In this materialistic era, material abundance has greatly improved our lives, but it has also made many people have a lot of misunderstandings about life.
More and more people regard money as extremely important, for money they can abandon a lot of things, give up people who love themselves, give up their dreams, give up their health.
Money can indeed greatly improve our lives, but those things that are really precious cannot be bought by any amount of money.
A fan left a message: "This netizen said that his monthly salary is only 5,000, which is what he likes for a girl with a monthly salary of 8,000, and the other party is a very good person." ”
With a monthly salary of 5000, how to marry a girl with a monthly salary of 8000?
This is estimated to be a fantasy in the eyes of many people, not to mention a girl with a monthly salary of 8,000, even a girl with a monthly salary of 2,000 is estimated to not be able to look up to him.
After all, many people now attach great importance to material things, especially girls generally want to find a man with good conditions to marry, trying to use marriage to change their fate.
Not only do many girls feel this way, in fact, many boys also feel this way, so many boys will conduct a self-screening when choosing objects.
For example, this fan, in fact, when he asked this question again, he already had the answer in his heart, but he did not want to accept it.
Although he may like the girl very much, he also understands that he is most likely not worthy of the other party, and the other party is unlikely to look up to him.
But I think this time he was wrong, including many people who saw this article, why did he say so?
Honestly, who do you want to marry? Do you think it really has something to do with your monthly salary? Do you dare to answer three times in a row?
Many netizens will definitely say "there must be a relationship", but I tell you that it doesn't matter, maybe many people don't believe it at all, but this is the truth.
Maybe 95% of people think it's related, but I want to tell you that it really doesn't matter, do you think it has something to do with money? Do you think it has something to do with your good looks? It doesn't really matter.
Most likely you should not believe me, or even think that I am talking nonsense, but I hope that you can taste it yourself, there are many things in this world that cannot be taught by others, but can only rely on the apocalypse.
It is undeniable that there are indeed some young people who are more materialistic and pay more attention to personal interests and gains and losses, but this is only a small group after all.
Now many girls' mate selection standards are indeed relatively high, but this mate selection standard is a blank check, and the final probability is that it cannot be cashed.
In the process of gradual growth, many girls will slowly realize this and see how many girls end up marrying the person they fantasize about.
Many boys know that girls are more emotional, and girls are actually pursuing emotional value in love, many boys know this, but they are disdainful to try.
Although sincerity is more important in feelings, there is also a little routine that is very important, after all, since ancient times, true feelings cannot be retained, only routines win people's hearts.
Of course, the routine here is not to let everyone have to go to the routine of girls, but to learn a little routine, how to impress girls to win each other's hearts.
In fact, girls are like this, perhaps at the beginning her mate selection standards are relatively high, but as long as she likes you, her mate selection standards will slowly be customized for you.
Therefore, in the end, I still want to say to the fan: "No matter how much you earn monthly salary, how much the other party earns, in fact, you can try, many people are not unable to meet true love, but lack the courage of people who pursue true love." ”
If you are a girl who only values material things and does not value character and character, then there is no need to pay too much effort for each other, if the other party pays more attention to the inside, even if you do not have any money, you may come together.
Of course, the premise is that you must also be excellent, if the gap between two people is too large, the hope is still very slim, income does not necessarily represent a person's ability, the evaluation of a person or to examine in many ways.