After Zhou Rong and Feng Huacheng divorced, they married Cai Xiaoguang.
Zhou Rong is Cai Xiaoguang's first love.
At the age of youth and ignorance, Cai Xiaoguang had a good feeling for Zhou Rong, Zhou Rong liked to read, and Cai Xiaoguang also fell in love with literature under her influence.
Zhou Rong is not only Cai Xiaoguang's "first experience" in love, but also his spiritual "mentor", and Zhou Rong's life for Cai Xiaoguang is of great significance.
Zhou Rong often discussed world famous works with her brother Zhou Bingyi at home, and both brothers and sisters could put forward unique insights, and Cai Xiaoguang liked the cultural atmosphere of the Zhou family and often ran to the Zhou family.
Zhou Rong is not only smart, highly literate, but also beautiful, is one of the best beauties in the "light word piece", in order to pursue Zhou Rong, Cai Xiaoguang spent a lot of thought.
But at that time, Zhou Rong did not look up to the young and green Cai Xiaoguang, and in her love castle, she longed to look up, not to be looked up.
Zhou Rong did not hesitate to marry the "rightist" poet Feng Huacheng, and this marriage lasted for more than ten years, leaving only chicken feathers on the ground and no romance to speak of.
Cai Xiaoguang loves Zhou Rong and can't help it, and has talked about several girlfriends one after another, but they have not been able to blossom, and compared with the talented woman Zhou Rong, other women are difficult to enter Cai Xiaoguang's heart.
Cai Xiaoguang, as Zhou Rong's friend, cares about her life and helps her family, after learning of Zhou Rong's divorce, Cai Xiaoguang seized the opportunity to confess to Zhou Rong again, this time, Zhou Rong did not reject Cai Xiaoguang.
Cai Xiaoguang got his wish and married his beloved woman, for Zhou Rong, he took Zhou Rong's mother's family seriously and tried his best to help; he tried to have a good relationship with his stepdaughter Feng Yue and run the small family warm and comfortable.
But Cai Xiaoguang paid so much, but Zhou Rong did not return the same love to him.
Zhou Rong is an associate professor at the university, very popular in the school, her classes are vivid and interesting, involving a wide range of knowledge, her every class is full, students of all grades who come to see her, student Zhang Zhaopo specially came to see Zhou Rong, to test her graduate school.
At the same time, Hou Qianqian, the daughter of Cai Xiaoguang's investor, also wanted to test Zhou Rong's graduate school, and Hou entrusted Cai Xiaoguang's relationship and invited Zhou Rong.
Zhou Rong encouraged Hou Qianqian, and a group of people chatted very happily, all thinking that Hou Qianqian's becoming Zhou Rong's "disciple" was ironclad, but they did not expect that after Zhou Rong returned, she gave up Hou Qianqian and chose Zhang Zhaopo.
Zhou Rong's approach made Cai Xiaoguang lose face.
Hou Zong no longer invested in Cai Xiaoguang, Cai Xiaoguang had a hard time asking Zhou Rong to do something, but he was beaten by Zhou Rong, you must know that when Zhou Rong asked Cai Xiaoguang before, Cai Xiaoguang was always responsive.
Cai Xiaoguang expressed his dissatisfaction with Zhou Rong, and Zhou Rong said the reason for choosing Zhang Zhaopo, because Zhang Zhaopo's attitude towards his studies was more simple, he said that after graduation, he returned to his hometown as a teacher and changed the backward appearance of his hometown.
Zhou Rong was touched by Zhang Zhaopo and felt that it was very valuable for him to have this pure heart, and Hou Qianqian was a rich woman, who did not lack food and drink, and could still live well without graduate school.
In fact, zhou rong chose which student, there is no problem, Cai Xiaoguang is angry that Zhou Rong did not consult with him, and made up his own mind to publish the list.
When Hou questioned Cai Xiaoguang, Cai Xiaoguang did not know what was happening, he did not expect that Zhou Rong would let him get off the stage like this, after all, he and Zhou Rong were already husband and wife, and Zhou Rong had the idea that he should communicate with Cai Xiaoguang first.
Being ridiculed by investors, Cai Xiaoguang knew how unreliable Zhou Rong was, Zhou Rong was self-centered, she did not consider Cai Xiaoguang's position, Cai Xiaoguang couldn't help but spend time with Zhou Rong.
This was not the first time Zhou Rong had embarrassed Cai Xiaoguang.
When Zhou Rong and Feng Huacheng were not yet divorced, Cai Xiaoguang went through the back door to apply for housing, and Cai Xiaoguang went east and west for Zhou Rong, and took a box of sea cucumbers to ask for Director Miao of Zhou Rong's unit.
Director Miao received the gift, but the house was tense, Zhou Rong could not get it, indignant; Cai Xiaoguang patiently comforted Zhou Rong, promised to ensure that she was assigned to the room, Zhou Rong did not listen, and in a rage, he asked Director Miao to get the box of sea cucumbers back again.
That box of sea cucumbers, so that Cai Xiaoguang no longer has the face to see Director Miao, Zhou Rong does not take Cai Xiaoguang's affection, Cai Xiaoguang is not pleased, but also has to take care of Zhou Rong's emotions.
Cai Xiaoguang only thought that Zhou Rong was Qinggao at that time, and he was not accustomed to the wind of gift-giving, but he did not expect to marry her to know that her selfishness could not be changed by intimate relationships.
After Cai Xiaoguang got married, she called Zhou Rong the "Queen of Sea Cucumbers", and Zhou Rong had long realized the mistakes she had made in the matter of "asking for sea cucumbers", but she did not learn her lesson and still went her own way.
Regardless of Cai Xiaoguang's feelings, Zhou Rong insisted on leaving Zhang Zhaopo behind, but as a result, he was put together by Zhang Zhaopo, who was sincere in his reasons for studying graduate school, and going to the countryside as a teacher was just a lie he carefully packaged.
Zhang Zhaopo told Zhou Rong that people always have to survive first.
Zhang Zhaopo, who was not simple in his mind, taught Zhou Rong a lesson fiercely, letting her know that people's hearts are sinister and society is complicated. Zhou Rong and Cai Xiaoguang got into a marital discord for such a student, which was really not worth it.
Zhang Zhaopo's move inadvertently exposed the marriage status of Zhou Rong and Cai Xiaoguang, Zhou Rong married Cai Xiaoguang because Cai Xiaoguang was very good at taking care of people, and Zhou Rong was used to unilaterally enjoying each other's efforts in marriage.
In fact, Zhou Rong and Cai Xiaoguang's marriage will have problems, not zhang Zhaopo and Hou Qianqian, her way of dealing with the world, sooner or later will hurt Cai Xiaoguang.
After reading the original book of "The World of Man", I know that Zhou Rong has never truly loved Cai Xiaoguang, and her marriage to Cai Xiaoguang is only the result of her weighing the pros and cons.
When Zhou Rong was eighteen or nineteen years old, he preferred to follow the "tainted" Feng Huacheng rather than accept Cai Xiaoguang, who had a good family and was sincere to him, because compared with Feng Huacheng, Cai Xiaoguang at that time had no attraction to Zhou Rong.
Feng Huacheng is already famous, published poems in newspapers, and Cai Xiaoguang is just a young male classmate, Zhou Rong admires Feng Huacheng's talent, in order to fall in love with Feng Huacheng, Cai Xiaoguang has become Zhou Rong's shield.
The Zhou family all thought that Cai Xiaoguang was Zhou Rong's object, and Cai Xiaoguang was willing to help her cover up, until Zhou Rong went to the remote Countryside in Guizhou privately, and her relationship with Feng Huacheng was exposed.
Zhou Rong's use of Cai Xiaoguang has long become a habit.
After Zhou Rong got married, she could not take care of her mother's family, and repeatedly entrusted Cai Xiaoguang to take care of her big son; even after she and Feng Huacheng lived a decent life, Zhou Rong also thought of Cai Xiaoguang whenever there was something wrong.
Slowly, Zhou Rong no longer despised Cai Xiaoguang, because Cai Xiaoguang became an excellent director, with decent work, wide connections, strong work ability, and more than the old and frail Feng Huacheng to meet Zhou Rong's vanity, "The World of Man" wrote about Zhou Rong's psychology:
Moreover, the conjugal relationship with Cai Xiaoguang also needs to be well managed. Strictly speaking, they also belong to the type of couple who marry first and then fall in love. In the past, Cai Xiaoguang was unrequited with her, but after marriage, she still couldn't do that, and she had to show her love.
She also really feels that Cai Xiaoguang deserves her deep love, he does not have the problem of Feng Huacheng picking flowers and weeds, and as a drama troupe director, it is even more precious. ”
In the original work of "The World of Man", zhou Rong married Cai Xiaoguang not long ago, for her daughter, went abroad, the mother and daughter stayed in France for 12 years before returning, Cai Xiaoguang did not move the idea of divorce from Zhou Rong.
Daughter Feng Yue rebelled, and after the matter of early love was disciplined by Zhou Rong, she turned around and ran to her biological father Feng Huacheng, who took Feng Yue to France, and Zhou Rong had to give up her career and family in order to recover Feng Yue.
Feng Huacheng threw Feng Yue to Zhou Rong and disappeared, Zhou Rong relied on part-time work for her daughter to study in France, and both mother and daughter were very ambitious, and they would never return to China without making some achievements.
In fact, Zhou Rong already had the opportunity to return to China, but she still insisted on staying abroad, completely ignoring Cai Xiaoguang, who "guarded the empty house alone".
Cai Xiaoguang waited for Zhou Rong for 12 years, his wife was not around for many years, Cai Xiaoguang was a normal man, of course, there were emotional and physiological needs, he had found 4 lovers, but his wife's name has been retained for Zhou Rong.
The lover who accompanied Cai Xiaoguang for the longest time was called Guan Ling, Who was a head nurse and had a marriage, because of her cheating that led to the breakdown of the marriage, after the divorce, she was afraid that she would not be able to control her body, and insisted on not getting married again.
Guan Ling and Cai Xiaoguang were together, each taking what they needed, and getting along very happily, and the original book of "The World of Man" wrote:
"The word sitting in the heart and not being chaotic cannot withstand serious consideration, and when you think seriously, you feel that it is too unreliable." When a woman with a fairly posture takes the initiative and enthusiastically throws herself into her arms and hugs, it is generally impossible for a physiologically normal man not to be chaotic. At first, Cai Xiaoguang was still very worried, and after hearing Guan Ling say that she was a divorced single woman, she was relieved to be bold. ”
Guan Ling understands Cai Xiaoguang's need for lust, and also supports him in sticking to his feelings for Zhou Rong, she only wants Cai Xiaoguang to give her comfort and fill her emptiness, and does not destroy Cai Xiaoguang's idea of marriage and marrying him.
Guan Ling and Cai Xiaoguang agreed that when Zhou Rong returned, she would leave, and the two sides would not disturb each other; after Zhou Rong returned to China, she had a stomach problem, and Cai Xiaoguang entrusted Guan Ling to take care of Zhou Rong.
Meeting her husband's lover, Zhou Rong was not jealous, but admired Guan Ling, writing in the book:
At first, Zhou Rong thought that she was just a head nurse that Xiao Guang knew. Xiao Guang visited Qin, and from his expression and Guan Ling's expression, she keenly realized that the relationship between them was not as simple as ordinary understanding, but she was not jealous, on the contrary, she felt that Guan Ling was particularly cute. ”
Guan Ling has an optimistic personality, Zhou Rong is also influenced by her, lively a lot, in order to thank Guan Ling, Zhou Rong also invited Guan Ling to eat alone after recovering from illness.
Guan Ling asked Zhou Rong which point Cai Xiaoguang loved, and Zhou Rong said frankly:
"There was nothing about him that attracted me before, but later it was out of gratitude that he became his wife in return. The result backfired, not only did not repay, but it dragged him down endlessly.
But since becoming his wife, I think he is kind and interesting, and has an independent view of the world. A man who has these three points is enough to deserve the love of a woman like me. ”
The two discussed the advantages of Cai Xiaoguang, chatted very speculatively, and when they were separated, Zhou Rong also deliberately hugged Guan Ling.
Zhou Rong's generosity is something that ordinary wives can't do, and no woman can accept the man she loves to "have sex" with other women outside of marriage, and become a good sister with her love enemies, exposing the fact that Zhou Rong does not love Cai Xiaoguang.
Guan Ling flashed marriage, Zhou Rong insisted on going to her wedding, Zhou Rong said to Cai Xiaoguang:
"Xiao Guan is a person who is kind to me. In the years when I was not in China, people did not want you to do anything, but warmed your lonely spirit and flesh for me. When I was hospitalized, people gave me special care, and I am not a person with cold feelings, of course, I have to go. ”
Zhou Rong regards Guan Ling as a benefactor because Zhou Rong's wife responsibilities are all "done" by Guan Ling; Zhou Rong has been wandering abroad for 12 years, and she can have a complete home after returning, thanks to Guan Ling for helping her keep Cai Xiaoguang.
Cai Xiaoguang, a high-quality man, if he encounters not a frank shutdown, but a woman with ulterior motives, it is normal to break up the marriage of Cai Xiaoguang and Zhou Rong, after all, Zhou Rong has been absent for too long.
In the original work of "The World of Man", Zhou Rong was almost fifty years old when she returned to China, but Cai Xiaoguang still held her in the palm of his hand, because Zhou Rong was his youth and his obsession.
Many people do not understand, selfish Zhou Rong, why is it best to be partial to life?
Zhou Rong was able to meet Cai Xiaoguang, which was the luckiest thing in her life, but she was able to get Cai Xiaoguang's deep love because she had rich thoughts and a unique soul.
Zhou Rong liked to read since she was a child, and after going to the countryside, she lived in a cave and did not forget to review her homework and go to university, and knowledge changed Zhou Rong's fate and also shaped her unworldly temperament.
Zhou Rong has her selfish side in dealing with feelings, but she said a sentence to Feng Yue that is very correct: "We must first do ourselves well before we can attract love." ”
"Jane Eyre" said: "The relationship between people is a game, and we must always be inseparable and evenly matched with each other in order to rely on each other for a long time." ”
Some people say: Your good luck is hidden in your strength, but also in your unknown efforts. When you are strong, the whole world will be happy with you.
Only by becoming the best version of yourself will you meet the best other half.