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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional teacher, writing emotional texts that take the heart, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.
Nowadays, when men pursue women, they like to call women "baby" the most, hoping to close the distance between each other.
However, women don't be happy too soon, when a man calls you that, it doesn't mean he is truly in love with you.
After all, a man who can casually call a woman a "baby" is likely to have more complicated feelings.
Many men will use this sweet name when they pluck women, and they are often experienced and know how to please women.
Therefore, when a woman hears a man call you this, don't be happy first, but be cautious, have a comprehensive understanding of the man, and observe whether he is sincere.
Once it is found that the man has other intentions, it is necessary to stay away in time to avoid being hurt. After all, such a man may go around flirting with women, and there will be no sincerity at all, don't be careless.
In the end, when men chat, they call you "baby", in fact, they are flirting with you, and most of them have three intentions:
First, I want to be ambiguous with you and look for freshness
If a man calls you "baby" when he is chatting, it is likely that he just wants to be ambiguous with you and look for freshness.
Such a man will not really want to develop feelings with you, but just play with you, women do not indulge in it.
If you are not cautious and think that the man really loves you, continue to associate with him, and wait until the novelty passes and he will ignore you.
Such men usually make a lot of friends with the opposite sex, and while they are chatting with you, they may also be chatting with others.
And the title of "baby" is just his usual means to reduce women's defenses.
Therefore, when a woman chats with a man, she must keep an extra eye.
If the two parties know each other soon, he calls you "baby", which means that he is very frivolous and has nothing to say sincerely.
Miss Wang, a friend, met such a man, and after the two people joined friends, the man often chatted with her.
Because of the work contacts, Miss Wang also replied politely every time, and occasionally chatted with him about home.
Soon, the man directly called her "baby", which made Miss Wang very disgusted, the two people are not very familiar, the man called her like this, too rude.
Therefore, Miss Wang directly told him, don't call it that, or keep working contacts, after all, they are all people with families.
However, the man also pestered her, screaming one by one, and the message was also very ambiguous, which made Miss Wang particularly annoyed.
In the end, Miss Wang deleted him, never added him again, and saw that he was far away.
Therefore, women should understand that a man can't wait to call you baby, trying to be ambiguous with you, in fact, it is looking for freshness, not true love, and when it is encountered, it is necessary to stay away.
Second, pretend to talk about love, want to develop you into a spare tire
When men are chatting, if they call you "baby", they may also pretend to talk to you about love, and their ultimate purpose is to develop you into a spare tire.
They'll keep getting involved with you until they have new goals, and when one day, they meet a better woman than you, and they'll leave you.
This kind of man's feelings are also more complicated, when they interact with you, they do not pay sincerity, but have been getting to know the opposite sex and choose the best one.
Therefore, they usually call women "baby", one to make women defenseless, and the other is to cover up their emotional flooding.
They are very good at disguise, and they are very sincere, but if you really observe them, you will find that they are very hypocritical, basically in the process of communication, no action, all empty words.
So, when a woman meets a man calling you baby, really don't be happy too soon, and it's best not to rush into a relationship before you fully understand his character.
Many men like to call women this way when they talk about women after they know them, which is actually the intention of provoking you.
For them, anyway, a title does not cost money, you can call it at will, not to mention that some women also like to hear it.
Because of this, men also grasp the weakness of women, always calling women "baby" or "dear".
When women are defenseless, they can get in the way, not only hurting women, but also extremely irresponsible for feelings.
Once they meet a new target, they desperately leave the woman in search of the next spare tire.
Therefore, when women are chatting, they must be cautious, otherwise they will casually accept the title of man, especially those who have a family.
Third, I want to develop an intimate relationship with you, and my feelings are irresponsible
We know that if it is between lovers, men call women "babes", which is a way to enhance feelings and make the relationship more harmonious.
However, if the two parties are not lovers, and the man still calls you baby when chatting, this seems to have ulterior motives.
Especially a man with a family, casually calling a woman a baby, shows that he has no responsibility himself, and his feelings are very insincere, which is the embodiment of the heart.
Such a man, to seduce a woman, is nothing more than want to develop an intimate relationship with a woman, and his feelings are extremely irresponsible.
When they met a woman they liked, they tried to make friends and then they pestered each other.
Once women let their guard down, they will be more attentive and use the sweet title of "baby" to fool women's feelings.
Therefore, it is best for women not to easily accept the request of a man to be a friend, and if they do not understand him, they must know how to protect themselves.
After all, many men go to seduce women with bad intentions, and if they are not careful, they are likely to be hurt.
In itself, men call women baby, that is, with a strong provocative hint, the feelings are very frivolous, basically no sincerity.
Women don't hear this kind of call, simply think that he loves you very much, in fact, in his eyes, just treat you as an object that can develop intimate relationships, and will not be responsible.
Once he chases you down, he won't cherish it, and no matter how much you love him, he won't necessarily look at you more.
Men's feelings, sometimes are so direct and realistic, when they don't get it, they are very attentive, and when they get it, they will think of retreating from the whole body, and women must be cautious.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
Balzac said: "In fact, pretend love is more perfect than real love, which is why many women are deceived." ”
Indeed, if a man does not really come to associate with you, he must be very good at disguise, and he has a lot of means of provocation.
This requires women to be more careful when interacting with men and not to give themselves easily.
To sum up, chatting with a man who calls you "baby" most likely has these three "intentions":
Want to be ambiguous with you, looking for freshness; pretending to talk about love, wanting to develop you into a spare tire; wanting to develop an intimate relationship with you, feeling irresponsible.
Therefore, women in the face of men's pursuit, must pay attention to prevention, especially when chatting, observe more men's words and deeds, find abnormalities, and stop losses in time.
Do not consume yourself on unworthy men, so that you will not be hurt, this is the rationality and pattern that women should have.
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Author: Ye Feifei yff, focus on the field of emotion creation and sharing, with emotions to communicate with you and my heart, but I hope you and I know each other here, like please pay attention to me.