The opening of the two-child policy makes many people continue to work hard for this goal, but we can also clearly see one thing, that is, today's young people do not seem to care so much about this matter, after all, everyone's pressure is relatively large, and there is no way to focus on taking care of children, so the post-60s and post-70s have become the main army, which is also a very normal thing.
Ms. Wang is now in her fifties, a very standard post-70s, because the pressure at that time was too great, and the situation at home was not so good, so she has never completed her own dream. But now she has enough energy, so she wants to work hard for her goal, which is to choose to have a second child. She also knows that if there are many children in the family, the atmosphere will become very good.
Soon, she and her husband were in the process of preparing for pregnancy, and the child was born soon. Ms. Wang is still very happy about this matter, but after this, she faces more problems, and Ms. Wang thought that she could maintain the family, but it is obvious that she overestimated her ability. Ever since the second child came into this world, she had to be busy with it, and there was no living space at all.
The most important thing is that the contradiction between Dabao and Erbao is also quite large, and the two people often quarrel when they get along, so that Ms. Wang really does not know how to solve the problem. Now she is in pain every day, and sometimes she thinks about one thing, if she had not chosen to have a second child at that time, would such a thing not continue to happen?
In fact, there is really a very common phenomenon now, that is, the second child rate after the 60s and 70s is the highest, although this is also a normal thing, but now it will also face some new problems, which also makes many people not taste. So what kind of problems did they encounter? In fact, such problems often exist in real life, and there is no need to mind too much.
The second child born after the 60s and 70s is facing a new problem
If you really want to talk about this problem, then first of all, you have to say that the pressure on these middle-aged people is too great, which is also beyond reproach. Although the post-60s and post-70s are the main force for having a second child, there is one thing we also need to admit, that is, their age has gradually increased, so it is definitely not an easy task for them to take care of their children, and they will feel very tired.
If they are forced to take care of their children, then they may give up their jobs and careers. Therefore, the two things of work and taking care of children can certainly not be combined, so this has also become a pain for many middle-aged people. But if there are other members of the family who can take care of the children, then don't take this matter to heart, after all, this is not a big deal.
The post-60s and post-70s have very strong economic capital, so there will basically be no big problem in taking care of children. But they also have their own pain, that is, they simply can't bear the old and the young, which is definitely a kind of ordeal for them, after all, taking care of the elderly is already very stressful, and now they have two children, life is difficult to move forward.
So through this angle, we can see one thing, that is, many middle-aged people simply can't afford this kind of lifestyle, and once the child is born, then their situation will become very passive, which is not a good thing for the whole family. Therefore, many middle-aged people will find this problem very difficult to solve, so they want to avoid this problem through a series of ways.
Then let's talk about those families whose family situation is not so good, if you really choose to have a second child, it can be said that it is really worse. Not all families are suitable for having a second child, at least a certain economic foundation is needed, otherwise the second child will definitely be a kind of torture for the whole family after birth, after all, raising children itself is a troublesome thing, very hurtful.
If the situation in the family is better, then naturally there is no need to worry about this problem, but not all family economic conditions are good, which means that many families have to think about this matter in the long run, otherwise they will definitely make their condition worse and worse.
Although it is said that the post-60s and post-70s have become the main force of having a second child, they still have to be leisurely about this matter, otherwise the family will definitely become a tragedy at that time. Therefore, the matter of having a second child is not something that we can have if we want to have a baby, or we have to consider something comprehensive.