Women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, and men are afraid of entering the wrong line.
Marrying wrongly ruins a lifetime, and marrying a wrong person destroys three generations.
The ancestral precepts are not necessarily all right, but there is a certain truth, mainly highlighting the importance of marriage. Marriage is the biggest thing in a lot of people's lives. Marriage is a chance for many to decide the fate of the second half of their lives. The more big things are, the more courageous they must be faced, and the more small things, the less they should be overly entangled. Marriage has no formula to set, schools do not teach, and parents of ordinary families do not have the ability to teach. Today I would like to introduce young girls to how to choose a husband. As for how the young man chooses the girl, the author is also a loser, and if he fails, he will admit defeat, and he will not be ashamed of failure.
A Brave to face marriage, do not be afraid of ugliness, do not be afraid of shame, do not be afraid of embarrassment. When I was a child, my aunt and matchmaker went to my grandmother's house to talk about matchmaking. My aunt, very frightened, hurried to my house and closed the door. She said she was embarrassed to see my aunt, afraid of being ugly. The aunt entrusted her marriage to her parents and matchmakers and hid herself. Therefore, some middle-aged women will blame their parents and matchmakers when their lives are not satisfactory, rather than blaming themselves. Many of us boil down sensitive topics about love, marriage, intercourse, having children, menstruation, etc. Talking about these sensitive topics, people will feel embarrassed, ugly, and humiliated. This is a very bad social custom. Before deciding to marry, the girl must take the initiative to understand the man's family conditions, physical appearance, academic qualifications and occupation. The girl's family can also use the status of a friend to go to the man's home to personally experience the man's family conditions. Then decide whether to marry or not to marry.
B Do not test feelings, gambling feelings are basically ten gambles and nine losses, love and marriage are not the same thing. In 2018, I worked in a shoe factory in The Wuli Industrial Zone of Jinjiang, Fujian Province. A girl in the factory office took a fancy to a boy in the warehouse. The boy had a car parked in front of the factory, had a house and a college diploma, and was very handsome. The girl is an office clerk and a college graduate. The girl went to work every day to play in the warehouse, hoping that the boy would chase her, but she was embarrassed to say it. The warehouse is connected to the assembly line workshop, there is no door, there are more people coming and going, and everyone can see it. As the boy approached the girl, the confused girl stepped back. The purpose of the girl's retreat is to make the boy pay the price when he chases her. As soon as the girl stepped back, the male spare tire immediately appeared. Male spare tires have no cars, no houses, no education, and often raise their fists to beat people. The girl deliberately gave the spare tire a chance, but in her heart she hoped that the boy in front of her would come and rob her. Gambling on feelings ten bets and nine losses, the girl regards her marriage as a child's play, and she does not know it yet. When the girl approached the spare tire, she actually made a choice. It turned out that the good boy in front of him didn't catch up with the girl, because the girl didn't give him a chance. The girl deliberately gave the spare tire a chance, and the two sides progressed very quickly. When the girl feels that the quality boy does not come to grab her, the girl will feel that she has no value and will lose her mind. After losing her mind, the girl developed a sense of revenge. The girl and the spare tire cuddled and cuddled in the warehouse, kissed and kissed, and deliberately made a show for others to see. The girl and the spare tire soon cohabited, and the girl also handed the salary card to the spare tire to show loyalty to the spare tire. Three months later, the girl and the spare tire both left the factory, and the two broke up. Seven months later, I heard that the child in the girl's belly was born early only four months ago.
I'll make you a girlfriend, do you want it? A problem that can be solved in one sentence. But the girl failed so miserably, a lifetime of shadows. Girls gamble on feelings in front of excellent men, basically nine out of ten.
From the girl's point of view, the girl is trying to see if the man loves her, and if the man loves her, he will definitely come to rob her. If the man is asked to pay the price when he chases her, the girl mistakenly thinks that what is easy to get is easy to lose. These erroneous ideas of love and marriage are very popular in society.
Stand in the perspective of a good man, will not rob the girl. Excellent men respect the choices of others, and when the girl approaches the spare tire, the excellent man will respect the girl's choice. Excellent men know how to make trade-offs, what they can't get will be decisively abandoned, and when the girl approaches the spare tire, the excellent man will give up decisively. Excellent men in the career competition is very stressful, need women to understand and considerate, girls to the spare tire close to the pressure of excellent men, this kind of girl will generally not be accepted by excellent men. Good men are very tight on their time and are generally reluctant to spend time and money on uncertain things. Men who like to stalk women are generally ordinary men who have more time. The man that the girl looks up to, other girls will also look up to, and there is no shortage of excellent men who look up to him.
Before marriage, girls should pay attention to keeping distance from boys or living together using contraception. When working girls and boys fall in love, both parties must pay attention to maintaining financial independence. The heart of harming others must not be there, and the heart of preventing people must not be without.
D Marriage is your own business, marriage is not to make an example for others to see.
Women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, and men are afraid of entering the wrong line. Marrying wrongly ruins a lifetime, and marrying a wrong person destroys three generations. It sounds like the head is the Tao, but it is actually very wrong. The happiness of a family requires both husband and wife to start a business together. Women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, marrying the wrong person to ruin their lives, are overemphasizing one party and ignoring the other. People like to blame others and ignore themselves. Men are afraid of entering the wrong line is also one-sided, and there is a sentence, thirty-six lines, lines out of the yuan.
This article girl can brush, and can understand, that is three lifetimes of luck.