In the human world, family and friends are different, family members need us to be relative every day, get along every day, and friends do not have to.
The other half is different from the relatives, the other half will completely change a person through years of influence, and the relatives will not.
The TV series "In the World" is about the warmth and coldness of human feelings in the world, and at the same time, it also proves the importance of family and other half to a person.
01, the father, is the starting point of the child
In the previous article, I said: Zhou Dad is the leader of the Zhou family.
The reason why there are two college students in the light film, both of whom are surnamed Zhou, is not an accidental phenomenon, but because Zhou Dad's spiritual realm is far higher than his status as an ordinary worker.
In the selection of daughter-in-law and son-in-law, Zhou Dad's standards are not conventional.
At that time, 19-year-old Zhou Rong went to Guizhou without greeting her family, and Zhou's father was very angry after learning about the situation.
However, four years later, he decided to use his vacation time to visit his daughter and son-in-law in Guizhou.
In the end, what persuaded Zhou Dad to accept Feng Huacheng was not Zhou Rong's tears, not Feng Huacheng's kneeling, but the kindness and cultivation that Feng Huacheng inadvertently showed when they met on the road.
"Don't look at the origin, only look at the person", this is the criterion for Zhou Dad to choose his daughter-in-law and son-in-law.
Bingyi and Bingkun are the biggest beneficiaries of this standard.
Although from the perspective of outsiders, when Bingyi got married, Dongmei's family was far inferior to the Zhou family of "Root Zheng Miao Hong".
When Bingkun got married, Zheng Juan, who did not even have a hukou, was also Gao Pan.
However, the good character of Dongmei and Zheng Juan has greatly improved the Zhou family's ability to resist risks, and has injected a steady stream of impetus into the continued prosperity of the Zhou family.
Compared with Dongmei and Zheng Juan, Feng Huacheng is a more controversial person.
But just from the script, I don't think he is a person of bad character himself.
His eventual depravity was the result of a combination of the transformation of social customs, the persecution of family responsibilities, and Zhou Rong's spiritual abandonment of him.
In dealing with the relationship with his relatives, Zhou Dad knows how to think differently.
Dongmei's parents said that they would visit the Zhou family before the Spring Festival, but they temporarily broke the appointment due to physical reasons.
Secretary Jin went to the Zhou family with gifts instead of the old couple, but inadvertently sent back the tea leaves brought by Zhou Dad...
Seeing this, the audience as an outsider could not sit still, and a piece of accusations against Dongmei's parents floated in the barrage.
Zhou Dad's heart was also uncomfortable, but he achieved the greatest degree of emotional restraint as an old man who was a father and a father-in-law.
It also achieves the maximum understanding of a high-cadre family by an ordinary worker.
When comforting his family, he said: "The big things of other people and our big things are not the same thing." ”
On his deathbed, he said, "Every man has his own life, each has his own difficulties, and each has his own good. Dongmei's mother can call the car, it is her ability, I can make these children of the light word piece, willingly busy, send me to the hospital, this is the creation of dad. ”
It is precisely because of Zhou Dad's tolerance and open-mindedness that Bingyi does not have to face the problem of "choosing one of parents and wife", and his cross-border marriage with Dongmei can be maintained.
In the face of his children's "filial piety", Zhou Dad has a big pattern.
The Zhou family has three children, and Bingkun is the most filial to his parents.
But Zhou Dad never blamed Bingyi and Zhou Rong for paying less to the family.
Different from what some people now say that "stupid children come to repay the favor", Zhou Dad's evaluation of his children has never been limited to "how much to do for me" and "how to repay my parenting grace".
Before his death, Zhou Dad affirmed Bingkun's dedication to the family.
At the same time, he also instructed Bingyi to do his job well.
Even in the face of Zhou Rong, who was unanimously complained about by the audience as "selfish", Zhou Dad also said: "My daughter, a great intellectual, a great professor, you are the best!" ”
Zhou Dad's cultural level is not high, but he understands that the children's filial piety is not only reflected in guarding their parents' beds, serving tea and sending water, but also in their dedication to duty and conscientious completion of work.
Even if Bingyi lives in his mother-in-law's house and rarely returns, he can run for the people and contribute to the country, which is also filial piety.
Even if Zhou Rong did not keep a day's night for her old father and mother, she could cultivate talents for the country in the education post, which was also filial piety.
And what does the progress of our society depend on?
It is not the children who are doing the right thing, but they are at home with their fingers to calculate how much they have repaid the parents.
But like Zhou Dad and Zhou Ma, in addition to the "little me", there are also "everyone" and "national" parents.
With such parents, Bingyi can wholeheartedly do practical things for the people, and Zhou Rong can also shine in a position suitable for herself.
Fathers are the starting point for children.
Compared with other children in the light word film, the children of the Zhou family are lucky.
Since childhood, they have been able to stand on the shoulders of Zhou Dad, a reasonable, broad-minded and righteous father, to see the world, and when they grow up, they will naturally soar in the vast sky.
02, the wife, is the husband's feng shui
The "Six Little Gentlemen" of the light character film initially all did similar work and lived a similar life.
Later, Lü Chuan and Xiangyang changed their fate by studying and studying.
Even the gathering on the third day of the first year of the year is not likely to come back.
The remaining four people: Bingkun, Cao Debao, Guoqing and Chaochao still remain in the light character film.
And the change in their temperament and the gap in their circumstances are slowly aggravated after marriage.
And this also verifies a point of view: the wife is the husband's feng shui.
Bingkun is an unconfident person, he has been a "small transparent" with no sense of existence in front of his excellent brother and sister since he was a child.
It was the appearance of Zheng Juan that made Bingkun really find the feeling of "strong".
Zheng Juan is a wonderful woman who is soft on the outside and tough on the inside.
In her daily life, she constantly conveyed to Bingkun the ideas of "you are really good" and "you are very powerful".
When the family encounters difficulties and when her husband is frustrated, Zheng Juan can bear things and stabilize the rear.
With Zheng Juan, Bingkun not only became confident, but also had a sense of security and belonging, which was an important reason why he dared to quit his job at the soy sauce factory and give it a go.
It is also the key to his ability to deal with the psychological gap well after moving back to the old house from the big house.
Cao Debao in "Six Little Gentlemen" was not very fashionable before marriage, flashy and unrealistic, and loved to daydream.
His marriage to Chunyan was a marriage of mutual consumption.
On the surface, Cao Debao is a "soft rice man" who relies on his wife to raise him, consuming Chunyan's youth and money.
In fact, Chun Yan's strong personality is also consuming Cao Debao's enthusiasm for life.
There is a scene in the play, the "six little gentlemen" party, every time Cao Debao opened his mouth, Chunyan rudely interrupted, Cao Debao's face was unhappy, but he did not dare to resist.
A man, who does not even dare to speak, what else do you expect him to achieve in his career?
The national day and catching up with the two families are the families that are most likely to form a contrast.
Wu Qian is the most hated woman in the whole play, there is no one!
Three words to describe her personality are "hard, brittle, and bitter."
Whenever I compete with the National Day, it is called a hard, half a point refuses to let go, no matter how many people quarrel in front of people, it is not shameful.
When she really encounters any storms in her life, she is more vulnerable than anyone, either taking the old man and the child to be angry, or beating her chest and wiping her tears.
In daily life, nine out of ten sentences of the words spoken are spitting out bitter water and complaining.
Living with a woman like this is a nightmare.
Guoqing is a person who is stubborn and admits to death, but he is not without merits.
He was willing to endure hardships, integrity, and in order to defend the parts of the arsenal, he was knocked to the ground and did not yield.
What really knocked down his spirit was the death of his father.
Although Wu Qian cannot be blamed for this matter, from then on, there is no concept of "home" in Guoqing's heart.
At the party, he lost his temper with Lü Chuan through the strength of wine, which was a manifestation of spiritual collapse.
In contrast, catching up is much happier.
His life with Yu Hong is also very difficult, living in the broken house where Zheng Juan lived before.
But Yu Hong has a good personality and three views, and with such a wife, the husband has concerns and motivation in his heart.
Catching up with the time when he was cheated of selling shoes, he and Bingkun, who were very sad, walked to the door.
He turned back and specifically told Bingkun not to tell Yu Hong about this matter, because his wife had been married to himself for all these years, he had not lived a good life, and these days of selling shoes were her happiest days.
A man who has love for his wife in his heart and a sense of responsibility to protect his family cannot fail.
I believe that even if this matter is not properly handled in the end, and the catch-up is really in prison, as long as Yu Hong waits for him at home, he will not be discouraged and devastated.
At present, the TV series "Human World" is about to end, and the reality of "Human World" is still continuing...
As a man, one day, you will be the starting point for your children.
As a woman, maybe you are already the feng shui of your husband.
Each of us is alive and has a great responsibility!
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