I believe that you have also had such a moment, knowing that the other party is on the same level as yourself, and may even be inferior to yourself, but as you walk, you will find that the other party has come ahead of you.
At this time, you want to step up the chase, but you find that it seems that the other party has no force, but you can't catch up, not that others take the back door or take a shortcut, but from the beginning to the end you use the wrong method.
A person has a way of life, some people will live more relaxed, some people will live hard and tired, and the appearance you want may appear in other people, but it has nothing to do with you.
What causes this situation lies in everyone's own choices, there may be some things that are predestined by heaven and cannot be changed at all, but some things are decided by themselves.
And the smartest way for a person to live is to pretend to be stupid.
A graduate student who graduated from 211 key universities and has also worked in a Fortune 500 company and won various honors in school, such a resume was once Xiao Jia's pride, but now it is her shame.
It was not that she denied her efforts at the beginning, but she did not expect that such an "excellent" self would be "inferior" to a college student.
In order to take care of her parents more conveniently, Xiao Jia returned to her hometown and worked in a small company, originally she applied for a management position, but the company temporarily put her in a reserve management position on the grounds of inspection.
But the usual work is similar to the management personnel, on the whole is to live more money less, which is a common phenomenon in many small cities, although Xiao Jia is quite dissatisfied with this, but there is no better choice, can only endure.
Three months after she came to the company, a new person came in, Fangfang, who was a local ordinary college graduate, and had only worked in some small companies before, in Xiao Jia's view, such a person was completely unworthy of her attention.
But until a year later, because the previous supervisor left due to illness, there was a vacant management position, Xiao Jia still thought that this position must be his own, but he did not expect that in the end it fell on Fangfang's head, and the leader gave her a deputy position in order to appease her.
Xiao Jia was very unconvinced by this, and couldn't help complaining to her friends, after all, where the other party looked, it was not as good as herself, but her friends asked her not to be overwhelmed by anger, in the absence of black box operation, Fang Fang must have her superiority.
After calming down, Xiao Jia carefully recalled Fangfang's performance in the past year, and only then did she react, almost every time the leader gave the task, she took it all, never said a word, even if she had to work overtime, she had no complaints.
Sometimes, even if other colleagues ask her to help, she will agree to it, which can be said to be hard work.
The company has a serious small group because of the large number of women, but it seems that I have never heard of Fang Fang joining a small group, and she seems to have a good relationship with everyone, but it does not seem to be so good.
Seeing everyone was a smiling face, even Xiao Jia, who had once troubled her, she was always smiling, as if nothing had happened.
Therefore, many colleagues say that Fang Fang is stupid behind their backs, but at the moment, she is the smartest person in the company.
Under her silly appearance, she actually has a mirror for everything, but never shows it, on the one hand, so that everyone has no defense against her, on the other hand, every "stupid thing" she does is looked at by the leader.
For the boss, I hope that my subordinates have the ability to do everything well, but don't be too smart, and then threaten their own status, and these happen to be satisfied, which shows that she can be promoted, which is also reasonable.
Because real life is to do your part every day, not to ask for love and vision that has nothing to do with you at present, not to be entangled in superfluous emotions and judgments, not to be delusional, not to indulge in self-indulgence, not to hurt, not to be enemies of yourself and others.
In fact, in our lives, we can often see some "fools", these people always do something that others are not willing to do, and the whole person looks very honest, as if anyone can bully him.
But in this world, in addition to physical reasons, is there really such a "fool"? Or is the other party just pretending to be stupid?
Pretending to be stupid is really a science, using stupidity to solve a lot of difficult problems, dealing with difficult interpersonal relationships, rather than turning yourself into a "smart person" who knows everything, it is better to become a harmless "fool" for people and animals.
After all, who would really go against a "fool"? Who really puts a "fool" in their eyes?
Being appropriate when a little transparent can bring a lot of unnecessary trouble to yourself and make life simpler, or simply put, this is also an excessive expression of modesty.
Most people will prefer a humble and courteous person to a brash person, even if the person looks a little "silly".
The way to grow up is to know how to shut up and work hard, know how to be low-key and humble, learn to strengthen yourself, and desperately become the person you want to be in every cherished day.
Along the way, there may be some hard work, and the sweat paid is not in the minority, but as long as the final result is what everyone wants, then everything is worth it.