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A person's top social landscape
Source: People's Theory, Tan net
A person's wealth and wisdom is the average of the 5 people he most often contacts
1
Interact with high people
In "The Ordinary World", it is said:
"When a person's mind is not strong enough to fully grasp himself, he needs to mentally rely on another person who is stronger than himself."
Everyone has their own limitations, and the guidance of the master can help us tear down the wall of thinking and see the wider world.
There is a saying that is very good: "It is better to read ten thousand books than to walk ten thousand miles; it is better to walk ten thousand miles than to be guided by a high person." ”
Interacting with high-level people, their three words and two words, may be able to enlighten you.
More contact with them, naturally can broaden the horizon, will not be confined to the acre and three points of land in front of you.
It can also open up the pattern, make up for the shortcomings, and store energy for future development.
2
Work with people who are credible
A person's greatest ability is to make people feel at ease and make people feel reliable.
Whether it is work or life, once such a person starts to do something, he will be responsible to the end and do the best within his ability.
How to judge whether a person is reliable, there are 8 small details:
Received will reply, do not take advantage of small, punctuality, do what they say, do not boast, emotional stability, have a bottom line, strong execution.
There's a saying that goes, "Talk to smart people and work with people who are reliable."
In this world, there are many smart people, but reliable people are rare. Being able to be with reliable people is your greatest blessing.
Be a reliable adult, when difficulties come, I hope you have enough confidence and ability to say to the people around you: "Don't worry, there is me." ”
The interaction between people is actually an exchange of energy.
Walk with the wise, you will not be mediocre; with reliable people, you can go to the top.
3
Stay away from people full of negative energy
Emotions between people are really contagious.
In life, with cheerful friends, emotions are also easily driven. I have been with optimistic people for a long time, and I am willing to look at the good side in everything.
People with negative thinking, look at nothing good, always complain when they open their mouths, and under their influence, people around them often become anxious and pessimistic.
Life is not long, there are many winds and rains, away from people who are always full of negative emotions, more and positive and optimistic together, so that the mood has more motivation to grow upwards.
4
Stay away from people who do nothing
People say that an overly comfortable life will sooner or later consume a person's enthusiasm for life.
As everyone knows, making a friend who has nothing to do will also dispel your expectations for a better life, making you willing to fall and not think of making progress.
After all, in this world, sinking is always more comfortable than fighting, and pastime is always easier than self-discipline.
In the I Ching Qiangua, it is said: "Corresponding to the same voice, seeking the same qi." ”
The same sounds resonate, the same smells merge with each other, and in the same way, good people naturally come together.
People who resonate with each other and achieve each other can not be sought, and those who consume you and constantly lower your inner will must stay away as soon as possible.
Always remember that with excellent people, the road of life can go farther and farther, and people with negative energy will only sink together.
5
The magnetic field between people affects each other.
As the saying goes:
"Lazy people teach you how to steal and slip, villains teach you to be adulterers, and people with negative energy will tell you that the world is sinister."
The wise will teach you how to think deeply, the diligent will teach you how to work hard, and the brave will teach you how to move forward. ”
We can't change where we come from, but we can decide for ourselves who to walk with.
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