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For the vast majority of people, the more contact with the opposite sex, the probability of delisting will be greatly improved.
However, there are always some special beings, he is obviously very good to the opposite sex, there are countless female friends, but it is often difficult to get off the list, or even never talked about love.
In "Foreign Daughter-in-law Local Lang", the barber Xian "Shi Milk" is a friend of women, and female friends are all over all ages, so he is given the name "Xian Shi Milk".
Although Xian Shi's female popularity is very good, he has always been single, only because women often do not regard him as a man, but only regard him as a "good sister".
Xian Shi's milk is very feminine, but it is difficult to get rid of it because he has obvious feminine attributes, which will make the vast majority of women only "homosexualize" him, and it is difficult to have male and female feelings for him.
If it were not for the appearance of the female man's emerald red, whether the washing master's milk could take off the single in this lifetime is an unknown.
In addition, the reason why Xian Shi's milk is difficult to take off the order is that his profession is a hairdresser, and most of the customers he contacts are women, so his personality will be more feminine, and the more difficult it is to get off the order.
Feminine male students are not necessarily bad, gentle this personality attribute has never specifically referred to which gender, but it is often more difficult to get off the list.
For the vast majority of women, the reason why she falls in love with a man is often that man makes her deeply believe that she can be protected and cared for.
There is a kind of man who has a good relationship with the opposite sex, but it is often difficult to get off the list. Most of such men have these attributes.
First, the character is weak, there is no masculinity
If a man doesn't have masculinity in him, then he often can't conquer a woman because he has no way to give a woman a sense of security.
Men without masculinity are mostly very timid and cannot carry things, for example: afraid of rats, afraid of cockroaches, afraid of heights...
Xian Shi Milk and Cui Hong are a couple, Xian Shi Milk is usually the party that needs to be protected, because Xian Shi Milk is very timid, afraid of heights, afraid of rats...
Xian Shi Milk is a small man, and he needs to be protected by The Big Woman.
A man without masculinity, when encountering difficulties, his first reaction is not to face the difficulties, but to hide behind someone and seek protection.
Such a man, because of his personality characteristics is gentle and careful, understands women's minds and can make many female friends, but it is difficult for women to fall in love with him.
Because the girl is looking in the mirror in front of him, it is difficult to be attracted to him and have a male and female feeling for him.
Second, I like gossip very much
Men of the opposite sex are very good, but it is difficult to get off the single, generally very gossipy. Perhaps because his hobbies are the same as most girls, he can have endless topics with girls and develop friends.
However, it is only a matter of being friends.
Men can be curious, but when a man is too gossipy, he will let women homosexualize him, so even if he is very gentle and handsome, girls will regard him as a "sister".
In addition, the reason why it is difficult for women to be moved by this kind of man is because he is too much like central air conditioning, he can have endless topics with anyone, and there is no way to give a woman the special treatment she wants, so women will not be moved by him at all, only as a friend.
Third, like the opposite sex to be called sisters
The reason why it is difficult for men with feminine personalities to get off the list is that they themselves like to treat girls as sisters.
Perhaps because their personalities are different from other boys, they have been excluded among boys, so they prefer to deal with girls.
It is more comfortable to get along with girls, so they like to be friends with girls themselves.
Their first understanding of women is to be friends, so they will have a hard time being emotional about a woman for their own reasons.
Stereotypical thinking is often difficult to break through, so it will make a person always in that circle.
If you happen to be this kind of boy, then if you want to take off the list, you must first reduce the feminine qi on your body to some extent, such as retracting your own heart that is too curious about other people's private affairs, or through deliberate practice to make yourself more manly.
In "Foreign Daughter-in-law Local Lang", the reason why Zhu Wanling chose to divorce Hu Huaixi is because Wanling feels that Huaixi is too unmasculine, too soft in personality, too mother-in-law, and cannot protect her when things happen...
Later, Hu Huaixi and Miss Tang tried to communicate, when dating, Huaixi's wallet was stolen, Miss Tang let Huaixi chase the thief, but Huaixi made a shrunken head turtle, and even disagreed with Miss Tang's alarm, so angry that Miss Tang decisively said goodbye to Huaixi.
Later, the reason why The peak turned around and Wanling agreed to remarry Huaixi back to Shanghai was because Huaixi punched Wanling's suitor Henry.
The change of Huaixi is actually due to the merits of the four brothers of the Kang family, and it is the four brothers of the Kang family who deliberately make Huaixi live like a man.
Therefore, masculinity can actually be deliberately practiced, or that every male masculinity is actually innate, and it is necessary to know how to exert it through deliberate awareness.
The opposite sex is very good, but it is difficult for men to get off the single, if you want to get off the single quickly, you must avoid letting women kind you, and you must also avoid making yourself too accustomed to getting along with women and being difficult to move.
Many times, it is not necessarily the environmental factor that cannot be done, but it may be the problem that lies with yourself. To be a person, you must know how to introspect and find reasons from yourself.
The opposite sex is good, but it is difficult to get off the list, not necessarily because the girl looks down on you, but your every move makes the girl not interested in you, or your own high standards, making it difficult for you to meet true love.
May everyone maintain introspection and constantly adjust their state in order to achieve their wishes...
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