After the "wife famine", another "strange phenomenon" appeared, why did the young people not care? What is the main phenomenon referred to by this strange phenomenon? This "strange phenomenon" mainly refers to the fact that more and more young people enjoy the life of a person more, and they are not in any hurry to find boyfriend and girlfriend, and even prefer a person's life. More and more people are becoming unmarried. And this "strange phenomenon" is even more prominent in rural areas.
First, what is a "wife famine"?
The "wife shortage" is that more and more single men can't find a wife, especially in rural areas, and it has become difficult to marry a wife. According to the seventh census, there are more than 30 million more men than women in The country, and there are about 10 million leftover women in the city, which means that more than 40 million men in the country cannot find a wife.
The current reality on the mainland is not only that it has entered an aging society, but also that the proportion of men and women is out of balance, and this imbalance between men and women is not serious in large and medium-sized cities, mainly in rural areas.
This phenomenon is mainly due to the fact that the traditional idea of preferring sons to daughters is deeply rooted in the countryside, and the concept of raising children and preventing the elderly is strong. There is another reason, many women in the countryside are not satisfied with the poor life in the countryside, they enter the city to work very early, they see more, their vision is wider, they prefer to be alone, rather than return to the countryside, resulting in the scarcity of young women in the countryside. There are more and more adult single sticks. It is precisely because of the serious phenomenon of more men and fewer women in rural areas that the phenomenon of "wife shortage" has emerged.
Second, why does this "strange phenomenon" appear?
Then, after the "wife famine", why did this "strange phenomenon" appear again? The first major reason is the phenomenon of "wife shortage" mentioned above. When the phenomenon of "wife shortage" appeared, the most direct and prominent performance was that there were more and more dowries for marriage, some of which cost hundreds of thousands, and some even hundreds of thousands, and the cost before and after marriage was too high.
On the one hand, many young people choose not to marry, mainly because the cost of marriage in the countryside is too high, in addition to buying a house and a car, there is a high bride price, the income of young people now is not too high, and the economic pressure on the body is very heavy, in order to get married, the man's family is patchwork, all the savings are taken out is not enough, but also need to carry a lot of debt, rather than living such a life, it is better to live a single life to be easier. After all, one person is full, the whole family is not hungry.
On the other hand, there are also many people in the countryside who have received higher education and have obvious changes in the ideological views on marriage, because a group of marriageable young people after the 90s now prefer to enjoy the current life, and the idea of raising children and preventing the elderly has long been looked down upon in their consciousness, and they do not care about the marriage urging behavior of the elders. In their view, life is short, and they must enjoy the life that belongs to them in the present. There is no need to seek perfection for the next generation, such a life will be more elegant.
In addition, the huge pressure of life is the main reason for the emergence of this "strange phenomenon". With the increasing prevalence of college students in society now, it can be said that basically there are some educated and learned people in various positions, college students are no longer popular before, and many people are even facing the dilemma of unemployment just after graduation. So for most young people, the burden of life has almost overwhelmed them, and naturally few people are willing to marry early and give themselves more pressure to support their families.
This is a life that many rural elderly people cannot understand, the times have changed, young people have new life problems, and some people have become marriage-phobic people.
Third, why does this "strange phenomenon" appear more prominent in rural areas?
Why are there more and more people in rural areas who are not married? The first is the practical reason for the difficulty of marrying wives in rural areas. The loss of rural girls has increased in these years, and young rural girls have worked outside the home, and after working in the cities for a long time, they naturally want to stay in the cities. If you meet the right one, you will marry, although the rural life is better, but there is still a gap compared to the city.
Rural couples have a low quality of life and are married, whether it is for themselves or the next generation, it is not a good life, but a greater pressure on life. At present, rural couples gather less and leave more, and now rural areas do not earn money by farming, and a large number of farmers have to go out to work, but there are old and young families, and most of them cannot go out to work.
Then this leads to couples getting together less and more, and most of them only go back during the New Year's Holiday. Lack of communication, the long-term separation of husband and wife feelings gradually weakened. Due to the current situation of the previous generation of parents, this generation of post-90s has left a shadow. They also don't want two people to get together less and more on a regular basis. In this case, it is better to live a happy life alone.
Now the times have changed, raising children can no longer be like before, give birth to a few children to add a few pairs of dishes and chopsticks, and then in the village "free range", there is no need to worry about no one to take care of children, even school, compulsory education do not need money, the results are not good after junior high school directly to work, it can be said that the cost of childcare is very low.
But now it is different, so today's young people also feel that they need to invest more in education, and they can mix better with culture and diplomas. They don't want their children to be born as the starting line for education.
Another reason is that everyone pays more attention to this phenomenon in the countryside, in the city, the unmarried people have long been common, and even many people have become the Dink family, and everyone is not surprised by this phenomenon. However, in the countryside, when the parents of the older generation reach the age when their children should get married, they will appear particularly anxious and will continue to urge marriage, and after the marriage, it is counterproductive, and those who do not want to get married are all shown. People are also paying more and more attention to this situation in the countryside, which has led to this "strange phenomenon" becoming more prominent in the countryside.
Fourth, do not be too hasty about this "strange phenomenon."
Since this "strange phenomenon" has appeared, we must not be too hasty, and presumably the young people are not indifferent to it, perhaps only because they are powerless. Therefore, all parties in society must work together to change this phenomenon of "unmarried people", and the State must also take measures to increase the enthusiasm of young people to marry.
epilogue
The "wife famine" is only a demographic problem in a period, while the "unmarried people" is the epitome of the long-term development of society. For the phenomenon of non-marriage in the countryside is rising, the elderly in the village also bluntly said, "The older the marriage age, the greater the pressure after getting old!" Do you want to be part of an unmarried family or do you want to start a family sooner rather than later?