Lin Feng gave his wife Zhang Xinyue a precious watch for her birthday, and her career climbed to a new peak and drew a clear line with the previous degree
When love says goodbye to the "fairy tale filter": from the choice of Lin Feng and Wu Qianyu, we can get a glimpse of the changes in the contemporary concept of marriage and love
Pink balloons, pearl crowns, cartoon greeting cards...... Lin Feng's photo of Zhang Xinyue's birthday celebration is full of an ordinary sense of happiness. There are no luxurious scenes, no famous brands, but it has triggered a new round of discussion on social media about his relationship choice with Wu Qianyu. The former golden boy and girl are now moving towards a completely different life, which just reflects the subtle changes in the concept of contemporary marriage and love.
Once upon a time, we were obsessed with the "prince and princess" style love fairy tale, longing for vigorous and romantic love. At that time, Lin Feng was young and handsome, with a successful career, and Wu Qianyu, who pursued fashion and independent personality, were like the protagonists of a realistic version of idol dramas, satisfying people's fantasies of perfect love. The seven-year relationship finally came to an end, which also made many people sigh that "fairy tales are all lies".
Nowadays, more and more people are gradually realizing that love is not an empty castle, it needs to be built on the basis of reality. The triviality of firewood, rice, oil and salt, and the run-in of character concepts are the norm of married life. Lin Feng chose to start a family with Zhang Xinyue, perhaps because he valued this bland truth. Zhang Xinyue may not be as dazzling as Wu Qianyu, but she is gentle and cares for her family and is willing to pay for her family, which is more in line with Lin Feng's character and life philosophy.
The combination of Wu Qianyu and Shi Boxiong represents another choice of marriage and love. They pursue exquisite quality of life, enjoy the romance of the two-person world, and pay more attention to spiritual fit and common growth. This kind of "evenly matched" love is also more and more admired by contemporary young people.
There is no right or wrong choice, it's just that at different stages of life, people's understanding of love and marriage has changed. When love says goodbye to the "fairy tale filter", we begin to face up to our own needs and find a partner who is truly suitable for us.
What is more worth pondering is that the social evaluation system is also quietly changing. In the past, women were often objectified and defined, and marrying into a wealthy family was seen as a "winner in life". Nowadays, more and more women are pursuing independence and desire to achieve something in their careers, and marriage is no longer their only pursuit. Zhang Xinyue still insists on working and running her own business after marriage, and this independent and self-reliant attitude has also won the recognition of many netizens.
Lin Feng and Wu Qianyu's choice is just a microcosm of the changes in the concept of marriage and love in the current society. Love is no longer a single model, and marriage is no longer a shackle that binds freedom. Everyone has the right to choose the lifestyle they want and pursue their own happiness.
And for those who still believe in love, perhaps they should think more about: how can we protect love in reality, let it go through the wind and rain, and still maintain the original beauty? This not only requires the joint efforts of both parties, but also requires a deeper understanding and management of love and marriage.