governor Hao was afraid that he would use his family affection as a shackle and bring trouble to himself, which was not unreasonable, but he did not want to recognize the Zhou family's family affair, which was really a bit unbearable.

During the special period, Governor Hao and his wife were taken away, and Hao Dongmei was reduced from the original Miss Qianjin to a delegated Zhiqing. The husband and wife are separated from each other, not to mention, dongmei sees her parents, it is even more difficult to go to the blue sky.

For her identity, in this special sensitive period, it was too late to change other people, but the Zhou family took the risk to love and take care of her.

And Zhou Bingyi gave up his career for Dongmei. What the Zhou family gave Hao Dongmei was not only a little warmth in the special period, but also made her feel the preciousness of family affection.

The Hao family owes the Zhou family a great deal of affection, but when governor Hao reinstates and returns to his small Western-style building, everything changes.

Originally, Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei had been married for many years, leaving aside hao's status as governor, it was also common for people to move around with their relatives, but they were deliberately wary of Dongmei's matchmaking, fearing that the power in their hands would be used again.

At the New Year, when Zhou Bingyi delivered the southern specialties and 2 cans of green tea brought by his father from Guizhou, they did not look at it, and the attitude of putting things into the small room without discrimination made people feel indifferent across the screen.

Is it a bit too much to prevent the "back door" of Governor Hao and his wife?

The same leader, the same Zhou family has kindness to her, Qu Xiuzhen's handling of the way, seems more humane.

At that time, Ma Shouchang accidentally slipped in the bathroom, and after being carried onto the flatbed, there was only a thin cotton coat covered, and the weather was more than ten degrees below zero, where could this cotton coat keep warm.

Zhou Bingkun took off his cotton clothes and covered them for the old man, and then sent them to the hospital as quickly as possible, saving Ma Shouchang's life.

After Ma Shouchang was discharged from the hospital, he took Zhou Bingkun's kindness in mind, asked the driver to take Zhou Bingkun to his home, treated him with good food and drink, and arranged a better job for him.

Yu Gong did not violate the principle, yu private also expressed gratitude at the same time, narrowed the distance with young people, and Although Zhou Bingkun was usually a bit wooden, he treated Qu Xiuzhen and his wife as relatives and visited from time to time.

In the eyes of the neighbors of the photon film, their relationship is only warmth, not class. In the face of Zhou Bingkun's intercession, Qu Xiuzhen's handling is more convincing.

When Gong Wei was framed and punished by the Xiong family, Zhou Bingkun couldn't stand it anymore and went to Qu Xiuzhen for help, who ever wanted to be rejected by her.

The reason for the refusal was simple: you can't do anything that violates principles.

I thought that Qu Xiuzhen refused to help Zhou Bingkun again, however, she turned around and went to the photon film to investigate for 3 days to see if what Zhou Bingkun said was true or false.

After the investigation was clear, he gave Bingkun a trick to let him successfully solve the problem under reasonable and legal circumstances.

It turned out that she let Bingkun take advantage of this matter and go to her office to make a big fuss, so that not only would she not be told that she was not in accordance with the procedures, but on the contrary, she could block the mouths of everyone.

Looking at the two leading couples, although Ma Shouchang and Qu Xiuzhen's attitude is also clear between public and private, they are not like Governor Hao and his wife, who are high and arrogant, and they cannot lose the class consciousness in their bones.

In fact, Governor Hao could have gone through the procedure to solve this matter like Qu Xiuzhen taught Bingkun, so why did he nail their family to the pillar of shame of "going through the back door" after the matter was resolved?

The reason is, as Zhou Bingyi said: This is the inevitable result of the status and gap between the two sides. It is really well understood, the problem exists very naturally, but it is impossible to solve it.

Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei were sandwiched in the middle, and the dilemma was also an inevitable result.

Since ancient times, why do marriages and even making friends pay attention to the door?

That's because your background determines your circle, and your circle also determines the three views. Remember that "Jane Eyre" once said:

Love is a game, and it is necessary to remain inseparable and evenly matched with each other in order to rely on each other for a long time. After all, opponents who are too strong are exhausting, and opponents who are too weak are tiresome.

It is believed that after Zhou Bingyi married Hao Dongmei, when he lived in a small bungalow with low popularity, he felt a sense of oppression and even inferiority, although such pressure came from his wife's family.

Love has no boundaries, but married life is not, such a rich and poor or class gap, will be infinitely magnified in the chicken and garlic, become a stumbling block to a happy marriage.

It is said that marriage is a besieged city, may the people in the city, after tasting the bittersweet and bittersweet, see the prosperity of the world, the two can still find the most authentic appearance of each other, and "hate" each other and work together for a lifetime.