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Before discussing this topic, we must first determine a question: Is there any innocent friendship between the opposite sex?
If there is an ordinary friendship between the opposite sex, there is naturally nothing to say, and if the relationship between the opposite sex is extraordinary, then ninety-nine percent is not a simple relationship.
The reason why this kind of relationship is not simple is often because the man loves the woman, but the woman is already famous and has no choice but to retreat to the second choice.
Although the woman has some belonging, she has not yet achieved single-mindedness, so she secretly left a spare tire in case of an accident.
To put it bluntly, the opposite sex has this kind of relationship, that is, in the name of friends to engage in ambiguity, once the time is ripe, the relationship is likely to break through the defense line and go further.
Ah Wei and Xiao Dan are in this relationship.
In the early years, Ah Wei had already fallen in love with Xiao Dan, but Xiao Dan was already famous and had to choose to be friends with her in order to wait for the opportunity.
Although Xiao Dan has a boyfriend, she does not like each other wholeheartedly, so she will carry her other half to interact with Ah Wei and give the other party an opportunity.
Unconsciously, the two had known each other for ten years. In this decade, the two have both married and had children, living in different cities, although they can't see each other, they often chat with each other in private and tell their hearts.
Little Dan did not love her husband for ten minutes, so her life after marriage was a mess. Whenever Xiao Dan and her husband quarreled, they would talk to Ah Wei about their hearts, and gradually, the two became girlfriends of the opposite sex who talked about nothing.
At first, the two still adhered to etiquette and chatted about some normal topics between friends, but later the two became more and more bold, and even took out private matters in the room to share and discuss.
At this time, the relationship between the two has become intimate, except that there is no real husband and wife, and there is no difference between the real husband and wife.
Later, the relationship between Xiao Dan and her husband was frozen, the child was brought back to her hometown by her husband, and she was depressed, so she ran alone from another city to meet Ah Wei, and then had a relationship with Ah Wei in half a push and half a half.
Ah Wei and Xiao Dan have been dating for ten years, and this is the day they want, and now he has finally got his wish. However, he is not satisfied and wants to maintain this relationship with Xiao Dan for a long time.
However, Xiao Dan had some regrets about things, only because of a moment of greed and joy and took a wrong step, making herself an unchaste woman, she felt ashamed of her children and ashamed of her family.
Under the psychological effect of guilt, she did not want to have deviant behavior with Ah Wei again. In the face of Ah Wei's repeated requests for dates, she can only find excuses again and again, which makes her feel very embarrassed.
And after they had a relationship, there was a subtle change in emotion, before she and Ah Wei had nothing to talk about, but now she has a lot of inner words that she is not willing to confide in Ah Wei.
Gradually, they changed from confidants who talked about everything to ordinary friends who were cautious and cautious.
One day Ah Wei asked her for a date again, and Xiao Dan finally couldn't stand it and categorically refused Ah Wei's unreasonable request, causing the other party to block Xiao Dan in anger. The two have had little contact since then.
Adam was very remorseful, she originally had a close friend, she could talk and complain.
But only because of his impulsiveness, he did not hold on to it, and turned a precious friendship into a vulgar underground affair, and finally ended up with a two-shot and two-part end.
In this example, Adam only looked at the outcome of the matter, not the cause of the event. The reason why they ended in tragedy was long overdue, because their intentions were wrong.
Ah Wei chose to become friends with Xiao Dan in order to lurk around her and wait for the opportunity to possess her.
Xiao Dan chose to become friends with Ah Wei because she kept Ah Wei as a spare tire for later use.
When the two became friends, they had already planted evil causes, so they would bear the evil fruits and taste themselves.
Let's not try to test human nature. Also, everyone is an ordinary person in the dust and fireworks, even their own small emotions can not be controlled, how can they control the desire like a flood beast?
Therefore, the opposite sex still has to maintain a certain boundary, can become friends, but to find out whether the purpose of the other party to make friends is pure, if it is a crooked heart, sooner or later it will have to suffer the consequences.