Zhou Bingyi plays a loving husband in the play, even if his wife Hao Dongmei can not have children, he has never complained, and even took all the responsibility alone with his parents, saying that it was his own physical problem.
He was willing to live childless for Hao Dongmei, he was willing to accompany her to live with her at her parents-in-law's house, he was not afraid of others laughing at him, for Hao Dongmei he accompanied his father-in-law and mother-in-law and did not have time to go home to see his parents at home...
How to see him is a husband with infinite affection, let the audience call the man of love directly, and let netizens envy Hao Dongmei's love.
But such a perfect husband, almost without any flaws, kissed passionately with other women in a foreign country and out of his wife's sight!
Does he really love Hao Dongmei? I don't think so!
01
Passionate kisses from a foreign land, if he had no heart for the blonde? Impossible!
Otherwise, how could they kiss so deeply, so focused, so devoted?
Under the guise of work, Zhou Bingyi is out of his wife's sight, without the bondage of his mother-in-law, like a wild horse that is out of reins, letting his thoughts fly, letting his emotions run wild, letting his hot kisses fly at will, and working and dashing are not wrong!
If he had always had Hao Dongmei in his heart, how could he go to the blonde's house for a banquet in a foreign country?
After all, home is a relatively private place, a place where relatively close friends meet.
Not only that, but the blonde also invited her family to get together!
Zhou Bingyi's performance in a foreign country is completely different from his performance in China, and perhaps he thinks that no one knows him abroad, his wife at home will not know, and his mother-in-law will not see it. Otherwise how could he be so arrogant?
Look at what a docile man he is when he is at home, obedient to his wife and parents-in-law, honest and honest, not only the image of a good husband, but also the standard of a good son-in-law!
Maybe Zhou Bingyi in a foreign country is the real Zhou Bingyi, a man who is casual, a man who is not repressed, and a man who releases himself!
He played an affectionate husband in front of Hao Dongmei, only because Hao Dongmei had parents in important positions.
After graduating from Peking University, he no longer wants to live a hard life, he has to think about his future and think about the future, there is no doubt that Hao Dongmei is a noble person in his career!
02
In the past and at present, few men are willing to abandon their parents and live in their mother-in-law's house.
Zhou Bingyi willingly moved with Hao Dongmei into the high-rise building of his mother-in-law's house, ignoring the gossip that he said he had inserted the door upside down.
If Hao Dongmei's parents were ordinary workers like his parents, living in a poor place full of mud like light production, would he still live with his parents-in-law?
I think it certainly won't!
The reality is that the father-in-law is the governor of the province, and the mother-in-law is also a high-ranking official. They were not in the right household, so much so that my father-in-law and mother-in-law never met with my family.
Zhou Bingyi understood this, but did he really have no opinion? He is also a mortal with flesh and blood, an ordinary person with thoughts and feelings.
But one thing is for sure, it is that his father-in-law and mother-in-law have helped him in his career, after all, he is their son-in-law, half a son, and his future is their daughter's future.
Zhou Bingyi is very obedient in front of his mother-in-law, and his mother-in-law is also a master of the workplace, and in reason, he arranges his work clearly, so that his wishes can be fulfilled and his heart is full of flowers.
With such a high-ranking person pointing out the work, how could Zhou Bingyi not take some practical actions to express his gratitude?
You see him walking and chatting with his mother-in-law, and even during the holidays, he didn't go home to see his parents who lived in the old house that was leaking on all sides and was about to collapse, but lovingly took his mother-in-law's arm and walked around the high-cadre residential area!
He had a good conversation with his wife and mother-in-law, and even forgot about his parents who lived in the light film.
If a person does not honor his parents, but blindly caters to his parents-in-law, do you think it is normal?
If Hao Dongmei's parents were not high-ranking cadres, would Zhou Bingyi still ignore his parents and accompany his mother-in-law to talk about the world and let her mother-in-law enjoy the joy of heaven?
Some people say: There is no unprovoked love in this world, and there is no unprovoked hate!
Zhou Bingyi's filial piety to his father-in-law and mother-in-law surpassed that of his own parents, and everything had a reason.
03
Zhou Bingyi always thinks about further development in his work, and he understands that only academic qualifications are not enough, but also have rights.
Because he saw that Zhou Rong was also a high-achieving student at Peking University, he didn't even have a house for so many years, so that his daughter couldn't get around.
Zhou Bingyi is his father's pride, and he also thinks of Guangzong Yaozu, so he is focused on his work and wants to make some achievements.
In order to work, he and Hao Dongmei were separated from each other for a long time, and Hao Dongmei alone took on all the family's possessions.
A person moves, a person faces a chicken feather in life, and a person faces the pain and pressure at work.
Zhou Bingyi only had work in his heart, and he could not see Hao Dongmei's hard work of moving alone, being beaten by the patient's family, and returning to the loneliness and loneliness of the empty home alone.
After Hao Dongmei lost her parents, Zhou Bingyi was her only relative, but when she needed him the most, he was busy with work and had no time to take care of her feelings.
Loving someone will always take time to give her a warm greeting at the right time; it will also give her a shoulder to lean on when she needs it; and it will hug her when she loses a loved one and give her a little strength.
Later, Zhou Bingyi finally transferred his work and returned to Hao Dongmei's side, but he was already in the advanced stage of stomach cancer and needed to be taken care of.
His transfer was not for Hao Dongmei, but for his former wish: to transform the place where he grew up- the light character piece.
Hao Dongmei has always been the woman behind him who silently supports him, the monotony and bitterness of life, without the moisture of love.
In the original work, it is said that after Zhou Bingyi's death, Hao Dongmei remarried, and Zhou Bingkun met Hao Dongmei by chance, which was described in the original work as follows:
Hao Dongmei was slightly fatter and had a good complexion. She went to South Korea for a facelift, recovered quickly from minor surgeries, and felt that she was suddenly five or six years younger, and her face was once again to find the satisfaction of home.
You see at this time, Hao Dongmei is a happy woman, a woman who is pampered, and a woman who is nourished by love.
Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei have been with each other for many years, and Hao Dongmei's appearance has not been very good. Because he is busy with his own future, he may spend more time currying favor with his mother-in-law than he spends on coaxing his wife.
Like Hao Dongmei and his wife, he seems to have a deep affection and righteousness, but in fact, how to interpret it affectionately.
Husband and wife, how cool.