Episode 24 of "The World of Man": All become a father, and a father beats you, isn't this happiness? This is an ordinary and touching sentence that Bingkun and Father Zhou said from the bottom of their hearts after untying the knot for many years. And where the heart knot between father and son comes from, this has to start from a Spring Festival many years ago. There are roughly three reasons.
Reason 1 (18 episodes): Taking advantage of the New Year, Father Zhou took the Zhou family to walk the streets and alleys to give the neighbors a New Year's greeting. Looking at Zhou's father and the villagers, they only cared about praising the two families of the elder sister, two high-achieving students of Peking University, the sister-in-law was the daughter of the governor and a college student, and the son-in-law was a famous poet, all of whom were facades. Bingkun was very unhappy in his heart, after all, he had paid so much for his family for many years, but all of this did not seem to be worth mentioning, and there was a feeling of being ignored; at the same time, he felt that he was the most unproductive and had some inferiority. So I took care of myself and went home early.
Reason 2 (episode 19): Bingkun was snubbed by Bingyi because of his heartache for Zhou's father, and clashed with Bingyi at the door of the compound where he went to visit Ma Shouchang, and his words were heavier, and he was kicked by Bingyi. In the evening, Bingkun returned home, indignant, and said some angry words to Zheng Juan, and once again quarreled with Bingyi. In a tugging, Father Zhou kicked Bingkun in a hurry because of his heartache. At this point, Bingkun felt more and more aggrieved, feeling that he only cared about the big brother who supported the façade, and hated himself, so he began to have a grudge with Father Zhou and did not speak to him.
Reason Three (Episode 20): Bingkun sends Father Zhou to the station. Bingkun was already very inferior because he had experienced the first two events, so he said some angry words. The more Zhou Father listened, the more uncomfortable he became, so he blurted out some truth, saying that Bingkun had not studied well since he was a child, and even if he did not have a family drag, he still could not go to college, and sprinkled a handful of salt on his wounds. At this point, the father and son have completely formed a knot.
In the years after the separation of father and son. Bingkun resigned and opened a hotel with Shao's editor-in-chief. Later, it also operated a professional bookstore in education. The staffing issue was eventually resolved. I also moved to a new house and lived in a big house. It can be said that it is very mixed.
Father and son also used to think about writing letters to each other. It's just that in the end, the letter written by Zhou Father did not mention Bingkun at all. And Bingkun is also entangled for a long time, after all, he still did not write a letter, he still especially hopes to make his father satisfied, but he has always felt that it is not enough, so he has delayed it again and again.
In this way, the father and son were deadlocked for many years. Until Zhou's father retired and returned home, he found that the house had been occupied by the Guoqing family, and he didn't know anything about Bingkun's move, so he was very embarrassed.
Until the evening, Bingkun returned home after handling work, and the classic scene was officially staged.
Father and son talk late at night.
Father Zhou said, "I ask you, those of your friends, the children who grew up with these light character pieces, have you ever thought that your own family is not in the light character pieces, if you have a father who is an official, it will be better." Bingkun shed tears while saying, "I have never abandoned my birth in the light word film, nor have I ever disliked my parents, nor have I disliked this family." ”
Father Zhou said that he did not, and then continued: "Any parent who wants his children to be bright and glamorous outside, just like all your children, they all hope that they can be born in the home of that rich man, and they can also bring convenience to their future." Is this snobbery? Do you know what snobbishness is? Seeing the wind make the rudder, climbing high and stepping low, this is called snobbery. Father Zhou said that he was not that kind of person. Because the children were admitted to Peking University, they needed to express their faces, so they wanted to take advantage of the New Year to take them out to show off, but they did not take into account Bingkun's feelings. To be wrong, he felt it was his only fault.
Bingkun cried and said that they were all raised by a father and mother, and he was very uncomfortable when he did not come out, and his greatest wish in this life was that his father and mother would be satisfied. And Father Zhou not only did not comfort but also sprinkled salt, what words are difficult to hear, where the pain is where. He said that he studied well with his brother and sister from childhood to adulthood, and he was the last in the class, counting down. Father Zhou rebuked Bingkun for slandering himself as a snob, and talked about his grievances over the years, a person in the mountains, more than sixty years old, the only thought he thought of every day after work was to see the letters written by his children to himself. And now that his family has undergone such a big change, he actually doesn't know anything about it, and he is humiliated and humiliated.
Bingkun and Zhou Father quarreled, which attracted the attention of Zheng Juan and Zhou Cong. So there was another dramatic scene, Zhou Cong, in order to maintain Bingkun, actually kicked Zhou Cong,and Bingkun kicked Zhou Cong in order to protect Zhou Cong, all of whom were grandsons beating grandpa, fathers beating sons, all sons defending their fathers, warm three generations. After a heart-pounding conversation, Bingkun finally said sorry, and Zhou's father also confessed, saying that Bingkun was his most satisfied child, and the family contributed the most, but he was also beaten the most. Finally, Bingkun said something simple and warm: "You have all become a father, and your father beats you, isn't this happiness?" ”
Indeed, Bingyi is witty and sensible, and is the child of Zhou's father who has high hopes, has the highest expectations, and is also the facade of the family. The second sister Zhou Rong is a girl, and in traditional thinking, she is married after all, it doesn't matter, so she plays a small and only cares about love. Only Bingkun, who seems inconspicuous, silently takes care of his mother and supports the family. He also married a virtuous wife, gave birth to a son, lived in a new house, and lived his life with taste, which was naturally the most satisfactory to Father Zhou. If you are a father, you can still be a father's child, so why is this not a great blessing in life?