Text/Mo Ran
In real life, many times, we are easy to live in the eyes of others and are easily affected by the external environment.
When others say a word, they will pay special attention to it, and then explain it over and over again, prove themselves, and fall into internal friction.
In fact, being misunderstood and not understood is the norm of life. The more you try to prove yourself, the deeper you'll get yourself into trouble.
In life, everyone longs to be understood, but many of them are inhuman, since you can't change others, then be yourself.
Life is your own, it has nothing to do with others, don't prove yourself, just be yourself.
Being misunderstood is the norm of life
In this world, life is not always smooth sailing, and there will always be various setbacks and difficulties.
Human nature is also complex, and there is no need to explain too much.
Don't care too much about other people's opinions, hope to be understood, there is no need to crave recognition, people are different.
When people reach a certain age, they should live in their own world, not in the eyes of others.
What others say, that's someone else's business, it's good to be honest and honest yourself, too much explanation is actually a weak heart.
When you're trying to prove yourself, they've already done it.
There are some things that you don't need to say, people who understand you will naturally understand you, and people who don't understand you are useless to say it.
People should look at everyone's opinions rationally, and then live their own lives, after all, everyone's joys and sorrows are different, and they don't expect to understand.
If you don't respond, it's the best counterattack
Rumors stop at the wise, what others say, you can't interfere, just be yourself.
We can't live the way others expect us to, we have to be ourselves.
All kinds of doubts and speculations from the outside world don't mean anything, as long as you are firm in your heart.
Don't prove yourself to untrue statements, just smile and deal with them.
In the journey of life, you will hear all kinds of voices, and if you try to prove everything, you will only destroy yourself.
When you're busy explaining, you're consuming your own life.
Don't try to convince others, all you have to do is get back to yourself and live your life to the fullest.
You can't shake other people's thoughts, but you can control yourself and not let yourself fall into meaningless internal friction.
Life is your own, just be yourself
The road you have traveled has not been walked by others, and what you think and think, others cannot know, since it cannot reach the resonance, there is no need to care too much about what others think.
In this society, no matter how good you do, there will be bad voices, but life is your own life.
It doesn't matter what others think, it's up to you what you think.
It is not necessary to live in someone else's mouth, but to live in your own world.
Instead of trying to prove yourself, you should be firm and let time tell.
Other people's evaluations can't change anything, and the best response is to dig deep and make yourself better.
People are different from each other, just live your own life.
Summary:
A person who always cares about the eyes of others cannot live his own life.
When you are no longer afraid of other people's evaluations and can be determined to be yourself, you are really strong.
Really powerful people know how to block out the voices of the outside world, not easily shaken, do not follow the crowd, stay sober, firmly follow their own path, and have no intention of caring about others.