True love itself is never a superficial vanity;
It is the tenderness and security buried in the details.
Sometimes, just subconscious action, a firm look, a warm embrace;
A word of self-respect can melt the hardness of the body and dispel the exhaustion of the body.
What really drives love is not intense love, but trivial time.
True love is all hidden in the details.
Here are 3 little details a man cares about you.
He will give you a full sense of security
The sense of security that girls want, not flowery language, not the promise of the mountain alliance and the sea oath;
It is the man's heartfelt concern and care.
It is hidden in the little by little action, and you can feel the plain and firm stability.
Security is not fleeting, but an ordinary and lasting state.
And if a man, he really cares about you, then he will be able to understand what you want.
He may not say a lot of beautiful love words to you, but he will certainly meet your expectations.
Knowing that you are in a relationship and insecure, he will give you enough security you want.
Will be unconditionally loyal to you and take the initiative to reject all ambiguity for you.
There is a scene in "The World" that is impressive:
Zhou Bingkun was injured and admitted to the hospital, and Sun Xiaoning, who had a crush on him, rushed over after learning the news.
In order not to hurt his wife Zheng Juan, Zhou Bingkun took this opportunity to completely reject Sun Xiaoning's love.
Here's what he said:
"Your sister-in-law is the pillar of my family and the backbone of my heart."
My mother is quite right, Zheng Juan is a kind of person, sent to the family by God;
Whoever has this kind of woman, it is really fluffy, and adults and children are good to follow.
You said that if your sister-in-law didn't want me, I wouldn't even have a place to cry. ”
For the sake of the loved one, do not engage in ambiguity, clearly and decisively reject the person who has a crush on him,
This is what it looks like for a man to really care about a person.
Spoil you like a child
Suzen said:
"A person loves you very much and will always remember you in his heart;
A person loves you very much and will indulge you everywhere in ordinary times;
Only those who see you more importantly than themselves will spoil you. ”
Life will teach you how to be an adult, and only those who truly love you will spoil you back to a child.
In the variety show "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves", Zhang Xinyu and her husband sprinkled sugar, and they were very human, and instantly became lemon essence.
She was eliminated in the show and then called her husband He Jie to talk about it.
He Jie said on the phone: "The child has failed, the child..."
When she heard this, she couldn't help but cry, and then He Jie comforted her:
"Actually, you are already very strong, and you are not their opponent horizontally.
But looking vertically, you've been reborn, you look at the technology of your first stage,
Look at the level of the fourth performance; it has already ridden the wind and waves, broken the big waves. ”
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In love, being spoiled into a child by the person you like is really an incomparably happy thing.
In front of him, you don't have to pretend to be strong, you can take off all your disguises and defenses and be your truest self.
Naturally he will come to love you and spoil you.
Be able to perceive your emotions
Qian Zhongshu said:
"If there is someone who does not want to see your pain and tears;
Even willing to give everything for your smile, this is a happy city gate. ”
There is no fixed standard for feelings, but people who care about you will perceive your emotions at the first time.
Not because he has any telepathy with you, but because he loves you enough, cares about you, and understands you.
He clearly knows the meaning behind your every subtle expression.
So, when you're unhappy, even if you don't say anything, he can sense your unhappiness.
He will find ways to make you happy when you are not happy;
It will also silently guard you when you need companionship.
His love for you may not say it out loud;
But in every bit of life, you can feel it.
Be with him, anytime;
You will not feel helpless, as if abandoned by the world.
Because, every time you are depressed, you need to talk, comfort, and accompany;
He will be there, he will coax you in his own way, accompany you.
As long as he is there, even the greatest sadness will be dispelled by the sun.
He is like your sun, shining and warming your world.