When interacting with men, we must grasp the measure, women are already in a weak position in love, so they have to keep an extra eye when facing men.
Women can be enthusiastic about a man, but can not be persistent enthusiasm for a man, if you think of each other all the time, every moment want to disturb each other, over time, the other party will feel that you are not important to yourself, because the other party feels that they have pinched you to death, no matter what you do, you can not leave.
In the TV series "Ruyi Zhuan", Han Xiangmi said this to the emperor:
"The reason you treat the Queen Mother like this is because you know, whatever you do?" She can't leave you. ”
Sometimes women can't be too nice to men, and when facing love, it is best to keep reason.
01.
Men don't bother when they're busy
If a man is busy, then at this time you should not bother the other party anymore, some women are particularly ignorant, a man is busy, but at this time women call after phone to men.
Sometimes the man's work determines that the man is very busy, sometimes the man has just opened an interface, may have to operate a work on the mobile phone, at this time the meeting has not been completed, the woman called a phone, the phone hung up after the meeting disappeared, the man has to start to do it again.
Once or twice, men can ignore, but over time, men will feel that every time they have to do something, this person always bothers himself, and sometimes he may be angry with women, feeling that this person has ruined many things of himself.
A woman can not have much professional knowledge, you can not make money at home, but when a man goes out to make money, do not disturb other people's work, so that men feel that you not only can't help themselves, but also feel that you are a drag oil bottle.
People in love should also grasp the measure, women must understand, after the man and you fall in love, the man will still carefully observe you, if the man in the busy time, you call each other vigorously, the other party ignores you, you also give each other a tantrum, then the other party is likely not to marry you, because the other party feels that you are not a particularly good wife.
Women should know that if a man is not bothered, this man is the man with the problem, because such men are generally men who eat well and are lazy, and if one day you are with this kind of person, then your life has become a problem. So women must be content, if you have a man around you is very troubled, when this man works, you must not feel that this man has a job to forget you, a man who works hard is a man with ideas, but also a man with a pursuit, and such a man will not be too bad to live with, you do not have to work too hard, because this man earns enough money for your family to spend.
02.
Men don't bother when they're in a bad mood
If a man is in a bad mood, then at this time, the woman should let the man go alone to be quiet.
Some women just can't see the face of others, sometimes a man is in a particularly bad mood, but at this time, women will feel that men do not give themselves a good face, feel that men put on a face to see for themselves, in fact, sometimes you have to figure out the situation of things, the reason why this man has such emotions, not because of you, but because of other things.
Smart women, at this time will not bother men, will give men the space to digest themselves, wait until this time has passed, women go to find men, men and women can also be intimate, it is said that many at this time, women can ask men what has happened recently, and then open the heart knot for men to help men get through this difficult time.
When a woman does this, the man will feel that it is the right person, and will be more dependent on the woman, and will be more willing to share anything with the woman.
Women must understand men, just as women want men to understand themselves. When men are in a bad mood, don't easily disturb, and should not add trouble to each other, understand each other's difficulties, the other party will love you more.
03.
Men don't bother when they don't want to see you
Sometimes men don't want to see anyone, including you.
Men sometimes need their own space, maybe this man has not encountered something recently, but this man now wants to be alone, does not want to meet other people, or wants to do something alone, at this time, does not want anyone to be with him.
Everyone has some hobbies, if this man also has some hobbies of his own, then at this time, women should not bother each other, let the other party immerse themselves in their own hobbies.
There are some men who deal with the work at hand after the work is finished, at this time, women will feel that men can come to accompany themselves, in fact, sometimes men should accompany the man himself, in many cases, we give time to others.
However, I did not leave some time for myself, and sometimes I look back and think that I did not treat myself well, and I did not do what I wanted to do, such as my hobbies, and I did not have time to improve. So women must understand this point of men, men have their own things to do in addition to work, do not easily bother when they do not want to see you.
In addition, men's circles are slightly wider than women's, because men also have to accumulate some connections for themselves. So if one day your man goes out with his buddies, at this time you don't feel that the other party left you alone, everyone has their own circle of friends, including yourself is also a good sister, so at this time you should also think more about men, survival in this world, if you are alone, then this man is too failed, when things happen, there is no one to help.
I once watched a TV series in which the heroine said something like this:
"I'm very enthusiastic about a person, but I'm also a person who knows."
Each of us should be more enthusiastic about others, especially when dealing with feelings, and we should take the initiative. As a girl, we should also be bold, but at the same time, we must also be interesting.
If a man has his own affairs, or the man has an opinion about you, it is best not to bother the other party at this time, to be an interesting person, the other party will respect you more, and the two of you will also have some space to think about the future problems of the two of you, or what you will do next.