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The men in our impression seem to be straightforward and bold, and it seems that they always have an innate courage advantage in love, and they will be more likely to gain the favor of the right person because of their bravery.
But this may be our misunderstanding, and men who will bluntly express their love to their loved ones are after all a minority. Some men who lack courage or are more introverted often choose to send signals to let women understand his intentions.
The following two signals are the hints that men like to give to women the most. If you have ever received it, but you have not been able to understand the meaning correctly and miss the fate, there are some regrets and pity.
One: Invitation to the Lord
There is a question on Zhihu: If men really like you and you think about you, will they take the initiative to ask you out to play and take the initiative to find you?
A high praise replied: Men like you want you must = take the initiative to ask you to find you, if this equation does not hold, unless 1 + 1 does not equal 2. This sharp answer was unanimously approved by other netizens.
In the relationship, even if the man is more provocative, introverted, and wooden, he will summon up twelve thousand courage to ask the woman out, which is an irrepressible instinct. And this instinct, the more suppressed it is, the more fanatical it will be.
Friend FangFang often bothers about emotional things, her boyfriend belongs to the kind of man who she does not take the initiative, he will not take the initiative, every date is Fangfang's active invitation, each date location is also booked by Fangfang, and even what to eat and drink, she also needs to arrange properly...
His boyfriend didn't think there was anything wrong with it, he just felt that every time he showed up, he had an explanation for the relationship. He didn't expect to make some changes or efforts for the relationship.
Therefore, Fang Fang often feels that her boyfriend does not love her. In fact, later, during the third year and 5 days of their relationship, Fang Fang inadvertently bumped into his intimate interaction with another woman.
He will take the initiative to help her screw the bottle cap, he will take the initiative to hang her bag on his shoulder, he will also take the initiative to take the woman's hand when walking, and take the initiative to protect her on the far right side of the road...
Looking at his attentive initiative and enthusiasm for another woman, FangFang only felt that his three years of dedication was a joke.
The saddest thing is nothing more than thinking that I know him very well, only to find out that he did not take the initiative and did not use his heart, but did not want to take the initiative for you.
A man who truly loves you and longs to get you, he will definitely take the initiative to ask you out, and in your relationship, he will always be active and enthusiastic, which is a truth that never needs to be questioned.
Two: Frequent sharing
Maybe you've heard the saying that the desire to share is the highest level of romance. In any intimate relationship, without sharing, there is no opportunity to enhance feelings, and with sharing, there will be unlimited possibilities for the future.
Colleague Li Wen said that she recently met a new man, and he especially likes to share his life and work with him in WeChat chat, whether it is good or bad.
At first, Li Wen didn't feel very understanding, but later, she got used to this kind of life that people shared with her every day. Every day, she was a little looking forward to the other person's news, and if there was an occasional day when he didn't share his life with himself, her heart would become empty.
She wasn't quite sure if she liked the feelings, wasn't quite sure how the other person felt about her, and she wasn't confident that she might just think of himself as a hole in the tree to vent his stress.
It can only be said that perhaps because he did not know the man well enough, Levin would have this strange trouble, it is obvious that the man obviously likes her, and because of this, he will happily share his life with Levin every day.
Only if a person likes another person will they have the desire to share with her, after all, adult time is precious, and no one wants to waste time on these meaningless things.
This kind of treatment that is frequently shared is not a chance for all people to enjoy.
Men are eager to get you, will be willing to give you this signal, expect you to understand his intentions as soon as possible, so as to live up to this encounter.
Men are bold in women's hearts, but their true guts are estimated to be known only to themselves.
Their hearts are as fragile as women's, and they are also afraid of being hurt and afraid of the non-good people they encounter. Therefore, on the way to conquering women, they generally adopt this roundabout strategy, initiating both active invitations and frequent sharing of these two signals.
I hope you will understand from this that he invited you into his life's code words. I also look forward to writing a future love story with you.
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