The flowers and flowers are unintentional, only the truth exists in the heart
At the beginning of marriage, both husband and wife will have a good original intention and yearning for the future life, and make a firm commitment to spend a lifetime together, whether marriage is for either spouse, it is tantamount to a new life, in the future life path, joint support, joint efforts to progress.
When everyone is full of infinite yearning for marriage with this beautiful fantasy, the reality is like a blow to the head, almost a small number of people's marriages are smooth, and how many people's marriages are finally only chicken feathers.
The various life pressures between husband and wife, the mutual influence of their respective original family members and the intricate relationship between family members will directly affect the direction of future couples' feelings.
Just like the words that describe marriage: if you want marriage to develop for a long time, you must find a way to provide your lover with unexpected marital surprises.
01 Life after marriage is a mess, AA made the final decency of the couple
If there is a chance to start again, I believe that Li Lin's choice of marriage will be carefully considered, rather than being sloppy and fearless as it was at the beginning.
Li Lin went to the metropolis after graduation, after several years of hard work, Li Lin understood a truth, in the big city if only rely on their own strength is really difficult to stand, after thinking about it for a long time, she decided to return to her hometown, there is an orderly slow pace of life in the small city so that Li Lin, who has seen too many lights and wine, instantly feel relaxed.
Later, when Li Lin was 28 years old, through the introduction of her family, Li Lin met her husband Li Ke.
In fact, at the beginning, Li Lin did not have much feeling for Li Ke, but at that time, Li Lin was already 28 years old, and in her hometown, the same age as Li Lin had long been married and had children, and even some children could go to play soy sauce by themselves.
However, in the end, Li Lin still did not want to go against her parents' wishes, not to mention the experience of living alone over the years, and she had encountered too many ups and downs, which made Li Lin deeply feel that a person's life was so helpless.
In this way, Li Lin and Li Ke married.
In the blink of an eye, three years have passed, during this three-year period, the feelings between the husband and wife have changed from fresh at the beginning to today's bland, coupled with the birth of the child, the pressure of life has increased for a while, so that the feelings between Li Lin and her husband have cracked.
Finally, on an ordinary afternoon, Li Ke proposed a request for AA to Li Lin, and Li Lin seemed to have a premonition about it, and after a moment of silence, she agreed.
02 monthly salary of 20,000, for the mother's brother to prepare a marriage room
However, life is so dramatic, after Li Lin and her husband AA system, Li Lin's career gradually improved, and later met some like-minded friends, Li Lin's salary was naturally greatly improved, and even reached a monthly salary of 20,000 at one point.
After Li Lin's monthly salary of 20,000 yuan, she did not mention this matter to her husband, she was still an ordinary wife in this family, silently doing her share of things.
However, in order to repay her parents' years of parenting grace, Li Lin helped her parents relieve their pressure and prepared a marriage room for her mother-in-law's brother.
Li Lin has a younger brother, 5 years younger than her, so when Li Lin is about to get married, her brother is also about to reach the age of marriage, but her parents are not biased against either side because of economic pressure, and Li Lin's dowry when she gets married not only does not want a penny, but also accompanies many dowries.
Li Lin has not forgotten the kindness of her parents after marriage, but during the period when she first got married, Li Lin was also powerless, not only to take care of her husband's emotions, but also to adapt to the pressure from life.
However, after the husband and wife AA, Li Lin has more time to make up for her previous regrets, especially after the monthly salary reaches 20,000, Li Lin has more confidence.
However, the fact that he prepared a marriage room for his brother was finally known to her husband Li Ke, and her husband was very angry after knowing this.
03 Since the AA system is already in place, why shouldn't I do this?
One weekend, Li Lin and her husband originally agreed to clean the house together, but at the agreed time, the husband refused to act until Li Lin took the initiative to ask her husband, and the husband did not talk about the reason.
The husband said: I heard that you prepared a house for your brother?
As soon as Li Lin heard this, she immediately understood her husband's meaning, and Li Lin moved a chair and sat across from her husband: Yes, I admit it, but although I have prepared a marriage room for my brother, I have not been stingy with our family.
The husband's tone is a little excited: Since your income has increased, the first thing you should think of is to improve our family's living standards, rather than helping outsiders.
After hearing her husband's words, Li Lin was puzzled: Since we all have AA system, I just need to do my part, as for helping my brother prepare the marriage room, I have the ability, why not? And what do you mean by outsiders?
When the husband heard this, he did not know how to answer.
Yes, since the two have already AA system, after doing their part, as for the rest, what reason do they have to ask each other?
The husband shook his head and stopped speaking.
I don't know how he feels at this time, whether he will regret taking the initiative to propose the AA system.
Conclusion: Perhaps life is so helpless, even if the original love of the couple's feelings will eventually return to flat, little known is that plain is the essence of marriage, only through the bland marriage will eventually work together for life. In this bland process, husband and wife should support each other, and must not do something that makes them regret it, such as the AA system, although the AA system can alleviate the pressure between husband and wife in the short term, but in the long run, the feelings of husband and wife will eventually disappear with the AA system.