Text/Mo Ran
For a woman, the highest way to live is actually to have her own attitude.
As long as people have a principled bottom line and follow their own hearts, they will live up to this life.
Many women are emotional animals, easily affected by external things, in trouble, without self, such women are often not very happy.
A truly intelligent woman, with her own way of living, will remain emotionally rational and will not entangle anyone and things.
The energy and time of life are limited, not worth wasting, and always dwelling on people and things in the past is to consume yourself.
Therefore, a woman's highest way of living is not to entangle.
entanglement, will only consume each other
Once people are attached to one person and one thing, they will only consume themselves, and at the same time, they will consume each other.
You must know that no one's life is smooth sailing, and it is normal to encounter setbacks and bad people, what we have to do is to face it calmly.
We can't predict what will happen or what will happen, but we can change our mindset and control our emotions.
There are some things that cannot be changed, and entanglement will only increase the annoyance and consume your time and energy.
In this life, people are inherently limited and not worth wasting, sometimes we should take a long-term view and not be affected by unworthy people. Don't care about the immediate gains and losses, look forward, and everything will pass.
There is no such thing as a naturally perfect person, so we must learn to accept our ordinariness and be more tolerant of this society.
Try to be relieved of the people and things that affect you, so that you can move forward better.
Not getting entangled is true wisdom
Whether it is a relationship or a person, in fact, as long as you treat it sincerely, even if you are separated, there is nothing to regret.
As long as the feelings are used, as for how others choose, it is someone else's business, and we have no regrets.
Feelings are not something that one person can decide, since you can't control it, then let it be.
Many things, the more entangled they are, the more meaningless they are, and they will fall into internal friction.
Since you know the other party's choice, it is the best way to face it calmly.
You can't force someone who doesn't love you to love you, you can't wake up someone who is pretending to be asleep, and letting go may be the best outcome.
At any time, don't let a relationship or a person affect your life.
All the people and things that consume you, you should stop the loss in time, take advantage of the release, and be at ease.
Not dwelling on yourself is actually reconciled with yourself
In this life, people will always encounter all kinds of things, whether in life or work, they may be treated badly.
At this time, your heart will be unbalanced, and even lingering, but when you have experienced a lot of things, these are not worth mentioning.
There are too many ups and downs to go through in life, and if you get entangled in everything, it will consume your energy.
We still need to spend more time on other things and try to make ourselves happy.
Sometimes, not dwelling on it and learning to let go is actually letting go of yourself.
The more you worry about others, the more you can't get along with yourself, and only by letting go can you live your life better.
Once people have obsessions, it is difficult to be happy, only by learning to look down and not entangle, can they have the energy to do what they want to do.
Therefore, do not entangle, learn to let go in order to go into battle easily, and people must learn to reconcile with themselves.
Summary:
Life is a journey with no return, there will always be things that make us unhappy along the way, don't dwell on it, but learn to let go, so that you will encounter more beautiful scenery.
Not dwelling on one thing is actually the best way to end it, and it is also the most decent way.
Learn to accept the status quo and learn to live in the moment in order to live the life you want.