Text┃ An emotional book
If Zhou Bingyi's "filial piety" is for the sake of "the country";
Then Zhou Rong, barely for "everyone", after all, she went to the mountain area to support teaching, which really affected the lives of many local children.
And Zhou Bingkun, in the book, said: "The most unsuccessful child in the family is often the one who comes to repay the favor." ”
Therefore, with the eldest brother serving the country and the people; having the sister sacrificing the ego and becoming the big self, it is natural to have a person who guards the "small family".
The eldest brother has Hao Dongmei's mother-in-law who is the same as her life mentor; the second sister has a strong heart that can be disregarded for ideals and love; and Zhou Bingkun has neither great ability nor a free temperament.
Almost all of his success came from Zheng Juan.
Zheng Juan, zhou Bingkun spent 1200 pieces, "exchanged".
Pawned her mother's heirloom, in exchange for Zheng Juan's stable life for several years, so Zheng Juan had a later "retribution". It's like a father on his way to visit his daughter in the mountains and buy a puppy silently.
If it weren't for Father Zhou's kindness, it might have been Zhou Rong who died in the mountains many years later.
In the same way, if it were not for kindness, Zhou Bingkun did not help Zheng Juan's family of three, then in the years when Zhou Mother became a vegetative person, no one would have been so thoughtful and meticulous to perform filial piety for the Zhou family in front of the bed.
Everything in this world has a cause and effect, and a drink and a peck have their own reasons to follow.
For the Zhou family, Zheng Juan is a "noble person", there is no doubt about this. For Zhou Bingkun, who is "worthless", Zheng Juan is the only and greatest wealth in his life.
It can even be said that if there is no Zheng Juan, Zhou Bingkun will always be the old pimple of the Zhou family who has not appeared.
She is brave, but not selfish
Zhou Rong can go to the mountains to find Feng Huacheng for the so-called love, she is brave. But she left her parents, regardless of the family, and even later succeeded in her studies, became a professor, and also left her daughter to her brother to raise, it can be said that she did not pay a little to the family, extremely selfish.
And Zheng Juan, she is also brave.
In the face of a wooden-like Zhou Bingkun, she was willing to take the initiative to attack and reveal her intentions, so that many viewers shouted in the barrage: "Bingkun, run!" ”
But facts have proved that Zheng Juan's bravery is not mixed with any heart, and she chose Zhou Bingkun, not only out of gratitude, but also because of Zhou Bingkun's personality.
And her selflessness was also vividly displayed on the day zhou Bingyi appeared.
Everyone will accuse and complain about the people around them because of the unhappiness in life, the unhappiness in their careers, and even the unhappiness in their hearts, but Zheng Juan did not.
It can be said that at the beginning of her love affair with Zhou Bingkun, this woman did not ask Zhou Bingkun for anything material and spiritual except to express her heart to Zhou Bingkun.
He was even willing to stand in Zhou Bingkun's point of view and let Zhou Bingyi persuade Zhou Bingkun not to come to her again, because: "I am not worth it." ”
I think many people, the moment they hear this sentence, their hearts are shouting: Just by your words, you are worth it!
Zheng Juan's good lies in the fact that she will never take the initiative to ask for anything, will not lie on the "merit book" because she has done something, and the real heart of the person, even if you don't say it, will remember it for a lifetime.
She is gentle, but not cowardly
I think the women represented by Zheng Juan are the most perfect women in the minds of our countrymen.
She is gentle at the same time, and very rigid, but at the same time, full of reason and restraint. The so-called rigidity and softness, Zheng Juan made a perfect interpretation with her practical actions.
When nothing happens, Zheng Juan will always be the silent and busy person. Be the first to get up in the morning and the last to go to bed in the evening.
When something happened, she changed from a small transparency to a strong woman who dared to take responsibility and face it.
I like Zheng Juan's gentleness when she speaks, softly, with a shallow smile, and her eyes are always full of sincerity.
Beneath her weak exterior is her insistence on the right people and things. In middle age, every woman will have an inferiority complex psychology and emotions, Zheng Juan also has, but in the face of the accusation of catching up, she did not rush to echo and accuse, but chose to trust Zhou Bingkun.
In the face of Sun Xiaoning's challenges and provocations, she did not get angry, but chose to fight back in her own way, telling Sun Xiaoning what she had paid for with Zhou Bingkun.
It also indirectly told Sun Xiaoning a truth: no one's happiness is easy.
After Zhou Bingkun was released from prison, because he helped to catch up with the family, he was questioned behind the back of the big bear: "What is the spirit, a prisoner released from labor reform." ”
Without waiting for Zhou Bingkun to move, Zheng Juan went straight forward to slap her fiercely, and for the first time, there was a fierceness in her eyes, and she only had to say one sentence: My man, no one can say!
In a trance, at that moment, Zheng Juan and Luo Yuzhu merged.
Such an act, even in the face of Luo Shibin, who had once violated her, had never been, and it was conceivable that in her heart, Zhou Bingkun's joy and sorrow were far more important than her own.
She is reasonable, has a bottom line and principles
Compared with Zhou Rong's death to face the guilt, Zheng Juan is very flexible. Husbands and wives have been together for a long time, even if the feelings are good, there will be some stumbles, the important thing is not who is right and who is wrong, but who is willing to put aside right and wrong, choose to give in and understand.
Sun Xiaoning's inching forward, in addition to his own personality, in fact, Zhou Bingkun is also responsible, because he did not weigh the distance between himself and the opposite sex.
When the matter caused harm to Zheng Juan, he not only did not reflect in time, but instead blamed Zheng Juan in his temper, saying that it was selfish for her to hold everything in her heart.
Zhou Bingkun can say that anyone is selfish, but only Zheng Juan cannot be said to be selfish. But Zheng Juan is still willing to apologize to Zhou Bingkun, although Zhou Bingkun also apologized at the same time, but zheng Juan's attitude can still be seen.
When everyone is blaming Zhou Bingyi, only Zheng Juan has been silently weighing the pros and cons, and is standing on Zhou Bingyi's point of view.
Even if she understood that there was an elder brother in the family who was an official, when he encountered problems, this big brother should help. But Zheng Juan also knows that some things can be found by the big brother, and some things are not.
This principle has not changed until Zhou Bingkun is in prison, even if she watched Zhou Bingkun go to prison, she did not go to Zhou Bingyi, perhaps she understood that if the eldest brother could help, she would not wait for her to open her mouth.
Of course, the main thing is that she does not want to see Zhou Bingkun and Zhou Bingyi brothers at odds.
She is rational, but delicate
The appearance of Luo Shibin is both unexpected and reasonable.
Whether Zheng Juan is willing to admit it or not, Zhou Nan is Luo Shibin's son. For this reason, although she felt flustered and sad, she never forcibly interfered with Zhou Nan and Luo Shibin's relationship, not because of her generosity, but because she understood that Zhou Nan had grown up and some things could not go according to her own wishes.
Most importantly, she had no reasonable reason to ask Zhou Nan to do so, or she couldn't say that.
She herself was reluctant to face the painful past, but all of this was based on Zhou Bingkun's reputation, and she didn't mind whether she would be chewed on the root of her tongue or looked down upon. But she was very concerned that Zhou Bingkun was being pointed out.
Therefore, she is worthy of Zhou Bingkun's statement: "My daughter-in-law is happy, I am happy, and my greatest wish in this life is to make my daughter-in-law happy." ”
The softness of her heart was given to Zhou Bingkun almost without reservation.
Zhou Father retired home, saw that it was zhou mother who was taking care of the vegetative person, did not have a word of thanks, directly drove people away, she did not have a word of complaint, not even rebuttal, just nodded lightly and left.
Because, she didn't want Zhou Bingkun to be embarrassed.
There was a contradiction between father and son, while comforting Zhou Bingkun, who was listless all day, she was worried about Zhou Father, and she was openly and secretly trying to find a way to let Zhou Bingkun write a letter to Zhou Father, and even had a series of lame excuses: I can't write some words, the words I write are ugly, and I'm afraid that I can't write well.
In the face of Zhou Father's letter, she knew very clearly that Zhou Bingkun also missed Zhou Father very much, so she always waited until Zhou Bingkun returned home before taking out the letter and asking him to read it to Zhou Mother, her reason was: I was afraid of giving The Miss (wrong).
Marrying her was the most correct thing Zhou Bingkun had done in his life
People who have watched "Ordinary World" should have heard such a passage: Tian Xiaoxia was cultivated in a hundred years, and He Xiulian was cultivated in a thousand years.
"Ordinary World" and "Human World" are also works that won the Mao Dun Literature Award, but in terms of delicacy, I personally feel that "Human World" is better. In the play, she can be called a good daughter-in-law, and among the younger generation, Yu Hong can barely compare with Zheng Juan.
As for the eldest sister-in-law Hao Dongmei, in the original work, after Zhou Bingyi's death, it took only four months to remarry someone else, and Zhou Rong unexpectedly caused discomfort in the reader's heart again, and went to be a bridesmaid for the former sister-in-law.
Of course, Hao Dongmei's remarriage, not impossible, but with Zhou Bingyi bit by bit, with so many years of preparation, such a short period of time to remarry, it is really impossible for people to agree.
Compared with Hao Dongmei's rapid empathy, Zhou Bingkun's 9 years of imprisonment seem to be a ceiling-level challenge for Zheng Juan.
But this woman, selling baked sweet potatoes in the winter, selling popsicles in the summer, the help given by family and friends not only did not spend, but saved up little by little with the money she earned from doing small business, and on the day when Zhou Bingkun returned home, she happily showed the account book of each of her money to Zhou Bingkun.
At that moment, she had a distressed smile on her face, as if to say: You see, I am very capable, right!
As the old saying goes: three generations of virtuous wives.
Zheng Juan has done it, for the elderly, is a rare good daughter-in-law, for her husband, is a rare xiannai helper, and for the child, is a good mother who establishes the correct three views and enlightenment.
In zhou Bingkun's life, the most correct thing to do was to marry Zheng Juan.