Who is the least likable person in "The World of Man"? Many netizens voted for Zhou Rong.
I didn't like her at first.
At that time, in order to pursue love, she went to Guizhou.
Leaving the hometown without saying, quietly leaving her parents like this, her bravery I dare not compliment.
Then I liked her a little bit.
The mountains of Guizhou are very poor, but she has to endure and live with Feng Huacheng with difficulty. Feng Huacheng's situation at that time was actually worse, but Zhou Rong did not leave him.
I'm starting to think this woman is very distressing.
She gave birth to a child, and when the child was two years old, she was full of joy and wanted to go home to reunite with her parents, and because Of Feng Huacheng's poetic masterpiece, she caused trouble, and since then the two of them have missed the child's childhood, so that the child is angry
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In fact, their child Feng Yue is right, all children want most is to live with their parents.
Unfortunately, they always feel that the conditions are not allowed, and they repeatedly miss the good time to get along with their children.
After that, I began to contradict.
Husbands and wives hate each other
Reform and opening up are both opportunities and challenges. Zhou Rong went to Peking University, and it was a graduate school, and it was a doctorate, and the future was bright, but Feng Hua's achievements were a bit unlucky.
Zhou Rong and Feng Huacheng returned to Jichun City, Zhou Rong became an associate professor at the university, but Feng Huacheng was still trying to rate. The two were huddled in the faculty dormitory, arguing more and more.
Zhou Rong felt that Feng Huacheng had become vulgar, and went door to door to give gifts for his poetry to win awards, and Feng Huacheng felt that Zhou Rong was increasingly not cherishing himself, not understanding himself, and even insulting himself.
Zhou Rong's style of behavior is sometimes really pretentious, but have you found that sometimes your nasty behaviors just happen to you?
That's my contradiction.
Zhou Rong and Feng Huacheng have begun to dislike each other, so it is only a matter of time before they divorce.
Looking at their marriage, I wondered how I should get along with my partner in the future.
Don't be self-serious
Zhou Rong and Feng Hua
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The questions are all about "me", how "I" see this, what "I" think.
Zhou Rong wouldn't ask the other party why they did this first, no
Would have thought
What is the cause of the husband's abnormal behavior.
After Feng Huacheng expressed his situation several times and three times, Zhou Rong felt that she did not understand her husband's intentions, and then softened down to discuss what to do.
Feng Huacheng is the same, knowing that his wife is such a personality, and before she "complains", he first explains the situation, isn't this a bit self-defeating?
I think they both put the cart before the horse.
When getting along, be self-centered, but don't be self-serious. We need to clearly express our attitudes and principles, as well as our thoughts, but we also need to know when to let go of ourselves.
Put it another way
We tend to accommodate each other's expressions.
The content of each quarrel between Zhou Rong and Feng Huacheng is similar, the routine is almost the same, Zhou Rong first expresses dissatisfaction, then Feng Huacheng fights back, spitting bitter water, Zhou Rong is soft, then comforting, and then reconciling with Feng Huacheng.
Feng Huacheng once said that if it were not for the daughter, they might have divorced a long time ago, so I wonder why they didn't express it in a different way?
We don't care about each other.
Under the premise of caring, you should consider expressing it in another way.
Husband and wife, originally from different family environments, receive different educational environments, and work hard in different positions or fields, then living together, you need to run in.
How to run in? We have to be independent and respectful, but in expression I think it is possible to communicate.
For example, the other party is eating soft and not eating hard, then you loud theorize, certainly not to solve the problem.
Since we are together, to live together, we must either try an expression that the other party can accept, or let the other party adapt to their own expression.
We must always understand the truth of good words in winter and cold in summer, especially when couples get along.
Necessary reminders
People change, all the time, maybe because of one person, or because of one thing.
Do you think it's important to say "good morning" and "good night"?
Never say or say it occasionally, you don't feel how, but if you say it every day, and suddenly one day you don't say it, and then you don't say it again, do you think there is a problem?
People are like this, they like both change and habit. Once the habits change, it proves that some relationships are changing.
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Personal establishment
The "sense of ritual" that arises can remain somewhat unchanged in the midst of change.
I brushed a conversation today, my husband went to drink, told his wife, and then his wife said yes, and then my husband said he would not go back, and his wife also said yes.
Husband said aren't you worried about me? The wife said it was all right, I believe you.
Later, a few days later, in the same situation, the husband asked the wife again, and the wife still answered the same, which seemed very appropriate.
My husband said that you were not like this before, and you would keep urging me, calling me, and asking me to hurry home.
My wife said that I used to be ignorant, but now I know, you can do whatever you like
Good
finish.
Husband panicked, don't worry, we're still like before.
The wife said that she could not go back.
When did the relationship between husband and wife become like this? When all this happened, I was afraid that I would not be able to regret it.
So, reminders are not superfluous, communication is important when you feel it is necessary.
epilogue
I never thought I was going to get married one day, and it all happened suddenly, but since I'm here, let's take a step forward.
Husband and wife get along, it is really a science.
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