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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional teacher, writing emotional texts that take the heart, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.
In the relationship, women often encounter such a situation, that is, the man who originally loved you very much suddenly stopped contacting you one day.
Whether in love or marriage, this is a very common situation, and it also makes many women feel confused.
Some women encounter this situation and blindly please, hoping to get the attention of men.
However, in most cases, men will not pay attention to you, but will despise you more and will not cherish you at all.
There are also some women, who do not know what the reason is, so they are anxious, always thinking that they have not done a good job, and they are more aggrieved than before.
In fact, women do not need to put themselves in a very low position before they understand men's minds, rather than pleasing men, it is better to let themselves retain their dignity, but will make men look up.
In the end, women should learn to see the man's true heart and figure out his intentions in time, so that they can respond in time so as not to be hurt more.
Generally speaking, when a man suddenly stops contacting you, there are often three situations:
First, he does not love, wait for you to take the initiative to leave
Men who love you and suddenly don't contact you again must have a reason.
Most of the time, it is nothing more than that the man does not love, he does not want to continue to be with you, I hope that after you perceive it, you can take the initiative to leave.
Such a man, generally waiting for you to take the initiative to break up, and then he can find the woman he likes.
When women find that this is the case with men, they do not have to be humble and flattering, it is better to plan for themselves early.
Because, a man suddenly does not contact you, indicating that he does not care about you, his heart has long rejected you, and will not pay for you as before.
Then, no matter what you do, it will not touch his heart, even if you pay more, he will turn a blind eye.
Moreover, this kind of man, often has a bad character, originally he does not love you, but does not mention the breakup, has been waiting for you to bring it up, and then leave him.
When you really take the initiative to break up and leave him, he will transfer the responsibility of not loving to you, beat a rake, and let you bear the responsibility of feelings, which can be described as sinister intentions.
Therefore, once it is found that the man is such an intention, the woman is best not to rush away, may wish to wait, let him have pressure, he does not dare to ignore you.
Women should not be too weak, can not let the man completely hold, two people can not go on, is his responsibility, we must let him be responsible.
You can get together with him, but you can't leave with a body of wrongs, it's not worth it.
Second, he has someone in his heart, and he only treats you as a spare tire
If the man who loves you suddenly doesn't contact you, there is one of the most common situations, that is, he has someone in his heart and just treats you as a spare tire.
Once he has established feelings with other members of the opposite sex, he will leave you, and there will be no trace of nostalgia at all.
Of course, he will still be with you until he is completely sure of his feelings, but he will no longer be enthusiastic about you, but especially cold.
At this time, he will not take the initiative to contact you, nor will he spend time on you, even if you take the initiative to find him, you may be perfunctory, there is no sincerity to speak of.
Men don't have your place in their hearts, basically give it to others, and their attitude towards you is so indifferent and ignores everything about you.
In fact, this kind of man has a lot of restlessness in his heart when he first starts with you.
He will always pay attention to other members of the opposite sex, and take the initiative to interact with the opposite sex, and there are many friends of the opposite sex around him.
The reason for this is nothing more than to choose the best object from it, and you may be just one of them, he has not paid his heart, and naturally he will not put all his thoughts on you.
At the end of the day, such a man treats you like a spare tire, both with you and not to exclude other members of the opposite sex.
Once he suddenly stops contacting you, it's likely that he's found someone better and he feels it's time to replace you.
Therefore, when a woman meets such a man, it is best to be cautious, once she finds that he is half-hearted about you, she must plan early, do not consume yourself, it is not worth it.
Third, I am disappointed in you and feel that it is not worth it to continue to pay
A man who loves you and suddenly doesn't contact you, there is also a possibility that he is disappointed in you and does not want to continue to pay for you.
At this time, he will take the initiative to alienate you, keep a lot of distance from you, and do not want to invest in you.
He won't spend time with you, he won't care about you anymore, especially on money, he won't give at all, even if he sees that you're having a bad time, he won't care about you.
For whatever reason, once he is disappointed in you, he doesn't want to continue to give and will become very calculating.
Therefore, if a woman encounters this situation, she must think about whether it is her own problem. After all, if a man ignores you because he is disappointed in you, he is probably still able to get it back.
The key is whether you will change and whether you can give him the motivation to continue to give.
For example, a man has taken the initiative to contact you many times, but you have been inappropriate and never replied to him, so that he can't see hope.
Or, he did a lot of things for you, but you never gave him affirmations and took everything for granted.
For example, a man has some misfortune and can't give you what you want, but you have never understood him, counted him down, hit him, and so on.
If so, men will gradually wear out all patience and eventually be disappointed in you and don't want to pay for you.
Therefore, when a woman encounters such a situation, she needs to review herself to see if something is wrong, and if you can't give a man hope, he won't be responsible for the feelings.
Good love requires the joint efforts of both parties to truly enter the future, and I hope that both men and women can take it seriously.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
Whether it is love or marriage, a man who loves you, if he suddenly does not contact you, there must be a reason, only to find out what kind of situation it is, in order to make corresponding countermeasures.
Women should observe men's behavior more, and if there is any abnormality, they should be cautious and do not be careless.
To sum up, if the man who loves you suddenly doesn't contact you, there are probably three reasons:
He doesn't love anymore, waiting for you to take the initiative to leave; he has someone in his heart and only treats you as a spare tire; he is disappointed in you and feels that it is not worth it to continue to pay.
Therefore, women must learn to see men's intentions clearly, so that they will not be blind in their feelings and will not pay themselves wrongly.
Finally, remind men and women: if you really love each other, please do not suddenly break off, no matter what the situation, this is irresponsible for feelings.
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Author: Ye Feifei yff, focus on the field of emotion creation and sharing, with emotions to communicate with you and my heart, but I hope you and I know each other here, like please pay attention to me.