In the entertainment industry, a place full of scandals, Zhang Xinyu has always been a controversial figure.
This actress, who was born in the modeling industry, was not only known as a "stunner in the world" because of her outstanding appearance, but also criticized because of her chaotic love history.
From the underground love affair with Hong Kong star Wu Zhuoxi, the complicated love and injury with the "big black bull" Li Chen, to the continuous scandals with singer Feng Mingchao, Zhang Xinyu's love life can be described as ups and downs.
And just when people thought she was destined to be in the sea of love, a mysterious man appeared on the trajectory of her life and completely changed her fate.
He is He Jie, a military instructor, a "third generation of soldiers" from Gansu in Northwest China.
The union of the two caused an uproar in the outside world, but in them, we also saw a pure and romantic love story.
One
When the name He Jie is mentioned, everyone inside and outside the army knows and knows it.
As an instructor of a well-known special forces unit of the army, He Jie relied on his excellent combat ability and resolute command ability to perform miraculous feats in several military missions, and was known as the "Lingnan Tiger" with outstanding achievements.
In the face of many dangers, he never flinched and feared, invincible and invincible.
In the eyes of his comrades-in-arms in the army, He Jie is the tiger that always has terrifying fangs and has been battle-hardened, making countless fierce enemies fearful.
On the contrary, the name Zhang Xinyu is not so good in the entertainment industry.
Since her debut, Zhang Xinyu has always been haunted by gossip about "inappropriateness" and "untraditional", and has been criticized for changing boyfriends many times.
Because of her overly straightforward personality, she was not only criticized by public opinion, but even her career came to a standstill.
The outside world's evaluation of her has all been degraded to the point of "wandering".
Who would have thought that this pair of seemingly "incompatible" people would end up in a sweet love?
Everything has to start with the 2017 variety show "Strange Soldier Divine Dog".
Because He Jie served as an instructor, the first time he met Zhang Xinyu, he gave people a very serious feeling, and Zhang Xinyu was even more frightened and didn't dare to look at him.
However, with the in-depth recording of the show, the courage and tenacity of Zhang Xinyu opened He Jie's eyes.
For example, there is a part of the show where you have to choose which police dog to pair with.
The other male guests at the meeting all chose more docile breeds, but Zhang Xinyu took the initiative to ask to partner with the most ferocious Belgian shepherd, "Ellevis".
"Elovis" is manic by nature, extremely fierce to strangers, and will roar mad dogs when he gets close, and his strength can drag people on the ground for several meters.
But in the face of such dangers, Zhang Xinyu still looks like she is at home, and she is not afraid of facing difficulties.
In the following training process, Zhang Xinyu also showed extraordinary tenacity and perseverance.
During this period, not only were her legs covered with scars, but even her body was covered with a lot of colors, but even so, she never thought of giving up, and she endured the pain and persevered without saying a word.
Once, He Jie saw Zhang Xinyu's wrist bruised and purple, and when she stepped forward to ask "does it hurt", she gritted her teeth and said, "I don't hurt!"
What impressed He Jie the most was Zhang Xinyu's strength that was not afraid of hardship.
Because the long hair at that time affected the training program, He Jie reminded Zhang Xinyu many times to cut off the waist-length long hair, who knew that she really compromised!
At the moment when He Jie personally cut her hair, although Zhang Xinyu was full of tears, she just didn't say a word, showing her determination not to show weakness in front of He Jie.
It was this series of thrilling experiences that made the "Lingnan Tiger" He Jie involuntarily attracted!
From the outside, Zhang Xinyu is indeed no different from Zhang Dada and others, but her courage to dare to do things and perseverance to defy difficulties are completely unattainable by others.
I don't know when it started, and a feeling that I had never felt before gradually rose in He Jie's heart.
Maybe it started when the long hair stained with tears was cut off by him, or maybe it was an inadvertent moment when Zhang Xinyu gritted his teeth and insisted.
In short, when Zhang Xinyu packed her bags and said goodbye, He Jie suddenly felt an unprecedented sense of loss, and even frantically mustered up the courage to take the initiative to confess to her......
Two
In He Jie's eyes, Zhang Xinyu is so dazzling.
But in the eyes of the outside world, she is a completely different situation.
Zhang Xinyu, who has debuted for many years, has been haunted by the doubts of "untraditional" and "an indecent person in his bones" from beginning to end.
In fact, in the final analysis, it is because Zhang Xinyu's turbulent heart is too impulsive.
She never pretends to be a missed feeling, but instead pours out all her inner thoughts bravely and frankly.
At this point, she always provokes the criticism of a bunch of sunspots.
For example, after her relationship with Hong Kong movie star Wu Zhuoxi was exposed, Zhang Xinyu once posted a selfie of herself on social networking sites with Wu Zhuoxi's account because she was dissatisfied with the other party's indifferent attitude towards her.
As a result, this move angered the other party's fanatical fans, and Zhang Xinyu was once caught in the whirlpool of public opinion.
However, she may also realize that her behavior is indeed a bit "excessive", and her relationship with Wu Zhuoxi ended without a problem, and time came to 2012 in a flash.
This year, Zhang Xinyu and the popular actor Li Chen came together again, and publicly admitted their relationship for the first time.
It's a pity that the good times didn't last long, and the "heart-shaped love stone" that Li Chen gave to Zhang Xinyu was later picked up, and it turned out to be a "love token" that he would give to every ex-girlfriend.
For a while, the fire of public opinion once again overwhelmed Zhang Xinyu, questioning whether her sincere love still exists.
In the face of stormy accusations, Zhang Xinyu's first reaction was not to choose to calm down, but to fight back and never compromise.
She began to go crazy on the Internet and argue with netizens, but she refused to bow to public opinion.
But in the end, all this was just the futility of violent resistance, Zhang Xinyu completely collapsed after enduring a war of words like "throwing bricks and leading jade", and had to go to Europe to avoid the limelight.
What's even more sighing is that the relationship with the "big black bull" also brought Zhang Xinyu extremely unbearable memories.
At first, the relationship between the two can be described as honey and oil, and the big black bull commented on Zhang Xinyu as "straightforward, true, and clear in love and hate".
But after the two broke up, all this beauty became a "laughing stock" - the big black bull not only turned a blind eye to Zhang Xinyu's sincerity, but also became a bosom lover with Fan Bingbing in the turn of his head.
also put those "love words" behind the year, saying "you have your means, I have my life".
For a while, Zhang Xinyu simply lived in the shadow of "afraid of seeing people".
No matter what you wear or do, you will be compared with the "big black bull" and Fan Bingbing, and will be criticized for "wanting to be offside".
Even if you want to relax yourself by drawing, you will be accused and abused for "showmanship".
Even Zhang Xinyu's supposed free and easy side could not escape the criticism of the "scheming girl".
In this way, under the pressure of waves after waves, Zhang Xinyu once walked into the darkest moment of his life.
Her career has almost come to a complete standstill, scolding has spread to all corners of the Internet, and the troubles of life and feelings have made this originally simple and lovely girl almost collapse.
Fortunately, at this most desperate time, fate opened a new window for her - He Jie.
Three
If Zhang Xinyu has changed after experiencing that "dark years", it is that she has long kept the traditional concept of marriage in her heart.
Perhaps, it is precisely because she once fell into the quagmire of frustration and confusion that she attaches more importance to an emotional sustenance that can be accompanied hand in hand until old age.
At this time, He Jie seemed to have become the desired person gifted by fate to Zhang Xinyu.
After getting married, Zhang Xinyu made a complete "180-degree turn" to the traditional family role, she not only took the initiative to put down her career to concentrate on housework, but also deliberately changed her arrogant and naïve habits in order to integrate into the life of the He family.
The most obvious change is that in order to cooperate with He Jie's military career, she chose to cut off her waist-length hair that had been around for six years.
Although this is a huge sacrifice for a girl, Zhang Xinyu agreed quite happily.
In the past, He Jie once cut off her long hair with one hand is vivid, and this time Zhang Xinyu is even more willing, willing to cut off the long hair that is regarded as a treasure, just to give He Jie the greatest understanding and support.
Not only that, in order to please the strict He family, Zhang Xinyu worked hard to learn the special food of Lanzhou, and even the housework on weekdays was all-inclusive.
She grows vegetables and fruits at home, accompanies her pet dog, and cooks herself, integrating her whole person into the simple and simple life style of Lanzhou people.
She was once scolded for "indiscretion", but now she puts all her thoughts on family life.
Some netizens joked that in the past, they would only hear the news of her changing boyfriends in the market, but now they can only appreciate her daily routine of parenting and housework in the circle of friends.
finally made the outside world completely change - it turns out that this seemingly "untraditional" girl is actually a good wife and mother more than anyone else.
Four
In fact, at the beginning of marriage, He Jie's relatives and friends did not have expectations for this family business.
After all, He Jie was born in a family of three generations of soldiers, and his ancestors have been impregnated with many traditional values since childhood.
As the future Zhang Xinyu, a female star who was once criticized for being "untraditional", naturally made the He family pinch a cold sweat.
They are worried that Zhang Xinyu's personality is too extroverted and too flamboyant, can she really be knowledgeable and have the basic conditions for being a soldier's wife?
Fortunately, Zhang Xinyu quickly dispelled the concerns of the He family through her own efforts and intentions.
In her married life, she completely subverted the image of a "rebellious girl" and became a virtuous and generous housewife.
Not only that, but she also fully showed her traditional and gentle side, devoted herself wholeheartedly to the heavy housework, and tried to keep He Jie's parents' hearts in her heart all the time.
At the same time, He Jie did fulfill his responsibilities as a husband.
Outsiders seem to be heroic, brave and good at fighting on weekdays, but at home, he is a good man who is considerate and spoils his wife.
Whenever he is in a foreign country, He Jie will always prepare all kinds of surprises to ensure the quality of life of his wife and give meticulous care.
For example, once Zhang Xinyu went on a business trip for work, He Jie asked someone to know her flight number in advance and quietly appeared at the airport to pick up the plane.
Seeing her husband's surprise visit, Zhang Xinyu at that time was immediately overjoyed, with a happy smile on her face.
On weekdays, He Jie will also use his spare time to spend with his wife and always keep her in mind.
What's even more commendable is that in the face of secular slander and criticism, He Jie has always stood unswervingly with his wife.
In an interview, when asked if he knew about Zhang Xinyu's "scandals", He Jie responded without hesitation: "From now on, I will never allow anyone to point fingers at her again!"
In his eyes, Zhang Xinyu is the best wife in his life, worthy of being cared for and loved.
epilogue
The encounter between Zhang Xinyu and He Jie is no accident, as they themselves said when they got married, "it is a marriage destined to be experienced".
From the outside, they seem to be a combination of "strong and strong", but fate has injected wisps of tenderness and honey into this pair of "strong men", allowing them to take care of each other and complement each other.
This cross-traditional love story interprets the sentiment of a pair of lovers in the new era with actions.
In this material age, they have redefined what is the most traditional and memorable love in their own way.
I don't know what kind of love is the most traditional feeling in your heart?