Every girl wants to have a brother who is not in love but can care and protect you, and you can bully him recklessly.
In the place closest to his heart, there must be a place for you. This is the dream of many girls, and such dreams actually exist in reality.
Lingling and her husband have been married for 10 years, have an 8-year-old son and a 3-year-old daughter, and when they decided to have a second child, they did not think that the eldest was not excellent, but to leave a relative for their son.
Because parents can't accompany their children throughout their lives, but brothers and sisters can be partners for a lifetime.
At first, LingLing was also very entangled, afraid of having a second child sad, so she trembled and asked her son whether he would mind multiple younger siblings, but he did not expect that his son agreed to it and vowed to take good care of his younger siblings.
Ling Ling was relieved at this time and soon gave birth to a daughter. The son takes extra care of his sister and shares strange things with his sister at school for the first time;
The sister made a mistake instead of being punished, which is completely a "sister control". The feelings of the brothers and sisters are also getting closer and closer, and neither can be separated from the other.
Once my brother was out of school, it was raining heavily outside, LingLing went to pick up her brother from school, and her sister shouted that she was going to go too. The small body picked up the umbrella and stumbled toward the school bus in the rain.
Seeing her brother, her sister's behavior was very warm, and she walked quickly to her brother and tiptoed up her umbrella, afraid that her brother would get sick in the rain. Behind her, LingLing was moved to tears by seeing such a warm scene in the distance, and finally believed that love was mutual.
Many people have the impression that the family of two children is always noisy and noisy, and they are jealous for a little interest, in fact, the family of two children can also be very harmonious and harmonious, which depends on how parents teach their children.
1. Solicit the opinion of the boss
As the saying goes: a mountain is not as good as two tigers, if the child knows that his territory must be shared with another child for no reason, he will definitely be angry and upset, not to mention that he and another child can live in peace.
Therefore, before having a second child, be patient and ask the eldest for advice and tell them about the benefits of having younger siblings company.
2. Be fair and just to two people
There are two children in the family, and some parents will inadvertently favor younger siblings, thinking that the eldest should let the younger ones. But aside from all this, the eldest is only a few years old, and they should not be asked too much.
When two children have a conflict, parents must be fair and just, seek truth from facts, and love for two people should be equal, and do not let Dabao feel snubbed.
3. Let children learn to take responsibility and think in empathy
Parents can tell the boss how to do a good job of brothers and sisters, how to take care of younger brothers and sisters, let the boss know that he has this responsibility, but do not take the care of the boss for the second brother as a matter of course, and give encouragement and recognition, so that the boss is more willing to take responsibility.
At the same time, we must also tell the second eldest that although he is the youngest member of the family, he must not be unreasonable, nor can he be a "party of reaching out", he must learn to help others, think in a different position, and thank his brother and sister for their care.
Families with two children can also be full of laughter and warmth, and the quarrel between two children is nothing more than the parents' uneven bowl of water, and the child does not want to take anything from each other.
What they want is a fair attitude and method for parents to deal with problems, as long as parents balance the relationship between children, the family will be harmonious.