Wen | Gu Ziyu
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It is said that the elderly are looking for a wife now, one is more realistic than one, and when they meet on a blind date, they talk about the conditions, how much is the salary? Do you have a house of your own? How much pocket money do I get every month?
Every question is a direct hit, and when the two sides ask and answer, it is like a business negotiation, if any problem is not passed, it will be stopped and no discussion will be discussed.
Even sometimes blind dates are like rushing to the scene, this does not work on the next one, more realistic than young people, I have to say that the current elderly really look open.
Maybe it is a person who has lived most of his life, more or less has some experience and understanding of life, knows what he needs most, and does not want to treat himself anymore, which has spawned this simple and rude blind date model.
Some old people speak very directly, look at it is full of satisfaction, some can not see will also break out of the war of words, the two sides are not polite to each other, very funny.
There are also some elderly blind dates, really just want to find a favorite person, accompany each other, warm each other, so that the rest of each other's lives are no longer lonely.
Aunt Cheng, 60 years old this year, looks very young, speaks softly and softly, is particularly good-sounding, and looks like a cultivated and kind-hearted person.
Aunt Cheng has been single for many years, her daughter has long been married, she lives alone in a large house of 200 square meters, often feels lonely, and wants to find a wife to spend her old age together.
When she was fine, she watched the elderly blind date column, in a blind date activity program she saw that there was an Uncle Li who was very good, and it just so happened that the other party did not succeed in that blind date, so she took the initiative to register herself and asked to go on a blind date with Uncle Li.
The program group especially likes customers who take the initiative to call like this, after all, one party is intentional, that is, half of the success, and the rest depends on what the other half means.
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Uncle Li is also more than 60 years old, his family lives in the countryside, he has a large bungalow, and he is also very capable, and he is a loyal and honest person at a glance, giving people a special sense of security.
On the way to Aunt Cheng's house, Uncle Li issued an exclamation, saying that he did not expect that there would be people in the city who would look favorably on him as a rural old man.
Aunt Cheng's family lives in the villa park, there is still a distance from the park gate to her home, and when Uncle Li and the staff arrive, she is already waiting at the gate.
Uncle Li looked at Aunt Cheng who was riding an electric car in front of him, and then looked at the beautiful environment in the villa area, and directly clarified his attitude: I looked at this person well, and I didn't know if people were interested in me.
Red Niang privately asked Aunt Cheng how she felt about Uncle Li, and she said that she was similar to the people she saw on TV, there was not much difference, and she could talk.
Red Lady was relieved to hear this, since both sides felt ok, that is, the eye edge was passable, and the success rate of such a blind date was still relatively high.
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Aunt Cheng took everyone to visit a circle of their own big house, the decoration and decoration in the house are very tall, looking at the environment in front of him, Uncle Li suddenly became unconfident, he felt that he was a bit unworthy of others.
Uncle Li sat on the sofa, and he could obviously see that kind of cramped uneasiness, and the ups and downs of his heart were all manifested, and the confidence at the beginning had long since disappeared.
In order to ease the atmosphere, the Red Lady asked Aunt Cheng why her conditions were so good, but she had a good feeling for Uncle Li who lived in the countryside.
Aunt Cheng said that she had lived in the city all her life and felt a little tired, she often remembered the happy times when she went to the house of a relative in the countryside when she was a child, and she was moved to see the row of spacious bungalows in Uncle Li's house on TV, and she liked to plant some flowers and plants.
In addition, Uncle Li is a thick and honest person at first glance, but also industrious and capable, and he will be very down-to-earth in his heart to live with such a person, so he took the initiative to make that call.
Uncle Li was very happy to hear Aunt Cheng praise himself so much, but he was still a little unconfident, and he said that his family's conditions and environment could not keep up with Aunt Cheng's family.
Red Niang also said that the kitchen and bathroom in the countryside are not as good as in the city, but Aunt Cheng said that this is not a thing, and she especially likes to eat big pot rice.
Uncle Li said that although his economic conditions are not bad, there is definitely a gap compared with Aunt Cheng, and if Aunt Cheng is too demanding, he is afraid that he will not be able to reach it.
Aunt Cheng's next words, said very sincerely, she said that she has no concept of money, more to spend more, less to spend, if the two people really decide to live together, her retirement salary, plus Uncle Li's income from farming is completely enough for them to live.
The red ladies were touched after listening to these words, there are really not many blind dates like Aunt Cheng, very real and frank, people just want to talk about feelings, there is no other additional conditions.
This blind date was successful, as long as they were able to get along in the process, the personalities could be compatible, the three views were the same, and the sugar was eaten.
Write at the end:
It is said that things are divided into groups, people are clustered, and what kind of person you are destined to attract is what kind of people.
When a person's heart is clean and there is no greed and distractions, it is natural to meet people of the same frequency.
Some elderly friends look for their wives in order to improve their economic conditions, and some really want to find someone to comfort each other and spend their old age together.
No matter what kind of status quo, we can't say who is right and who is wrong, there are thousands of lives in the world, each has its own creation, and people will have some of their own feelings in the second half of their lives.
As the saying goes, some people look amiable, some people are harsh and mean, no matter what kind of appearance, it is cultivated for decades, and you can see it by looking in the mirror.
Time flies, the white colt passes through the gap, people's lives are like a drop in the ocean, I wish all people the rest of their lives are safe, no matter what age, you can meet a person, ask you porridge is warm, for you to set up dusk.
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About the Author: Gu Ziyu, a freelance writer, shares with you emotional stories with warmth.