"The World of Man" has come to an end, but the topic of heat is still not reduced, today I want to talk to you about Cai Xiaoguang and Zhou Rong, maybe many people's eyes on Zhou Bingkun, Zheng Juan, for the two of them did not pay too much attention, but I still want to talk about them both.
Feng Yue and Zhou Nan qingmei bamboo horse, but Zhou Bingkun did not agree, Zhou Rong also disagreed, after all, this is the "hidden pain" of the old Zhou family, if the two of them are allowed to be together, then the fig leaf of the old Zhou family will be lifted.
In a fit of rage, Feng Yue ran away from home and ran to Beijing to find her biological father, who was then taken out of the country by her father. After Zhou Rong knew, she naturally went to France to chase her daughter, and after twelve years, she never came back here, leaving Cai Xiaoguang alone at home, and many people thought that Zhou Rong was selfish and ruthless.
At the beginning, the editor also had such a thought, thinking that Zhou Rong was an overly selfish person, only caring about his own feelings, and secretly not worth it for Cai Xiaoguang in his heart.
In the original work, Cai Xiaoguang is a talented and famous director, his control of dramas and TV series has won the trust and respect of the leaders of the provinces and cities, and the people around him also have great respect for him, and are respectfully called "Cai Absolute Lord" by everyone - the absolute main theme director.
Cai Xiaoguang has principles in doing things, has a bottom line for being a person, and has a measure, morality, and heavy feelings, coupled with the aura of his well-known director, which has always been praised by people in the circle, and can be said to be a golden signboard. Like a cash cow of the drama troupe, women who are willing to be "unspoken" by him abound, but Cai Xiaoguang has never moved his heart, because his heart will always belong to Zhou Rong.
Perhaps in everyone's heart, this is a wonderful man in the world, which can be said to be an ideal in the world, but Zhou Rong does not know how to cherish, which is also the reason why everyone is not worth it for Cai Xiaoguang.
So is that really what it looks like? Perhaps after reading Cai Xiaoguang's drunken words, we will truly understand the author's intentions, Zhou Rong went for twelve years, leaving Cai Xiaoguang alone in China, while lonely, while successful, radiant walking in the world.
In fact, Zhou Rong may not be so selfish, and Cai Xiaoguang is not an ideal in the world. We must understand that in the adult world, everyone has their own difficulties and their own last resorts.
Under Zhou Rong's seemingly selfish appearance, there is actually a great maternal heart; and under the light of Cai Xiaoguang's seemingly human ideals, it also contains a gray and dark humanity that cannot be recognized.
Feng Yue fled to France with her biological father, and Zhou Rong, as a biological mother, naturally could not ignore it and could only get her daughter back, which is something that any mother would do. It was only the development of things that completely exceeded their expectations that they would lead to their stay overseas for twelve years.
Presumably, when she first went out, Zhou Rong was just bent on getting her daughter back, but when she applied for a return visa with her daughter, the two encountered very serious problems, and the defense appeal did not play any role, and the two could only stay in France.
Later, the problem was finally solved, but things changed again, and Feng Yue had been admitted to a key college in France. In the eyes of parents, children's studies are the future, related to the fate of their lives, and it is worth making any sacrifice, Zhou Rong naturally thinks so.
Considering her daughter's self-esteem, Feng Yue did not obtain a degree in France, and naturally did not have the face to return to China; and Feng Yue's academic performance only accounted for the middle and upper reaches, and the probability of returning to China to study well was not large, and she could not win a good future.
In addition, there is also a background of the times, that is, in the 90s, it is the time when the boom of going abroad is swarming, and how many parents have scattered their thousands of dollars in order to send their children abroad, just so that they can still be gilded abroad and can have a decent job after returning home.
Considering these considerations, Zhou Rong's choice is naturally clear, even if her heart is urgent to return to China, it is not better than her consideration of her daughter's future. Understand Zhou Rong's starting point, you will also understand her intentions, not that she does not love Cai Xiaoguang, nor does she not want to return to China, but at the crossroads of her daughter's life, she understands that staying in France is her best choice.
Zhou Rong herself understands very well that this choice is very bad for herself, she will lose her comfortable life in China, she can only rent a house everywhere in foreign countries, there is no decent job of an associate professor, she can only find part-time jobs everywhere to maintain her life with her daughter, more importantly, she cannot see her lover and relatives, and can only rely on her daughter in a foreign country.
Obviously, Zhou Rong has lost a lot, but for the role of mother, she can only choose to sacrifice herself.
Of course, Cai Xiaoguang, who stayed in China, was not waiting there like a jade place, even though his heart for Zhou Rong had never changed, but his body already belonged to other women, not one but four women.
In the eyes of everyone, Cai Xiaoguang is the wronged party, but also the party that has made great sacrifices, so he is infinitely proud of his private life, although there are women outside, he has restrained himself very much, and he is still an ideal in the world.
Maybe to some extent, men can separate sex from love, but so can women? Let's think about it in another way, if it is Cai Xiaoguang who goes abroad and Zhou Rong stays in China to find a lover, it is definitely a woman who cannot be tolerated by society.
From the perspective of cultural attributes, society's requirements for men and women are different, and the natural tolerance is also different. Under the appearance of Cai Xiaoguang's aura, there is a gray and dark humanity that people cannot identify with, just because he is a man, he is understood by everyone.
In these twelve years, Zhou Rong and Cai Xiaoguang still love each other, but they have their own lives and pursuits. Let us understand a truth, adult love is not just love is enough, they have to take on the pressure of life and each other's responsibilities.
In the mud of life, they shoulder the burden of their own body and live a life of different sides, just like Zhou Zhigang and Su Hua, Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei in the play, they understand their responsibilities and obligations, and will not reduce their love for each other because of separation.
Many people may ask what is supporting them and making them hold each other in their hearts, and perhaps Cai Xiaoguang's drunken remarks tell us the real answer to the question, "She is my literary and artistic enlightener, I have today begun from the love of reading literary works, when her home was my Sanwei Bookstore, she and his brother are like my private school Mr. We have long been spiritually connected, and we are inseparable spiritually. ”
For Zhou Rong and Cai Xiaoguang, the two are already soul mates, Cai Xiaoguang understands that Zhou Rong has been in France for 12 years, and Zhou Rong also understands that Cai Xiaoguang has other women outside, and they understand and tolerate each other.
Later, Zhou Rong returned from France, Cai Xiaoguang hugged her, and the two had no barrier, just like the newlywed Yan'er. The experience of the two tells us: love can be a sea oath mountain alliance, wind and snow, marriage must face chai rice oil and salt, face the responsibility on their shoulders.
Spiritual support has a stronger and more lasting power than material support. The brilliance and contradictions of human nature may bloom more brilliantly when mutual understanding and tolerance are tolerated.