Author: One flower
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The ultimate destination of love may not be marriage, and some men and women, even if they have loved each other for many years, are inseparable, and they still disperse when they walk. However, everyone meditates before they make up their minds to enter a new relationship, and there must be a thought about marriage.
When they are young, men and women always have too much freshness and curiosity about the world, they want to go out to see more, and they also see more of the opposite sex, and they will be conceited to magnify the only remaining advantages in themselves, thinking that they can find a better and more suitable other half.
When people reach middle age and are ruthlessly suppressed by this society, their state of mind will naturally change, especially for men, and the criteria for choosing a mate will change by one hundred and eighty degrees.
Some people say that men are animals who think with their lower bodies, they like a woman, often because of each other's looks and figure, no matter when, their mate selection criteria, young and beautiful are ranked first.
In fact, otherwise, middle-aged men are not so superficial, and other qualities in women can attract their attention more than young and beautiful. Middle-aged men are determined to "marry" women, not young and beautiful, but these three points.
The first point: elegant temperament
Note that the "temperament elegance" here is not the same as being young and beautiful. It is undeniable that some beautiful women, because of the blessing of clothes and makeup, will indeed exude a French elegant temperament around them, but when they speak, they show timidity.
In real life, a woman's elegant temperament is not given by looks, but mixed in the conversation of raising hands and feet. Middle-aged men's lives have been more than halfway through, they have seen too many "vase" beauty, and they have long had aesthetic fatigue.
In contrast, women with elegant temperament are better, and why not marry such a woman to go home and watch each other at home all the time.
Second point: economic and spiritual independence
For middle-aged men and women, discussion is all illusory, and only money can most soothe people's hearts.
Middle-aged men are very realistic, they will no longer be like when they were young, with a hundred dollars in their pockets, they will spend it all for women. Having gone through so much, they began to learn to tighten their pockets. The truth of the poor couple's Pepsi lamentation is deeply experienced by middle-aged people.
Therefore, when a middle-aged man is determined to marry a woman, he must be prepared in advance, and has inquired about the woman's financial situation in many ways, in short, a woman who drags the family and has a small income, even if she likes it, they will not marry.
Middle-aged men want women to be on par with themselves in terms of financial income, preferably more than themselves. In addition to financial independence, middle-aged men also want women to be spiritually independent. When encountering things with opinions, you can make your own ideas, and you will not be as annoying and annoying as young girls.
The third point: sensible people will take care of people
People are selfish, and men marry wives not just to continue love, but also for two generations. This is cruel and merciless, but it is a portrayal of reality.
Most middle-aged men have experienced one or two failed marriages, in the previous marriage, they may have children, which requires the next wife to take care of, even if there are no children, the parents of middle-aged men are older and also involve maintenance issues.
Therefore, at this time, young and beautiful women are not attractive, because such women will not be selfless enough to take their own good youth and make wedding dresses for others. Sensible women who can take care of people have become the first choice.
Treat children, have patience, treat elders, be obedient, and at the same time, take care of yourself, and the calculations of middle-aged men are mostly so.
Reading this, some people may loudly rebuke middle-aged men for being selfish and narrow-minded, only knowing how to use the opposite sex, which is not choosing marriage, but finding a free nanny, but have to admit that this is the reality, changing identities, and the same is true for middle-aged women.
But in this way, it goes against the original intention of love and marriage, if you just find a member of the opposite sex to help you solve the problems in the family, you can go to the agency to find a nanny. If you want to find a woman who can accompany you through the second half of your life, you still have to be sincere and sincere.
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