Someone once said that love may not have to be based on material foundations, but marriage must be based on a certain material foundation.
Marriages without bread will face more trivial things in life, and over time, they will consume each other's love, but finding a partner for marriage also needs to do what they can, not to be ambitious.
41-year-old Guo Dajie is from Changchun, is the head nurse of a hospital, has a monthly income of about 4500, and a 16-year-old daughter, the reason why she divorced her ex-husband is not because of emotional discord, but the nature of the work of the two, so that the two have been together for many years, and later, the two chose to end this relationship.
This time, Sister Guo wants to come on a blind date, one is to find another half who understands her, loves her, and can take care of her like a big brother, and the other is to find a cadre from the object, after all, in her opinion, her work environment, often contact with such people, therefore, she is fully qualified to find such a partner.
Subsequently, the red lady found Guo Dajie to find her brother Pan of the same age, the other party works in a state-owned enterprise, the monthly income is almost 5,000 or so, the reason why she divorced her ex-wife is because the two have different concepts and cannot continue to live together.
At the beginning of the meeting between Sister Guo and Brother Pan, both of them felt that the other was quite close to their eyes, so when chatting, they showed great enthusiasm.
However, Sister Guo suddenly proposed to Brother Pan that her mate selection criterion is that the other party is a state-owned enterprise cadre, after all, her own conditions are very good, the other party can not be too bad, moreover, she usually goes to work to contact people, there are also many state-owned enterprise cadres, so Guo Sister believes that her own mate selection criteria, at least if it is a state-owned enterprise cadre.
In this regard, Brother Pan also said that he may want to disappoint Sister Guo, because he is only a small employee of a state-owned enterprise, not a cadre, at the same time, Brother Pan's heart is also full of muttering, if according to What Sister Guo said, she can usually go to work to contact a lot of state-owned enterprise cadres, so why do you still have to come on a blind date?
Of course, Brother Pan did not express the doubts in his heart, and when he heard that Brother Pan was not a cadre of a state-owned enterprise, Sister Guo also had obvious disappointment on his face.
However, Sister Guo still chose to continue to chat with Brother Pan, and the topic of the two also turned to the concept of consumer materials, for this topic, Sister Guo said that she is a thrifty woman who generally does not spend money indiscriminately.
I thought that Brother Pan would appreciate Sister Guo's thrifty family, but he said that his consumption outlook on Guo and Sister Guo was completely different, and he usually bought it directly as long as he liked something, rather than looking forward to the future.
Hearing The words of Brother Pan, Sister Guo on the side shook her head in a hurry, in her opinion, although Brother Pan is still very much in line with her own eye, but the other party is not from a cadre background, more or less unworthy of himself, and the second is not particularly expensive to squander, but the consumption is still so generous.
In the end, the blind date between Sister Guo and Brother Pan still ended in failure.
I have to say that no matter which age group of men and women, aside from love, still need to look at the bread, after all, after marriage life, both love is needed to support, but also bread to support, otherwise it can only be a good gathering, or full of chicken feathers.
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