Author: Five layers
Last week, Lingling next door gave birth to her second child, and we enthusiastic people can't wait to run to her house to see the baby.
After sister Zhang finished hugging, the big fat boy said enviously, Lingling, you are really blessed! Now that the children are complete, there will be only one good left in the future life.
Unexpectedly, Ling Ling listened, but replied with a depressed face, what a good thing! This gave birth to a son, and that was the beginning of the trouble.
Later, under her narration, we learned that to this day, there are still families who are making trouble over whose surname their children are with.
Probably before Lingling got married, she discussed with her husband that she would have two children. Dabao followed her husband's surname, and Erbao took her mother's surname. In this way, a baby in the family can make the child live a more moist life and enjoy the exact same fairness.
But Ling Ling thought that it was something that had been agreed upon, but after the birth of the second child, she was completely messed up.
As soon as the in-laws saw that it was a grandson, they immediately gave the child a name according to their own generation. When they told their daughter-in-law, Lingling changed her face.
Parents! I didn't tell you before that the second child should be my family name, the name of this child, my parents have long taken it, and now it is not good to change it!
When the in-laws heard this, they immediately denied that they knew, and besides, this is a boy, how can it be with your family name.
To this end, they brought their son over and asked him to take a stand. Whose surname the child is with, can you, the father, decide?
The son was embarrassed to persuade for a while, and finally told LingLing that when our family came to my generation, it was a boy. If my son doesn't have my last name, then our family is not equivalent to a queen. So, wife, you give way! Anyway, the name is just a code name, not with your family name, your parents will not hurt the child? We will treat everyone equally, you can rest assured!
This remark made Ling Ling deeply see the speed at which men change their faces. A few days ago, I also agreed with my opinion. His parents said this, but they immediately changed their attitude.
Moreover, what is the only one left for you, then according to your meaning, what about the bloodline on this side of my family? I am also waiting for people to pass it on!
Ling Ling scolded her husband, words do not count, just for the sake of the child's surname, even regardless of herself, just gave birth to the baby's mood.
In this way, the two sides are deadlocked, Lingling must have children and her surname, and the in-laws will never let go, and their grandson must be the master of his family.
It is a family without peace, and for this matter, it is disputed every day.
Ling Ling asked everyone helplessly, do you think my persistence is right? If I say good things a long time ago, how can I say that changes will change, and besides, if I give up, how should my parents explain it. The elderly have always been thinking about it, and there is a child with their surname. Now all of a sudden I said no, I really don't have the face to go home.
Is this kind of family affair useful for outsiders to say anything? We said a few perfunctory words and went home. It's just that the war in her family is still going on.
However, I don't think it will take too long, after all, it will only be a few days to register the name of the child.
In fact, in my opinion, it really doesn't matter whose surname it is, what is important is that the relationship between husband and wife is not affected by a code name.
This is not only unnecessary, but also speechless. At home, the old man's thoughts are important, but it is you who will live your whole life. The two men calmly sat down to talk, both from the child's point of view.
If you have an advantage with whomever your last name is, you can follow your last name. What heritage, what bloodline, and not the home of the super rich, is simply boring.
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