Nowadays, academic qualifications have not only become a passport to enter the enterprise, but also known as the mate selection criteria for many college graduates.
A very realistic problem, highly educated graduates in the choice of mates, will also require the other party to be a highly educated group, so many people are curious, then in the process of mate selection, will college students also have requirements for academic qualifications?
College students released the "mate selection criteria", 80% of men did not have admission tickets, and netizens commented one-sidedly
In an interview, a specialist student introduced his own conditions, from the self-introduction can see that the girl's appearance conditions are still relatively good, in line with the aesthetics of most men, but also can be seen that although it is a specialist degree, but the family should be good, not only have their own real estate, parents, set also have real estate, each month salary is about 10,000 yuan.
And there is the most important one below, "marriage does not require a bride price", I believe that many boys feel that this is a big bargain after seeing it, but they did not expect that this was to pave the way for the conditions she proposed below.
"Only child", "height of more than 180cm", "urban hukou", "real estate", "monthly salary of more than 10,000 yuan", "independent living after marriage", "parents have old-age security", "after marriage the man needs to work", and the requirements for southern education are "bachelor's degree or above".
Not to mention the requirements for academic qualifications, 80% of men can't meet the remaining 8, and the remaining 20% of men may not look at her.
And we will shift our attention to the requirements for male academic qualifications, many people are curious, a female student with a college degree, to do the standard needs the other party's academic qualifications above the undergraduate level, who is this to give her confidence?
And the comments of netizens are also one-sided, "I want to play the bare stick and say it directly", "before I am with her, I have to go to the Men's College to study", etc., in short, I think this girl's requirements are too harsh.
What is it that makes women so demanding of mate selection criteria?
First of all, before discussing this issue, we can remove the above matter, in fact, in real life, most women will have strict requirements for mate selection standards, the stronger their own ability, the higher the requirements, this is a very realistic problem, so what is it that will lead to today's women's requirements for mate selection standards so high?
On the one hand, it may be affected by the family environment, the impact of the family environment on the child's growth process is relatively large, some girls may see the thrifty mother on weekdays will have some pain, but most of the family environment has been unable to change, so you can only secretly swear in the heart, you must not live such a life in the future.
On the other hand, according to the needs of social development, people's living standards are constantly improving, and prices are rising, so under this economic pressure, they have to prepare for their future.
Especially after getting married and having children, there are many places that need to be spent, and if the other party does not have a certain ability, it will directly affect the standard of living, so the requirements will naturally be higher.
Under the high standards of the opposite sex, we must also constantly improve ourselves
In fact, for women, they all hope that their future husbands are good enough, which is what everyone expects, but under the high standard requirements of the opposite sex, they should continue to improve themselves, because only when they are strong to a certain extent, they will attract more attention.
Now college students are relatively high-minded, even after graduation, they will not directly choose employment, but tend to graduate school, phD and other upgrade academic qualifications, after all, everyone knows that only when academic qualifications are improved, it is really to improve their social competitiveness.
At the same time, it is also recommended that students learn knowledge in other fields when conditions permit, at this time it is more testing of students' independent learning ability, learning is a never-ending thing, but also depends on how students look at it.
There are many ways to improve themselves, but students need to start from the university period, or from the high school period, because only by being admitted to key universities can they have a certain degree of recognition in this society.
However, we must also admit that today's mate selection criteria are very realistic, after all, the quality of marriage is related to the future development direction, if one party is left behind, then it may affect the entire family.
And there will be some differences in the view of this matter, most of them feel that the girl's requirements are too high, but there are still a small number of people who feel that women should be like this, rather than marry later than marry wrongly, I don't know what everyone thinks about this?
Write at the end:
We can't question everyone's mate selection criteria, because the views on things are different, so the focus is also different, but it is still recommended that in the process of choosing a mate, you still have to take your own ability as the standard, only when you are good enough, you can be qualified to ask others.
Today's topic: Do you think this specialist girl has high mate selection standards?