Wen | Wu Qingqian
Wu Qian, xiao Guoqing's daughter-in-law in the TV series "In the World", should be regarded as the most unpleasant of the daughters-in-law of the six little gentlemen, and it can even be said to be annoying. A big mouth said everything, simply no mouth, Qiao Chunyan said that she was right, live out of a Xianglin sister-in-law, even more hateful than Xianglin sister-in-law, Xianglin sister-in-law's tragic essence is poisoned by feudal thought, and Wu Qian, who grew up in the new era, her unpopularity is a personal reason, only knows how to complain about pain and does not understand gratitude, always venting dissatisfaction with others, especially those who live better than her, but never thinking of changing herself and repaying people.
When Wu Qian first married Xiao Guoqing, it was not so much love as it was a helpless choice. First of all, she is from an ordinary family, a waiter in a state-run hotel, the status of the hotel waiter in that era was not high, much worse than Xiao Guoqing, a lumber factory worker, although Xiao Guoqing was doing hard, tired and dirty work, but the good villain was a worker identity, and the waiter was not a worker identity. At that time, the status of workers was old and high, representing that the roots were red and the consciousness was high, and they generally would not be defeated. In this contrast, Xiao Guoqing, who was also from an ordinary family, had superior conditions over Wu Qian. So once, when the six little gentlemen were eating at the state-run restaurant where she worked, while serving her and chatting with her colleagues, shy and proud to say which position she sat in was her object, and deliberately emphasized that it was a worker. Colleagues were very envious of Wu Qian after listening, saying that the workers were good, the status could be higher than our waiters, in order to please Wu Qian, who was about to marry the worker, he also let Wu Qian sit down, and the service was entrusted to her.
Secondly, Wu Qian looks ordinary, still has strong body hair, and has an old beard, and must be shaved once a day, otherwise she will not be able to see people. In this case, the honest, kind, and responsible National Day can look up to her, and Cao Debao, who is also a scum worker but is marrying a high-ranking cadre in the refugee family, and even Qiao Chunyan, who does not pay much attention to her, can not look up to her.
Then Xiao Guoqing is good, good for her, there are still two sisters on the top, and they have all gone to the countryside to join the team, it is estimated that they have lived in the countryside for a lifetime, married to the countryside, and will not return to the city. This means that the House of the Xiao Family is all her and Xiao Guoqing's, even if they do not have the ability to build a big house, the house of the in-laws and mother-in-law is enough for them to live.
To sum up the three reasons, whether it is to find a husband, find a reliance, find a place to live, or plan for future life, marrying Xiao Guoqing is good and the best choice she can find under her conditions.
Unfortunately, she couldn't imagine that all the young people who had gone to the countryside to join the team in a few years had returned to the city, including her two eldest sisters-in-law. When the eldest sister-in-law returned, they had already given birth to a child, and the family of seven was very crowded, and what was even more frightening was that the two eldest sister-in-law did not work after returning to the city, and the whole family relied on her and National Day to support them. In this regard, she once complained unabashedly at the gathering on the third day of the New Year. Xiao Guoqing wanted dignity, and felt that the whole Jichun was like their family's situation, not to mention that at that time, none of the six little gentlemen mixed well, no one could help them, saying that this did not sweep everyone's interest, so the couple also quarreled.
After that, every year at the beginning of the third and sixth little gentlemen (with Tang Xiangyang and Lü Chuan admitted to college, there were only four little gentlemen) gathering, Wu Qian continued to say that it was difficult and made trouble every year, complaining that Xiao Guoqing was incompetent, complaining that Xiao Guoqing's family was not well off, and failed to let her live a good life. At the Spring Festival party in 1980, complaining that Xiao Guoqing's eldest sister came back with two children after her husband's death, squeezed a room with their family of three and two elderly people, and saw that Qiao Chunyan, who had been reinstated at this time, moved back to the leadership building, comparing his own tragic situation, since the eldest sister-in-law returned to the city, there had been no good life, talking about stepping on the Xiao family more and more, if it were not for Qiao Chunyan, Zhou Bingkun and others who stopped the couple from fighting on the spot. It was also this time that Qiao Chunyan said that she was Xianglin's sister-in-law.
In front of everyone, they all made trouble on this, which shows how terrible Wu Qian's private sprinkling on Xiao Guoqing is on weekdays, and Xiao Guoqing has a good temper and can endure, otherwise the days will be simply impossible. Xiao Guoqing did not want to give her a good life, but ordinary people have limited ability and limited resources, what is the use of complaining, instead of making trouble in the nest every day, it is better to think more about how to find a way. Of course, due to the limitations of intellectual vision and information, the way out is not so easy to find, and you can only live in peace and happiness, and the family can live in harmony. But Wu Qian's eyes are high and low, always thinking about living a good life, counting on letting others send happiness home through complaining, not being able to bend and stretch like Qiao Chunyan, relying on patience and ability to achieve salted fish turning over, not to mention Zheng Juan and Zhou Bingkun's mutual understanding, hand in hand silent struggle, it is no wonder that the days are getting worse and worse, completely unable to withstand any changes. But the times are developing and advancing in great strides, and if you have been living in complaining, not thinking of making progress will only be abandoned by the times.
With the reform and opening up, Wu Qian's state-owned hotel implemented a contracting system, she is no longer a staff, either take some money to leave, or continue to work, but the income is different, like their thirty-something waiters income is far less than those young and beautiful waiters. Qiao Chunyan said that you are too soft in nature, why, after all, you work for him. Wu Qian originally hated the fact that she was originally said to be Xiang lin's sister-in-law, and now that she was said by Qiao Chunyan, she felt that the other party stood and talked without waist pain, although Qiao Chunyan at this time was only the deputy director of the Women's Federation of the First District, but the good villain was a cadre, living in a spacious and bright building with running water and a separate bathroom, how could she feel her mood.
Therefore, when cooking, she always has to pull the topic back to herself, not only satirizing herself, but also secretly stabbing Qiao Chunyan, and at the end, she does not refer to Sang Scolding Huai, and directly tit-for-tat. Qiao Chunyan, who was grinning a lot, couldn't stand it anymore and said that you still had no end. Wu Qian's iron heart wants to leverage to the end, there is no end and what can be done, our restaurant is now contracted out, we are ok with the public family, with the contractor, people take out a little money to give you, just tell you to roll.
On the one hand, Yu Hong was afraid that the two would quarrel, saying that the little sister-in-law Sun Xiaoning had nothing to do, and now the job was not easy to find, Qiao Chunyan saw that just now Wu Qian said that they were recruiting young waiters in the hotel, so he said in passing that he would let Sun Xiaoning go to Wu Qian to do it in their hotel. As a result, the speaker has no intention, the listener is intentional, this word stimulates Wu Qian, saying yes, our hotel now recruits young and beautiful waiters, young and beautiful is good, is the capital, like our gang of old people are not worthy of being waiters, they are worthy of doing some hard work, that is, with the chef side dishes of the small worker, usually that is, washing dishes, choosing dishes, brushing dishes, serving dishes. Seeing that Qiao Chunyan's face was not good, she was more proud, saying how, and I thought I didn't invite people to see, my Xianglin sister-in-law, I still don't invite people to see, and Xianglin sister-in-law. Saying that he deliberately leaned over to Qiao Chunyan, he said more proudly, I can't become another person because you like me or not.
At this time, Yu Hong was more anxious, and then did not export must fight, the two lords in front of her are not fuel-saving lamps, not to mention that Wu Qian's speech is indeed excessive and ugly, and Qiao Chunyan is also her own master, under the influence of Wu Qian's negative energy, she also wants to count down her husband Sun Chaochao's family. Therefore, I advised Wu Qian to say two words less, saying that it is good to have a job now, how many people do not have a job, you think, that goes to the countryside and returns to the city, not to say, high school graduates are stubble after stubble, how many people stay at home and have nothing to do. Then he talked about his sister-in-law's grandson Xiao Ning, who cried and mourned every day, as if they owed her two hundred hangings... This time it was a successful diversion of attention, but Sun Chaochao and Yu Hong started to move. Seeing that there was someone around her who was as miserable as herself, Wu Qian felt some satisfaction in her heart, and finally temporarily stopped counting Xiao Guoqing.
It can only be said that Wu Qian really deserves to be unpopular, just like Yu Hong said that her sister-in-law, like someone else owes her two hundred hangings, every party is telling how difficult she is, how bad Sun Guoqing is, who does not have a difficulty, whether it is looking good Qiao Chunyan, Cao Debao, Zhou Bingkun, or Sun Chaochao, who is really bad, which is like her. As Qiao Chunyan said, it is said to say, after all, going out depends on friends, friends can help, say it can help, can not help can not help, but also can not always say, always count on others, the key is still to rely on themselves. However, in Wu Qian's place, it seems that after telling her misery a few more times, someone will come out to send warmth and make her life better. If it is better to just complain, what is even more hateful is that she always likes to sneer at those who are better off than her, and she is insatiably greedy, simply a white-eyed wolf.
She didn't want to think that if it wasn't for Qiao Chunyan's matchmaking, letting her master who knew Chinese medicine treat her with a strong body hair problem, she would still have to shave every day, but she didn't know how grateful, she always couldn't see Qiao Chunyan's good life, and she wished that Qiao Chunyan would return to the bathhouse to wash people's feet like the original cadre identity was picked up.
As for Zhou Bingkun, it is even more absolute, which can be described as having no bottom line. Zhou Bingkun knew that his good friend Xiao Guoqing was the most difficult among the six little gentlemen, so after the bookstore opened, he gave his only two recruitment quotas to One Wu Qian, wu Qian was not satisfied to open his mouth to let Zhou Bingkun get Xiao Guoqing into it, Zhou Bingkun did not agree, but gave another quota to Sun Chaochao, who was not much better off, that is, Sun Chaochao's sister Sun Xiaoning. In this regard, Wu Qian was greatly dissatisfied, even if Zhou Bingkun later found a job as a security guard for Xiao Guoqing. Even more ruthlessly, after Zhou Bingkun bought a big house, he gave Xiao Guoqing and Wu Qian the two old houses built by his father to Live without a penny. Not long after, the big house bought by Zhou Bingkun was taken away by the original owner, and the fake landlord who took the money had already disappeared with the money, and Zhou Bingkun, who had lost money twice, had no choice but to cry at Xiao Guoqing in embarrassment, and Xiao Guoqing, who was sensible, immediately understood and decided to move, while Wu Qian said with a straight face - Bingkun, are you not going to force our family to die, and you don't know the situation of our family...
This is full of Wu Qian's greed and selfishness, that house was originally Zhou Bingkun's, even if there was no deception, it is natural to take back the house, Wu Qian should be grateful for living in vain for so long, not to mention that Zhou Bingkun was deceived, penniless, if you don't want to go back to the old house, the whole family will have to stay on the street, shouldn't you go back to the house at this time, zhou Bingkun is still very embarrassed, sad, and even can't open his mouth when he wants to return to the house. Friends and human feelings have done this, Wu Qian is still not satisfied, only care about her own comfort, regardless of the life and death of the house owner, her husband's good friend Zhou Bingkun's family, which can be said to have reached the point of moral degeneration. Fortunately, Xiao Guoqing still has a human touch and advocates moving back to his own home, otherwise he will simply kill Zhou Bingkun.
Wu Qian is so arbitrary and unreasonable, although there are objective factors that determine the superstructure based on the economic foundation, but her personal cultivation of character is also on the one hand, she is a person with low culture, low emotional intelligence, cannot speak, and has a small belly, a long look, and is greedy. This is her hateful place, and the poor thing is that she is not aware of her own problems at all, always thinks that the whole world owes her, and always talks about her misery like Xiang lin sister-in-law, and still insists on persevering to the end.
When the eldest sister-in-law had not yet returned to the city and the days were still good, Zhou Bingkun had just come out of prison to invite everyone to dinner, both to celebrate and to thank, a large table of people called out to her as soon as she mentioned Zheng Juan, a little widow and a little widow, and smiled, as if there was a sense of superiority, and she was not afraid of Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan. Qiao Chunyan is also talking about yin and yang, so he can't see others well, and he has a better attitude towards Yu Hong, who has similar conditions to her. What's even more terrifying is that she still insists on her own stinky temper, and this insistence on not changing threatens who, such as Qiao Chunyan said to Zhou Bingkun before that she was arranged to go to the bathhouse to wash her feet, even if she dies, who can threaten her, but it is to make others uncomfortable, to make herself more isolated and helpless, if she can be as optimistic as Qiao Chunyan and Zheng Juan, she will not become the most annoying person in the six little gentlemen's daughters-in-law and even in the light word film. Fortunately, everyone tolerated her, especially Bingkun unconditionally helped their family, otherwise she would only be more miserable. It is this bitterness, jealousy, and greed that make the big winter not open the door and coldly die outside.
In fact, Wu Qian's greatest wealth is to marry a husband with good personal character, the so-called home and wanshixing, if she is not Xianglin sister-in-law, changing her own nature will not be so miserable, living as a lonely person, no one wants to be close to her. Her life is exactly in response to that sentence, if she does not die, she will not die.
This article is original by the theory of Qing Asa, welcome to pay attention to, together to explore the connotation of entertainment life!