In the four years since I got married, everyone has praised me for my good vision, finding a good husband, tall and handsome and making money. Even my mother said that I was more blessed than her, the children were 2 years old, and there was a rose harvest on Valentine's Day.
alas! Only I know that the baby is bitter in his heart.
To just say husband, it is indeed good, especially for people to be generous, but also can be different inside and outside. Only one thing, I can't stand him.
1
When I was in love, my husband said that his parents left early, and they were pulled up by the eldest sister, hoping that I could treat the eldest sister as an elderly filial piety.
I was secretly happy for a long time, and I felt that I had picked up a treasure. This man is still quite reliable, for the efforts of the eldest sister, I know gratitude, marrying such a man must not be wrong.
Since there are no elders in the husband's family, many of the procedures before marriage are omitted. We only went to my eldest sister's house once for dinner, and their family was very enthusiastic, plus the first time I saw his family, I was nervous and didn't dare to look at anything.
It wasn't until the wedding day, when I officially contacted my eldest sister, that I slowly saw that something was wrong.
2
On the wedding day, I finished the toast session so hard that I was so tired that I didn't even dare to lie on the sofa. I was afraid that someone would come in and pull me out to toast, so I hid directly in the corner of the dressing room.
I thought that there were bridesmaids and groomsmen outside to help cope anyway, so I would close my eyes and sleep for a while. The heavy door to the powder room was suddenly opened.
I saw through the gap in the shelf full of clothes that it turned out to be the eldest sister. I should have greeted me, but I was too tired to command my body to stand up, so I pretended not to see it and continued to hide in the corner and pretend to sleep.
"Lingling! Hurry, pack these up, don't let your aunt come back and see it. ”
yes! Now I came to the spirit and couldn't sleep. I want to see what it is, and I want to take advantage of my absence.
As soon as I looked at it, I was speechless, where is the take of things, it is clearly a sweep.
I just removed the hairpin on the dressing table, and it's not worth anything. Ling Ling wanted, I could buy her a new one, more suitable for her age.
Looking at it again, this is not the end, on the coffee table, I prepared souvenirs for the two bridesmaids and the two groomsmen alone - lipstick gift box and perfume gift box, the eldest sister is still quite good at arranging, just like took a box and stuffed it into her daughter Lingling's bag. The guest souvenir chocolate candy gift box in the box on the side of the coffee table, she was not so polite, and kept stuffing it in her bag until it was really impossible to hold it, and then she gave up.
Before leaving the door, the eldest sister also turned back and took the cigarettes that we used to entertain the guests when we were greeted at the door in the morning. Other things are fine, and no one smokes at this big sister's house.
After a series of operations by the eldest sister, I didn't dare to breathe, for fear that they would find me in the dressing room, and the scene was too embarrassing.
Other souvenirs are good to say, how much is available. Bridesmaids, groomsmen are in trouble, I had to contact my mother to send two new red envelopes, only to say that the classmates are also going to get married, just because we can't catch up on our honeymoon, I want to send gifts in advance.
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I had thought that I would not live with my eldest sister after marriage, and this matter would rot in my own stomach. Save my mother's temper and make a fuss on the spot.
Where do I know that without the opportunity to live together, the eldest sister can create opportunities!
After returning from the honeymoon, my husband and I were afraid that the courier would be wrong, so we carried it home in large bags.
When I opened the door, I found that the door was not unlocked. Just when it was strange, my eldest sister greeted me in the new clothes in my closet.
Xu was to find that I had been looking at the clothes, and the eldest sister said: "I thought you could come back yesterday, I didn't bring a change of clothes and came over, look at your clothes trademark has not been removed, just wear it." ”
The husband is naturally ten thousand: "Sister, although you wear ..."
The eldest sister originally did not regard herself as an outsider, this is good, listening to her brother's words, more and more energetic. In our closet, we picked out a few more pieces of clothing and said, "You didn't wear them anyway. ”
I kept giving my husband a look, those clothes are not I don't wear, I went on my honeymoon, I haven't had time to wear them yet!
However, the husband packed his bags vigorously, and replied without raising his head, "Sister, you like it!" ”
So, on the first day of my honeymoon, I lost three dresses, a set of house clothes, and two pairs of sports socks. This is still thanks to my wit, I did not take out my favorite skin care products, if it is spread on the makeup table, 80% will not be spared.
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Situations like this happen from time to time, but fortunately I am prepared in advance, and the loss is not large, all as filial piety to the eldest sister.
After all, the husband's generosity is only for the family. In the face of outsiders, even if they are close friends, I have no money, and my wife has the final say at home, and I can spend money with my wife's permission.
Married life with our husbands continues, and soon pregnancy and giving birth to a baby occupy the highlight of our lives. Because Lingling wants to take the entrance examination, the eldest sister has no time to come to us to sweep up.
I also thought that Ling Ling was nervous about her studies, and the eldest sister probably didn't have time to come.
That had expected, from the confinement center back, push the door I saw the eldest sister again, my heart giggled, and quickly counted what was in the family that would be looked at by the eldest sister.
It wasn't until she stepped forward to take the baby away that my messy worries were shattered.
Seeing the eldest sister skillfully holding the baby and teasing, I think this is a bitter end, and the eldest sister has changed her temperament.
It turned out that I thought too much, and when the eldest sister was leaving, she took away the disposable urine pad, disposable toilet mat, cream, toothbrush and toothpaste prepared for me by the confinement center.
Say that you live in your own home, disposable products are not necessary. As for the baby's things, the child is still small and does not need it, don't let it go bad.
The eldest sister has a good feeling, and when she returns to our house, she comes empty-handed, leaves with a full load, and never fails.
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For a long time, the only good thing is that my favorite skin care products have not yet been discovered by her.
I didn't wait too long for me to be happy, Lingling graduated from junior high school and was going to come to our house for the summer vacation.
At first, I naively thought that a child wouldn't be too exaggerated. But within three days, I found that a freshly opened bottle of Lancome on the dresser was missing. At that time, I didn't think much about it, so I directly called my husband, is he stealing my sunscreen again.
Turning around, I saw Lingling, who was twisting and pinching, pulled it out of the bag, handed it to me, and said that she thought the bottle was beautiful and put it in the bag.
Only then did I realize that something was wrong with Lingling.
At night, taking advantage of the nursing work, I woke up my husband and checked Lingling's school bag, which really dazzled us.
Spare nipples for babies, towels, ointments for wiping red ass... My perfume, because I didn't dare to use it because I was pregnant, put it in the closet, which was also found by her... Husband's shaving cream, new socks...
If I hadn't been a mother, I wouldn't have thought of invading Lingling's privacy, and it was really worrying that occupied my sanity.
My husband expressed understanding of my approach, put his arm around my shoulder and said, "Tomorrow I will send Lingling back, these things are for her, don't hurt the child's self-esteem." ”
For a while, I couldn't think of any good way, so I had to listen to my husband's opinion. After all, it was his blood relative.
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What I never expected was that when I sent Lingling away, I kindly gave her a small white bottle, so that my eldest sister remembered my skin care products and little babies.
When the baby was 2 years old, I became a member of the chicken mother group, and began to send the baby to the road of enlightenment training classes and interest classes, often coming home very late.
Ling Ling is about to face the college entrance examination, and the eldest sister is too busy to come to the house for a long time. The three-person world of my husband, baby and me is very happy.
The result of the oblivion was tragic.
When I got home this day, I saw that the slippers at the door were not in the right place, and it was too late to put down the baby, so I rushed to the bedroom with the child in my arms, and there were several bottles of baby missing on the makeup table.
My husband knew that we arrived at this point and carried the food from the unit canteen into the door.
I put the baby on the ground and threw myself into my husband's arms, mourning my lost little babies. My husband comforted me: "It's okay, when the baby sleeps, I will buy it online." ”
What the? A bottle of water 1200 yuan! A bottle of cream for 2800 yuan! The husband was stunned to see the price. The first time when the baby was sleeping, he was so loud that I rushed back to the room to check if the baby was awake.
It turned out that Ling Ling already knew that the girl wanted skin care, so she asked her eldest sister to buy it for her. But the eldest sister went to the mall to see that What Ling Ling wanted was too expensive and did not want to buy, so she persuaded Ling Ling to go home and make up for the use of the family.
But Lingling was thrown by her classmates, where she could see the affordable skin care products used by her mother, and directly made a fuss in the mall, saying that she would not learn if she did not buy.
In a hurry, the eldest sister thought of the small white bottle I sent Lingling, and a phone call reached my husband. The words of the family are the holy will, not to mention the sister who carries the big husband in one hand.
So, my husband took a leave of absence, he went home and took it, the incident happened suddenly, he thought that I would take the baby to class, and come back in the evening and tell me in person. In the afternoon, the eldest sister and Lingling video directed, and the husband did not have a word that could not be said.
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worst! I suddenly thought of something even more terrible, and rushed to rummage through the Xiaoice box on the makeup table.
"Husband! You quickly contact the big sister, the bottle of essence capsules do not use, that is not IELTS Lauder, ah, is my private capsules, postpartum repair. "I'm about to cry, and I'm afraid Ling Ling will smear her face."
I couldn't help but cry and explain, because I leaked urine after sneezing in the past few days, so I consulted the teacher who had been in charge of my maternity and health project, and bought this private capsule to go home and use it.
Because I was embarrassed to tell my husband directly, I was asked that day, and I lied that it was the essence of the face, where did I know that there was such a file.
LingLing is a little girl, still a middle school student, in case there is any problem with the face, I feel guilty for a lifetime.
The eldest sister has not answered the phone, and my husband has also panicked, instructed me twice, and went straight to the eldest sister's house.
Seeing my husband's car drive out of the neighborhood downstairs, I slowly leaned back on the couch and poured a glass of milk to reward my wit.
In fact, the private capsule is very safe, and it is good to wash it by mistake on the face. But they didn't steal my little treasures without my permission.
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I estimated the time, my husband should be at my sister's house at this time.
Sure enough, the phone came, and the husband said that Lingling and the eldest sister had used it, and they were changing clothes and preparing to go out. After a while, they were taken to the hospital emergency department and asked me to sleep first.
Since I got married, I was so happy after being taken by my eldest sister for the first time. It's really wrong and wrong, how did I not think of this method before!
Humming the song, I hurried to sleep, and tomorrow I will reap the fruits of victory.
The next day, I actually got up early in bed, looked at the baby who was still sleeping, and I picked up my mobile phone and went to the living room.
"Husband! How do you sleep on the couch! It is easy to get sick when you get cold. ”
"Come back too late, afraid to wake you and the child, and put away the keys and cosmetics on the table." My husband's voice revealed exhaustion, I wanted to inquire about the situation later, but my husband couldn't sleep at this time, so he told me.
"The doctor said that this kind of private care product is very mild, and it is better to apply it to the face by mistake. Sister and Lingling are fine. ”
"What about this key and skin care products?" I asked knowingly.
After the brother-in-law knew what had happened, he was very angry, saying that his sister would ruin the child by educating Lingling so much. I was listening next to me, and it was also very uncomfortable, the last summer vacation, I should have listened to you, and explained the situation to my sister and brother-in-law. If it wasn't for yesterday, I'm afraid it would have really ruined Ling Ling's life. ”
After Lingling's near disfigurement last night, coupled with her brother-in-law's preaching, the eldest sister seemed to have figured it out and had to return the key to us. Skin care products say that everyone's skin type is different, they still buy it themselves.
9
Being able to successfully solve the problem of the eldest sister always coming to the house to sweep up is a windfall.
I put my arm around my husband's neck and said, "If my sister doesn't take the initiative to come in the future, we will take the initiative to visit them, send some food that can be used at home, and rub her cooking." Are you okay? ”
My husband happily wanted to pick me up and fly, didn't want to get pregnant and grow fleshy, he couldn't hold me, he could only hold my face, and kissed me greatly, "The matter of leaking urine, I consulted the doctor, it is really hard for you, wife!" ”
dislike! dislike! dislike!! If you consult the doctor, won't the eldest sister's family know it?
While talking about hate, I was happy, and it was me who didn't say anything, because from now on, I have a perfect husband completely.
No, it may still be imperfect. Sure he'll still favor his sister, but I'll still have a way to clean them up.