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Text: Caiyun Chasing the Moon 丨 "Reading Moment" columnist
We appreciate generosity, we praise tolerance, we praise and call for understanding even more, because of all the words of praise that can be called "long live", only "understanding"!
Understanding is a noble language, understanding is a kind of empathy, understanding is a kind of spiritual understanding, understanding is a kind of spiritual harmony.
One more understanding means one more warmth; one more understanding leads to one more touch; one more understanding leads to one more harmony; one more understanding leads to one more beauty. Only with more understanding can the tree of friendship grow evergreen and the flower of friendship bloom forever.
Understanding is mutual, and the understanding of either side cannot be exchanged for the other's incomprehension, and the misunderstanding of the other cannot be replaced.
Gorky said: "If people don't understand each other, then how can they learn to respect each other silently?" Understanding, running through and integrating in all interpersonal relationships, human affection, can not be separated from mutual understanding.
Affection requires mutual understanding. Although it is said that "blood is thicker than water", although it is said to be "flesh and blood relatives, broken bones and tendons", although it is said that relatives are easier to bear than outsiders, no matter who it is, in terms of emotion and dignity, his heart will be very fragile and will not be able to withstand harm.
Therefore, understanding between relatives is a must! In the collision of oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, pots and pans, parents poured their hearts and souls into it, if they could not get the understanding of their children, they would be very sad; and the children's dedication to filial piety, if they could not get the approval of their parents, would also be very wronged.
Brothers and sisters, if they are independent of each other, calculating, not taking care of each other, and not understanding each other, it will inevitably cause contradictions, quarrels, and even fights, and over time, the knots between relatives will be difficult to unravel.
Friendship requires mutual understanding. Although it is said that "a good friend is better than a brother", although it is said that a true friend who takes care of each other can "insert a knife in two ribs" for each other, although it is said that "a true friend is a soul conceived in two bodies", if the heart is broken between friends, they are even more angry than the enemy, and they hate each other, because they used to be "liver and gallbladder", once "friends who are not rebellious", and once "have difficulties and share blessings". Therefore, if there is friction or rift between friends, they should be more inclusive, more review, more reflection, and more understanding.
Love requires mutual understanding. Although it is said that "the teeth are wrong and they will bite the cheeks", although it is said that "husband and wife fight without remembering revenge", although it is said that the people who love each other are like glue, hand in hand, inseparable, but sometimes we will still be angry with ourselves, and we can't get along with ourselves! What about between two people? Therefore, lovers should push their hearts and minds, and avoid mutual suspicion, mutual pity, mutual complaints, and mutual attacks. "Ten years of repair can be crossed by the same boat, and a hundred years of repair can sleep together." You know, it's not easy to love someone!
People say that the love stories in movies and TV series are stumbling, awkward, and entangled, and this is the promotion and reproduction of real life love! Isn't that true of some love in reality? People who love each other can't get their wishes, but they always hope that good dreams will come true; people without love accompany each other every day, but they are relatively speechless all day long. In this regard, some people criticize and ridicule, some people point their fingers and praise, different outlook on life, different understanding, and the results of understanding are opposite.
All people need to understand each other. Because understanding can resolve each other's contradictions, can close each other's relationship, can enhance each other's friendship, and can eliminate each other's estrangement.
Being good at understanding others will please others. Please understand the tiredness of others after they are busy; please understand the sincerity and kindness of others; please understand the grievances suffered by others; please understand the tolerance of others to forgive your mistakes; please understand the love and true feelings of others for you.
The more you understand, the less you think; the more you understand, the less you complain; the more you understand, the less you hurt. The more you understand, the more you tolerate; the more you understand, the more you are moved; the more you understand, the stronger the love.
Learn to treat ordinary people and things with a normal heart, and let understanding be with you at all times. To be kind to others is to be kind to oneself.
Remember: There is a kind of nobility in the world called "understanding"; there is also a rare kind of world, also called "understanding"!
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