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Title: Honeymoon alone in the empty room, the mother-in-law holds a flat burden for the daughter-in-law to hold and sleep, bride: it feels weird
The belt gradually widened and finally did not regret it, and was haggard for the people of Ishwa.
After getting married, it is a new step, and the two parties have changed from two homes at a great distance to a husband and wife sleeping in the same bed, becoming the two closest people.
However, long-distance love is often there, and long-distance couples are not uncommon, because of some force majeure reasons, many small couples are forced to separate within two days of new marriage, suffering from lovesickness.
A husband in Shandong is not at home, the newlywed wife sleeps with a flat shoulder, and the mother-in-law says that this is a local custom.
The mother-in-law said: The newlywed daughter-in-law cannot stay alone in the empty room, and the husband is not at home, so she must sleep with a flat burden.
Therefore, after the new marriage, the bride sleeps with a flat burden every day, although there is no groom in the nest, but there is also a flat burden that represents the husband, and sleeping with the flat burden means holding her husband.
However, the slender and long cold flat shoulder held in the arms is far less than the husband's hot and full hand, and the bride can't help but say: It feels strange, but it is also quite interesting.
In Linyi, Shandong, a small couple has just married and is in the honeymoon period, but the groom leaves home on the third day to work, leaving the bride alone in the empty boudoir.
On the night of her husband's departure, when the bride was preparing to sleep, her mother-in-law brought a flat shoulder to sleep with her, saying that she was not allowing her daughter-in-law to stay alone in the empty room.
According to the mother-in-law's description, this is the local newlywed custom, the local bride can not sleep alone in the first month after marriage, if the groom is not at home, then use a flat burden instead of the groom to sleep with the bride.
As for why the choice is flat, it is naturally also a harmonic stem, indicating that this boy has responsibility.
Although a little unaccustomed, the bride finds the custom interesting: when she puts her arms around it on the first night, it feels strange and interesting.
For such a marriage custom, many netizens are hearing it for the first time.
Some people think this is the dross of feudal ideas, but others say that there is nothing wrong with such a custom being quite interesting.
More netizens laughed and said: This flat shoulder is really a blessing, the groom official just married home of the beautiful lady herself has not hugged enough, the result is that the flat burden of the family is in the arms.
Hearing that "the bride can't sleep alone when she gets married", some netizens said: The old king next door went with a quilt overnight.
However, some netizens believe that the reason why the bride sleeps with a flat burden may be to "prevent the old king": in case someone takes advantage of the groom's absence to intend to derail the bride, the bride can easily take up the flat burden for self-defense and beat the bad guy away.
A netizen shared his own experience: When we were soldiers in the army in the early years, we all had to stay tuned at some important moments. I think it is more important that the flat shoulder plays the role of a weapon, the rural houses are not so tight and reliable, in case bad people come in, they can be copied up to resist the enemy.
However, some more cultured netizens said that the true meaning of this custom comes from "marrying a chicken with a chicken, marrying a dog with a dog, and marrying a flat shoulder to carry away."
So the question is, since the bride sleeps with a flat shoulder, what does the groom have to sleep with?
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