Wen | Gu Ziyu
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Some people say that men are teenagers who die, no matter how old a man is, in the issue of mate selection, appearance is the primary problem.
The fact is also true, whether it is young or old, in the blind date, how to look is the most intuitive feeling, whether there can be further development, the eye edge is the key.
At first glance, if you are not optimistic, it is basically no play, because few people will be patient to find the inner beauty of the other party without accepting the external image of the other party, which is unrealistic.
Especially now the elderly blind date, sometimes more direct than the young people, if it does not work on the spot, it will express its position and put forward conditions, and if it does not work, it will look everywhere, and if it does not work, it will be the next, and it will never drag mud and water.
Aunt Zhang is 72 years old this year, after the death of her wife, she will live alone, and after a long time, she feels lonely, and she wants to find a wife to live with, and each other can also have a care.
She saw a blind date show for the elderly on TV that was very popular, and seeing that so many elderly people had found the right other half, she was also a little moved, and she watched every episode on time.
There was a great uncle who left a deep impression on her, the age was right, the other party's physical fitness was also good, she felt that if she formed a family with this uncle Yu, it would be really too suitable.
Aunt Zhang communicated her ideas with the blind date program group, so the red lady also made contact with Uncle Yu, and the other party heard that someone had a good feeling for her, and she was very happy, so the program group quickly arranged a blind date for both sides.
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Uncle Yu is 73 years old this year, because of the perennial insistence on exercise, the figure looks very strong, younger than the actual age, he said that he likes to play basketball, this hobby has not given up.
It is said that the man who plays basketball is the most attractive, perhaps it is Uncle Yu's easy jump on the basketball court that has left a deep impression on Aunt Zhang, and he will take the initiative to make an appointment with this blind date.
As soon as the two sides met, Uncle Yu said his actual situation, before the business loss is too much, the house was sold, the current is renting a house to live, there is no fixed property, poor and white, there is a lonely family left.
Aunt Zhang did not hesitate at all, and said regretfully: This is what is mixed, why is it so miserable. But I have a house, although it is not big, but it is enough for two people to live.
It seems that Aunt Zhang is still very satisfied with the uncle, whether on TV or in the blind date scene, the other party is her ideal candidate, so other problems do not care, that is, the person in front of her.
But I didn't expect that Uncle Yu didn't have a heart, but I was embarrassed to refuse directly, I didn't know how to open my mouth, and finally there was no rut, I said that I was a little worse than Aunt Zhang's eyes, and then I apologized and said sorry.
Aunt Zhang did not expect that she took the initiative to go on the pole to go on a blind date, the other party did not look at herself, the face could not hang up at once, she directly opened the fear: look at your face folds, nothing, but also pick and choose, there are many problems.
In this way, I originally thought it would be a blind date with Meimei, which became a spit conference, and finally could only end awkwardly, but the other aunt of the red lady felt that she was very compatible with Uncle Yu, so she arranged another blind date for Uncle Yu.
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Facts have proved that men choose a partner at first glance, young and beautiful opposite sex, the odds of winning are still very high.
Aunt Liu is 65 years old this year, is the captain of the Yangge team, perennial with a dance team to practice dancing, twisting the big Yangge, a look at this figure is exquisite, the charm is not reduced that year, compared with the previous Aunt Zhang, there is nothing to say.
When the two sides met, there was a little episode, when Aunt Liu twisted the song, she accidentally injured her hand, which Uncle Yu quickly gave the medicine massage, which would pity Xiang Xiang and cherish the jade, and suddenly won the favor of Aunt Liu.
Uncle Yu is also really optimistic about this Aunt Liu, he not only proves his attitude with actions, but also makes a promise in words that he will take good care of each other.
In this way, Uncle Yu is a person who is unwilling to settle down, if he does not look favorably on the other party, the conditions are no longer good, and he will not agree until he meets someone who is satisfied with himself, and then he makes up his mind to look everywhere.
But this matter, but also to the old aunt and the old aunt to wake up, no matter how old the age of women, the image of the good or bad relationship with their own happiness, while ensuring health, but also learn to pick themselves up, even if it is an old lady, but also to be an elegant old lady, not for others, but also for themselves.
Write at the end:
I remember reading an article many years ago, I don't remember who wrote it, what I probably mean is that in the shoe store in Paris, I met an 80-year-old lady trying on a pair of high heels, looking left and right, the expression was like an 18-year-old girl.
In fact, we do not have to pursue such a delicate life, at least clean up ourselves, look refreshing, if you have the conditions, cultivate one or two hobbies for yourself, let your life have more colors, so that your later life will not feel lonely.
Many elderly friends look for their wives, some want to find someone to take care of themselves, and many people feel that life is lonely and empty, so they want to find someone to accompany themselves, but some people may not be able to get along even if they find it.
If a person's spiritual world is rich, he will not feel that life is monotonous and boring, and even if he lives alone, he can live a tasteful life, which depends entirely on everyone's attitude to life.
We see that there are many 80.90-year-old people who insist on their hobbies, even if the material life is very ordinary, but they are also tireless, deep in the field they love, for them, the rest of the day is the best day.
Life is not easy, to the second half, but also to be nice to themselves, I wish all old friends, whether single or not, have a happy and happy old age.
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About the author: Gu Ziyu, a freelance writer, shares with you emotional stories with warmth.