Wen | Wu Qingqian
In the TV series "In the World", the love affair between Feng Yue and Zhou Nan, Hao Dongmei and Zhou Rong, the sister-in-law, have a completely opposite attitude, the former actively opposes, the latter is very understanding, and even adopts a tacit and conniving attitude. These two attitudes of no show two different personalities, Hao Dongmei, an outsider from a high-ranking cadre family, maintains the Zhou family and loves Zheng Juan more, while Zhou Rong, a high-ranking intellectual with a doctorate and a member of the Zhou family, cares more about his own interests and ignores the face of the Zhou family, which is very selfish. It is also in this matter that Hao Dongmei can see through Zhou Rong, and her evaluation of her sister-in-law is the same as Feng Huacheng, that is, Zhou Rong is self-centered.
The first to find out that Feng Yue liked Zhou Nan was Zhou Rong, when Zhou Bingkun moved back from the new house to the old house of Guangzi Tablet, Zhou Rong accidentally saw Feng Yue's diary while cleaning up her things, and then knew that her daughter liked her younger sister Zheng Juan and Luo Shibin's son Zhou Nan. Zhou Rong was a little surprised by this love affair, she did not expect that Feng Yue would like the eldest son of the little aunt, and she was also a little sad, so young to fall in love, did not understand things, loved or the brother's nominal eldest son, felt a little awkward, but not to the point of disgust.
However, considering the awkwardness, and in order to make her daughter live more convenient and comfortable, Zhou Rong told her sister-in-law Hao Dongmei about this matter to see if the other party could place Feng Yue. Hao Dongmei's first time was to think of picking Up Feng Yue to his home, anyway, there was an empty room at home, he had no children and no daughters, and Feng Yue was his niece. However, the mother Jin Yueji is afraid of asking God to be easy to send God, Zhou Rong put her daughter to her mother's house and put her fourteen years old, if it were not for Zhou Bingkun's helpless move, she might continue to put it in her mother's house, from this matter she felt that Zhou Rong was unreliable, in case Zhou Rong had been putting her daughter here, what to do, not to mention that fourteen-year-old Feng Yue was in the rebellious period, in case there was something, where could they bear this responsibility. However, after Hao Dongmei took Feng Yue home for a meal, the old lady liked Feng Yue quite a lot, and after all, she couldn't stand Hao Dongmei's soft grinding and hard bubbles, so Feng Yue lived in the Hao family.
Two years later, Zhou Rong was finally divided into two rooms and a living room, no longer need to squeeze a small unity room with the small citizens who often talked about her, there were extra rooms for her daughter to live, so she thought of taking Feng Yue home, but Feng Yue was not willing to live with her parents, the reason was strange, she was raised in the parents of her brother-in-law Zhou Bingkun. However, reluctantly, Feng Yue and Zhou Nan's love affair was involved again, and this time Zhou Rong sided with Feng Yue, so Feng Yue was finally willing to return to her parents.
Feng Yue watched Zhou Nan and Luo Shibin walk after school, the two had a close relationship, and she was afraid that Zhou Nan would accept her father's suggestion to study abroad, so she waited for Zhou Nan on the necessary road to ask for clarification. Unexpectedly, Zhou Nan was slow to return, and the two hooligans saw that Feng Yue, who looked quite dazzling, was alone, and immediately became evil. Fortunately, Zhou Nan appeared in time, but the consequences were unimaginable. Frightened, Feng Yue's legs were weak and unstable, so he leaned on Zhou Nan, and Zhou Nan also gently hugged Feng Yue in pain, this scene just happened to be bumped into by Hao Dongmei, who came out to find Feng Yue, mistakenly thinking that the two began to fall in love.
After Hao Dongmei returned home, she called Zhou Rong about this matter, but Zhou Rong did not think that this was a big deal, and also expressed her understanding of Feng Yue, saying that she was also like this and regarded love as supreme. At that time, Zhou Rong went from the northeast Jichun to the mountains of southwest Guizhou to find Feng Huacheng for Feng Huacheng, and for Feng Huacheng, he did not hesitate to fall out with the Zhou family. Hao Dongmei has always disapproved of Zhou Rong's matter, she believes that although love is important, it is absolutely not important to the supreme, and she also said that it is the misleading of you literati and inkers who put love in such an important position.
This is probably the first time Zhou Rong saw her sister-in-law Hao Dongmei angry, her daughter also disturbed people's homes for two years, and now she still lives in people's homes and refuses to come back, and she has just been trained by her friend Cai Xiaoguang, who has always been willful, and she has learned to restrain and learn to speak well. Zhou Rong said that her sister-in-law misunderstood her meaning, she was a teacher, where can be called a literati inker, and in the matter of Feng Yue and Zhou Nan's love affair, the two of them absolutely agreed, and she also believed that love was by no means supreme. However, I have to admit that an age group has an age of understanding, when she was as old as Feng Yue, she thought that love came first, otherwise it would be impossible to ignore the feelings of her family and run to the mountains of Guizhou to find Feng Huacheng.
Hao Dongmei said that it was best for the two of them to reach an agreement, and also said that Zhou Rong's running away from home was very harmful to the Zhou family, and hoped that Zhou Rong could use her life experience to persuade Feng Yue more.
Zhou Rong can understand Hao Dongmei's meaning, is not to persuade Feng Yue not to fall in love with Zhou Nan, otherwise the love affair of these two children will hurt the family a lot, but Zhou Rong is not very willing to persuade, she is only in love is not supreme and Hao Dongmei reached an agreement. Zhou Rong thought that Feng Yue at this time was a copy of herself, she understood Feng Yue's crazy willfulness, and she knew that it was impossible to ask Feng Yue's sixteen-year-old children to follow the ideas of forty-something people like them, even if Feng Yue hit her head and broke the blood, there was no one to replace the path she should take. She also knows how to regret it now that she has lived to be old, but if her life goes again, she will probably still make the choice she made when she was a teenager.
What Zhou Rong said is very reasonable, because of the low social experience, Feng Yue is indeed unlikely to think like a middle-aged person, but Hao Dongmei does not think that Feng Yue and Zhou Nan are in love, but should be vigorously prevented. Listening to Zhou Rong's intention of not stopping, blindly speaking for Feng Yue, Hao Dongmei was so angry that she couldn't take care of her sister-in-law's face, and directly said the heartfelt and realistic words, saying that Feng Yue was her daughter of Zhou Rong, zhou Rong had to take care of it, and also said that Zhou Rong's love had caused much harm to Zhou Zhigang and Li Suhua, but her harm to her parents was nothing compared to the harm to Zheng Juan. For her Hao Dongmei and Zhou Rong, the heavens and the earth are very large, but Zheng Juan only has family, neighbors, and light characters, which is Zheng Juan's whole world. Zheng Juan and Zhou Bingkun live happily in Zheng Juan's world, being envied and respected, and this envy and respect may be the whole spiritual and emotional pillar of Zheng Juan. If Zhou Nan and Feng Yue really fell in love, wouldn't that be equivalent to telling the truth that Zhou Nan was born of Zheng Juan's rape?
Zhou Rong told Hao Dongmei not to worry, the child is only ten years old now, maybe it is just a momentary heart, and it will disperse after a while. But Hao Dongmei couldn't do it without hurrying, she said that she had already seen Feng Yue and Zhou Nan hugging. Hearing this, Feng Yue, who had already arrived home when Hao Dongmei called, quickly ran out, saying that the eldest uncle had misunderstood them and that they were not in love.
Hao Dongmei didn't believe it and asked Feng Yue if she liked Zhou Nan, feng Yue knew that she couldn't hide it, so she admitted it, but said that she hadn't told Zhou Nan about it yet, and didn't realize that her aunt didn't approve of her feelings for Zhou Nan, even if they didn't know each other. Seeing that Feng Yue did not realize that his love would cause harm to the Zhou family, especially Zheng Juan, he said to Feng Yue, "It seems that you are really like your mother, self-centered." ”
Just because she was told by her aunt to be selfish and opposed to her love, and her mother understood her and did not oppose her love for Zhou Nan, Feng Yue made up her mind to move away from the Hao family and move to her parents' two bedrooms and one hall, and zhou Rong was suddenly very close. This made Zhou Rong moved, if it were not for Hao Dongmei asking her to consider Zheng Juan's feelings, she might have agreed with her daughter's love. However, even though Hao Dongmei explained the strong relationship, Zhou Rong was still not very active in persuading her daughter to give up love.
In the face of Feng Yue's love, Zhou Rong is more considering her daughter's feelings, worried about her daughter's love and not being sad, while the feelings of her younger sister Zheng Juan and younger brother Zhou Bingkun are rarely considered, or even thought about, until Hao Dongmei mentioned Zheng Juan. How to say that Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan are her relatives, help her raise her daughter, especially Zheng Juan, who waits day and night when Li Suhua is sick and lying in bed, so that she still has a mother to cry, otherwise she will have no mother. But Zhou Rong did not consider what kind of harm Feng Yue's love would bring to Zheng Juan, what kind of harm it would bring to Zhou Bingkun and even the entire Zhou family. For Zheng Juan, no longer being envied, respected is the second, people are fearful and unbearable to reappear in the past is fatal, in Zhou Bingkun and the Zhou family is a disgrace, when Zhou Bingkun told others that Zhou Nan was his child born to Zheng Juan before marriage, the Zhou family also hid this matter for the sake of face, Feng Yueruo and Zhou Nan talked about love, Zhou Nan's life was known to everyone, this is not a punch in the face.
And it doesn't make sense ethically, even if others know that Zhou Nan and Feng Yue are not related by blood, but it is a fact that Zhou Nan is Zhou Bingkun's adopted son, Zheng Juan is Feng Yue's little aunt is also a fact, Feng Yue is with the son born of the little aunt and other men, this belongs to the relatives in ancient times, but how strange it is in modern times, Zheng Juan and Zhou Bingkun recognize Feng Yue as a daughter-in-law or niece, and recognize Zhou Rong as a sister or a pro-family.
Even if Zhou Rong doesn't care about outsiders' opinions and ethics, she still has to take into account the feelings of her mother's family, especially her brother and sister. But Zhou Rong did not, just blindly thinking about Feng Yue, Feng Huacheng and Hao Dongmei did not wrongfully accuse her at all - self-centered. At this point, Feng Yue and Zhou Rong are worthy of being mother and daughter, they are exactly the same, she has lived with her uncle and aunt for so many years, and the uncle and aunt should all be seen in her eyes, but she does not seem to see it, only sees Zhou Nan. She did not confess to Zhou Nan not because she was thinking about her uncle and aunt, but because she was afraid of rejection, knowing that her cousin loved his mother more, and would not hurt his mother's heart for her, and how awkward the relationship between the two would be, it was better to hide it in her heart, as she said, she could still fantasize about it.
This article is original by the theory of Qing Asa, welcome to pay attention to, together to explore the connotation of entertainment life!