"In the World" Sun Catch-up: Striving to catch up in ordinary life, the look of hard work is like you and me
If the beginning of 2022
Release on 2022-03-2218:35
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The hit drama "The World of Man" ended, the characters in it are various, their respective experiences portray a variety of life, it seems that everyone who has watched this drama can more or less find their own shadow from it, some are very similar to real life, and there are also what they want to become.
And Sun Chaochao, an ordinary character, left a deep impression on me, he strives to live like you and me in ordinary life.
What is the definition of success? Does it have to be successful and admired by people like mountains? Or did he gather the wealth of a rich country and prove his infinite ability?
Liu Yu said in "Send You a Bullet":
Success has nothing to do with success, success is a person defending his integrity.
If we talk about it from this point of view, then the ordinary person Sun Chaochao is successful, he has done his best to live, he has done his best to love people, and he has also used all his strength to burn himself to save his family.
01
Be down-to-earth and hardworking
Sun Chaochao appeared in the timber factory as soon as he appeared, he was a colleague of Zhou Bingkun Timber Factory, and he did a heavy job at all costs.
After the collapse of the lumber factory, Zhou Bingkun opened a restaurant and bookstore, and although Sun Chaochao's brain did not have Zhou Bingkun's lively and networked, he was not idle for a moment, squatting on Erqi Street every day to work.
Later, I moved to an employer, afraid that the combination cabinet would have safety hazards, so I took the initiative to repair the cabinet.
Coincidentally, this employer is the owner of a northern rubber shoe factory, and he recognizes Sun Chaochao as a real person, so he recommended the work of selling rubber shoes to him, a pair of commissions of 10%, so he began to sell rubber shoes at the street stall.
Sun Chaochao knows very well that he has no brains and no network resources, so he works honestly on his own ability, and the boss's appreciation also confirms his character from the side.
A person, clear understanding of themselves is really important, the right attitude can choose the right way of life, and hard work is the way of life that Sun Chaochao chose for himself.
02
Treat friends with sincerity without reservation
If you think that sun catches up with the daily life of his own family is difficult enough and does not pay attention to other people, then you are wrong, the less people have, the more empathy.
There is a saying: Because of the rain, I also want to hold an umbrella for others!
There are many such people in life, and most of them are ordinary people, and they may give you very little, but they do their best.
Zhou's father suddenly fell ill, the Brother of the Zhou Family could not come back from busy work, the Sister of the Zhou Family filmed in the crew, only Zhou Bingkun's brothers were the most attentive, Sun Chaochao was the first one in his heart, pulling the scooter and running desperately to the hospital, what he could contribute at this moment was to put the strength of the son.
Zhou Nan died unexpectedly, Zheng Juan rushed to the United States to pick up the child, Zhou Bingkun was detained for negligence and injury, sun Chaochao and his wife were the first to rush to Zhou Bingkun's home, carrying water, wiping glass, cleaning up the courtyard inside and outside the courtyard, and doing their best like their own home.
Later Bingkun was sentenced to nine years in prison, Zheng Juan lived alone with her children, Zheng Juan did not want to be raised by her brother and sister, decided to sell popsicles, sweet potatoes to maintain her livelihood, Sun Chaochao took the initiative to make a trolley for Zheng Juan, and helped her as much as she could.
Years of brotherhood are planted in the heart, and Sun Chaochao's friendship can really be said to be unreserved.
You are developed, I am really happy for you; you are down, I will only hurt you and help you.
03
Do things measured and do not embarrass others
Sun Chaochao understands himself and his friends, but he has few requirements for his true friends.
Because you know, you know; because you know, you are compassionate.
After Zhou Bingkun bought a house and moved away, he and Zheng Juan emptied two houses together.
Chunyan's mother had long wanted to borrow a set for his daughter and son-in-law, and the remaining old house was also borrowed by the Guoqing couple.
At that time, the house was really not enough to live in, and later Zhou Bingkun saw that Sun Chaochao's sister had also returned, and the family really couldn't live in, so he gave them Zheng Juan's small house to live in.
But even if there is a small affection, although others are polite and let go, they have not given room money, even if Bingkun has repeatedly resigned, the overtaking couple still sends money every three to five, although sometimes more and sometimes less, but never take this matter for granted.
Sun Chaochao is a very measured person, and he is the least willing to embarrass his friends because of his own affairs, even if it is a last resort.
That time the advance money sales of rubber shoes were deceived, if you can not beat the shoes back to the factory, you will face fraud and squat in prison, have not seen the world's catch-up is very anxious, but also really afraid.
He did not dare to go home in the rain at night, saw Bingkun tell the truth, said the seriousness of the problem, said not to let Yu Hong know to worry, until Bingkun sent him home, and did not say the words that asked Bingkun to help think of a way, and finally Zhou Bingkun took the initiative to say that he was looking for his brother to try, and he showed a grateful smile.
If people want to have something, they must earn it with their hands, and when they encounter difficulties, it is their love to help others to help you, and it is their duty not to help you.
Human nature is selfish, but to be able to consider the difficulties of others with equal weight while thinking about oneself is goodness and compassion. This kind of person is worthy of deep friendship.
04
Loving and caring for family members is willing to sacrifice
Sun Chaochao treats his friends like this, and even more so he treats his family.
He and Yu Hong have been married for many years, and they have always been harmonious, and they have never seen him shout loudly and command, although his life is hard, his family is harmonious.
In the play, it was revealed that his sister Sun Xiaoning's reading was provided by Sun Chaochao tightening his pants belt, and he also encouraged his sister to continue to read again after failing the college entrance examination; knowing that his sister liked his brother Zhou Bingkun, who had already started a family, he was very anxious and angry, but he still felt sorry and loved his sister's reputation.
Sun Chaochao has no culture, and has suffered enough without knowledge, so he attaches great importance to learning, whether it is his sister or son Sun Sheng, as long as he is willing to learn, no matter how difficult it is, he will provide.
The year his son was admitted to college, he found out that he had uremia, and in order not to burden the family, he took out a pile of forged remittance slips, falsely claiming that it was money sent back by his sister, and tricked his son into going to school with peace of mind.
After taking the last shower with my son, I walked clean. Even death he chose, lying on the track, because for humanitarian reasons, the railway will pay the funeral expenses for the family, which is the last thing he can do for the family in the world.
Looking back on Sun Chao's life as a person, he lets us see all the ways an ordinary person's life should be.
He treats his friends with sincerity and enthusiasm, does not pretend, does not consider gains and losses; he treats himself with solid work and does his best to support his family; he treats his wife with gentleness and consideration, and his son is full of ardent hope, and he can even give up his life.
Such a person who tried his best to live could not usher in a beautiful day after all, but it was not his fault.
The fate of people is destined for three points, seven points rely on hard work, do everything they can do, and the rest is arranged by heaven.
The ending of Sun Chaochao will inevitably make people feel uncomfortable, and many people will feel unfair, but this is life, not as expected.
The things of life are not that you will succeed if you work hard, but if you don't work hard, you will not succeed, this is for sure.
At the end of the plot, Sun Chaochao's wife is very happy, and her son is also very good and filial, which may be the best reward for the suffering that heaven has suffered for him, but he did not see it with his own eyes.
Or maybe he saw it in heaven and was grinning with relief!
Everyone in the world has their own place, and when you stand in your own field and do your best, it is successful and worthy of respect.
The definition of success lies only in oneself, looking up to the sky, not bowing to others, and only idealistic.