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Time is shallow, the sun shines on the body, the hot sun, so that people can't open their eyes.
Lush trees, sunlight can always penetrate the gap, sprinkled on the earth.
Perhaps, you are like this sunshine to me, always in my heart's arms, leaving me with nowhere to hide.
Wait, wait, wait, wait for you to be able to see me, wait for you to fall in love with me...
However, time flies, the years pass, and the two people who thought they could become closer can only become strangers and lose the love of their childhood.
My reticence and waiting, in exchange for your love for someone else's girl, since then all my deep affection and all expectations can only be what you call brotherhood and sisterhood.
If you don't show your heart sooner, you won't end up in this way.
This is probably the voice of Zhu Wanling in "Foreign Daughter-in-law Local Lang".
Zhu Wanling "crushed" Kang Qiyao for a long time, but out of this creed that a woman should have a reserved attitude, she has been "waiting" for Kang Qiyao to take the initiative, but perhaps because the waiting time is too long, so long that Kang Qiyao habitually regards Wanling as a sister.
In fact, a gentle and virtuous woman like Zhu Wanling is very pleasing to men, otherwise, henry with a discerning eye would not have fallen in love with Wanling at first sight.
If Wan Ling had made her heart known early and not let Kang Qiyao habitually regard her as a "sister", perhaps the two of them could also come together.
Habit is a terrible thing because it can make one person have preconceived notions about another, leading to real "missing out."
Kang Qiyao has preconceived notions about Wan ling, so he does not think about wan ling in the love of men and women, and Kang Qizu does the same to Yumi.
When you have a loved one, don't wait, know how to confess "in time".
Confession missed the best time, and perhaps the originally pleasing feelings will also become a one-man one-man show.
First, with someone you like, you must confess within a year
Those who love someone so-called do not care whether there can be a return, do not care about whether they can be together in the end, most of them are because of love and cannot, so they can only use these words to comfort themselves.
For the vast majority of people, if they like it, they all want to like it to be able to respond, and they all want to be with the person they like.
"If the person you like happens to like me, then even if you try your best, you have to be together."
When you fall in love with someone, don't use no regard for return, don't ask him to love me to comfort yourself, self-suppress the true desire in your heart.
When you like a person, please boldly show your expectations of hoping to be together, so when you have someone you like, don't secretly like it, and don't wait silently, because if the love thing makes the other party put you in the wrong position at the beginning, then you can never be together.
If you like someone who has not confessed for more than a year, then in a big way your relationship can only stay at the current level without incubating love.
Because you dare not confess, the other party will only put you in the position of a friend, even if he likes you, but there is no progress in a year, and the other party has to give up his love for you.
I have seen a movie clip like this: a girl likes a boy, and the boy is also interesting to the girl, but because the girl is the sister of the brother, the boy has not dared to confess his heart, and even walks close to other girls in front of the girl.
Later, the girl saw that the boy did not show the "heart trace", and the woman died and was with other boys.
At this time, the boy knew that he regretted it, and he felt how he could drag on for so long without confessing.
However, boys and girls can never go back, and their relationship can only be "friends", even if they have liked each other.
When you like a person, please confess as soon as possible, please wait for the opportunity to confess when the other party has a certain understanding of you, it is best not to exceed a year.
A year may not seem like a long time, but it is really enough to extinguish a person's enthusiasm.
It is also because one year is enough to make one person have a preconceived subjective idea of "friends" for another person, and it is difficult to produce male and female feelings.
Second, if he just treats you as a friend, he should confess as soon as possible
Love also has a "defeat" that is preconceived, the so-called preconception is that one person labels another person early on the relationship label, and then it is difficult to break through this relationship label to develop into other relationships.
Just like if a man believes that you are a good friend, then no matter how good you are to him, he will not think of the love between men and women, he will only regard your kindness to him as "righteous".
So when a person has begun to have the intention to define you as a relationship, know how to break this label early, otherwise the longer the time, the more difficult it will be to break this preconception.
When the person you like already intends to classify you as a friend, then you have to know how to show your heart, or euphemistically indicate that you do not want to be friends with him.
Only then will he reconsider your relationship and you will have the possibility of developing into a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship.
Kun Kun is the most witty boy I have ever met, and Fang Fang is the girl kun kun fell in love at first sight.
He knows that FangFang is a girl with a slow and hot personality, so he began to be close to Fangfang as a friend.
When the two personal relationships are more familiar, and Fang Fang is also interested in treating Kun Kun as a "buddy", Kun Kun directly confessed.
Kun Kun's sudden confession did frighten Fang Fang, but since Kun Kun confessed, Fang Fang would never use the relationship of friends to think about Kun Kun's kindness to her.
Later, the two eventually came together.
Therefore, when you have the person you want, you must know how to avoid the other party's preconceptions about you in addition to male and female feelings, and you must also know how to break the other party's preconceptions about you as soon as possible.
Third, the person you like expresses good feelings for you, and you must know how to directly confess with the situation
Some of the two lovers can only be missed in the end, or it may be because they miss the opportunity to be together, rather than not loving each other.
Love actually has a point in time, miss that point in time, and no matter how much love you love, you can only become a guest of each other.
When we were young, we always thought that missing out was just missing a person, and later we realized that missing out was actually a lifetime.
People who are happy with each other are actually more likely to passively wait for the other half to start taking the initiative after learning each other's intentions.
As a result, both sides are so tacit, they are passively waiting for the other party, and in the end they can only miss it.
There is such a novel plot that has always impressed me, and I don't know exactly which novel this plot comes from.
I only know that the male and female protagonists are truly in love with each other, and they also know each other's love.
The end of the story is the day the male protagonist and other women became intimate, and the female protagonist also went to the scene, but the two of them still could not be together, and the wedding proceeded normally.
What the male protagonist thought in his heart at that time was that as long as the female protagonist called him, he would abandon everything and go with the female protagonist at all costs.
What the female protagonist thinks is that as long as the male protagonist takes the initiative to talk to her first, she will directly grab the kiss and go with the king at the end of the world.
So, he didn't look back at her, she didn't move forward, and the wedding was finished in a burst of cheers.
When you clearly understand that the other party has a good feeling for you, you must know how to take the initiative. When the other party directly shows you that you want the two to have a future, don't look left and right, don't speculate, don't be afraid of whoever takes the initiative first and loses, but to make a bold confession.
The matter of love is indeed skillful, and confession is indeed timing-oriented. When you fall in love with someone, know how to confess at these 3 times.
Many times, the reason why you can only have no points in the end is that you have missed the best time to confess.
May each of us take the initiative to be brave in the face of love.
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I am Hexu, a creator of the emotional field of warmth and happiness in the heart, writing emotional texts and warming the heart with words. Thank you for reading, I hope my words can help you, deeply wish you peace and joy!