Girls score 742 points in the high school entrance examination to apply for teacher training college, and their lives are happier if they are not defined

Text|Ning Ma Wuyu

At a time when high education is popular, if a child gives up the opportunity to enter a better platform to study, it will feel incredible and cause a heated discussion.

Yancheng, Jiangsu, there is a girl who scored 742 points in the high school exam, in the case of a full score of 800 points, this result is very good, according to our usual thinking, entering key high schools, to 985, 211 universities to launch a sprint is a logical thing.

However, this girl did not take the path that everyone recognized as the right one, but chose to apply for Yancheng Preschool Normal College and had already obtained an admission notice.

When the girl's mother posted this information on the Internet, netizens were not calm.

Many netizens think: parents are short-sighted! This decision is too hasty! Making decisions for children is a lazy act of parents! It is clear that I can go to 985 and have a great future, but I went to become a teacher, what a pity ...

No one has the ability to predict prophets, so how can they know that the future of others is not good?

Now the definition of success seems to be the higher the education, the better, the more famous the school, the better the job, the better, everyone is rolling, and adults and children are tired.

The future of life is arbitrarily defined, as if not taking the traditional path is deviant. In fact, people seem to be pursuing money, seemingly ethereal success, but few people think about whether their children's future lives are happy.

After seeing the discussion, the girl's mother specially posted an explanation:

Girls are admitted to the seven-year continuous training of teacher training oriented students, there is a establishment, after graduation directly become primary school teachers, girls also like to be teachers. There is no shortage of money at home, as long as the child is healthy and happy.

I think that the choice of the girl's family is very wise, and does not fall into the stereotype, but makes the most suitable choice according to her own family situation, the child's ideals, and the child's happiness.

Seriously, a life that is not defined is happier.

Locking down work ahead of time is a happy thing

The girl's high school entrance examination score is 742, which seems to be a high score, but if you look at the local admissions situation, you will have a more pertinent judgment.

The score line of Yancheng's "seven-year continuous training of teacher training oriented students" varies from 705 to 738 points in each county and district. If the girl belongs to the Yandu District candidate, and the primary education admission score line is 738 points, then the girl is really admitted as her mother said, and it is not easy to get admitted to this school. Therefore, the score does not suffer a loss, and there is no grievance.

The high school entrance examination can test 742 points, and it does not necessarily guarantee that the high school grades are excellent, and if you can't get into a good school, it may not be as good as the current choice.

A friend from Jiangsu shared that her daughter's middle school entrance examination results could be admitted to key classes in key high schools, and she also applied for a directional teacher normal at the beginning. The daughter later regretted going to high school again, and as a result, she was immediately in her third year of high school, and she could only take more than 500 exams, and her intestines were repentant.

Many high school teachers said that they have witnessed many children who have excellent results in the high school entrance examination, and their grades plummet after reaching high school. High school is about intelligence and physical strength, and you can't do without one. If your grades deteriorate, you can't accept yourself, and you may develop new health problems, which is even more worrying.

After going to high school, I still want to be a teacher, and the ideal situation is to be admitted to a good teacher-oriented university, the starting point is higher than the current junior college, but whose life can develop according to the preset procedure?

If you can't get into a university with a job and a job, it is unknown that you will have to be busy with finding a job and preparing for the exam after graduation.

We all know that the preparation of the examination is very paper-based, and graduates of famous schools such as Peking University, Tsinghua, 985, and 211 are all in the examination, and they may not be able to go ashore, and ordinary schools are more difficult.

If you are lucky enough to be admitted to the establishment, you may still be at the same starting point as the students who chose the orientation teacher training in junior high school, and the experience is not rich.

Like girls, after graduating from junior high school, they directly go to the orientation teacher training, do not need the college entrance examination, come out or undergraduate, have a preparation, have a job, basically have no worries.

There are no high and low in the profession, and if it is valuable, you can reap happiness

People often say that "360 lines are out of the top", but when they see someone choosing some ordinary occupations, they are pointing fingers and talking about it.

As soon as they saw a child with a high score in the exam, netizens said that let go to be a scientist and let go to the national defense exam, is it only these types of professions that can reflect a person's excellence and is a person's highest value?

Of course, we need a lot of scientists, we need a lot of defenders, but we also need many, many ordinary workers. Food, clothing, housing, education, and medical care all need someone to protect them in the rear.

Take the profession of a teacher, if there is no one to educate children, how can better scientists and people who defend the country emerge?

On the one hand, we hope that our children will meet excellent teachers, and on the other hand, we regret that people with good grades are Qu Cai, isn't it a contradiction?

From the "Pilot Project of "Seven-year Continuous Training of Targeted Normal Students in Jiangsu Three Places", it can be learned that the average score of the students they plan to admit ranks in the top 4.4% of the city's candidates, and they are absolute "top students", committed to rural basic education and solving the problem of weak rural education, which is a good thing conducive to the great development of society.

Primary education is very important for children, and the profession of primary school teacher is very important. Chen Yibin, a doctor of education at Beijing Normal University, head of a nationally renowned education group and principal of a primary school, said: Many problems of middle school students are already difficult to solve and need to be traced back to primary schools. Many problems in primary school, if only solved in kindergarten, their growth would be much smoother and more efficient.

There are also people who are not optimistic about the choice of girls, because the teacher's treatment is not high, maybe three or five thousand yuan a month, thinking that the quality of life in the future will not be very high.

Everyone's pursuit is really different, and some will pursue high-paying careers and pay more energy and time than ordinary people. Some people are happy and willing to work silently in their posts. As long as you feel happy, you can be blamed. Everyone has a different direction in life and different goals to pursue.

The girl's mother has made it clear that money is not a problem, can buy a house for the girl, with a stable salary, although not high, but there is no mortgage pressure, life will be comfortable.

Doing what you like is happier than blindly pursuing higher education

Bi Shumin said that the most important thing in this life is to make yourself happy.

But now many children do not feel happy, even if they have a satisfactory grade and get into a good university, they are not happy.

Wei Kunlin, a professor of psychology at Peking University, once said: When teaching college students, I find that too many children study very well, but they are not happy, unhappy, and have no self, because the direction of parents' education from kindergarten and primary school is wrong.

Children are educated and required to do well in college from an early age, their own ideas are suppressed, and they often mistakenly think that being admitted to college is the end point, and satisfying their parents is their task. When I was admitted to university, I had no sense of direction, no goals and pursuits, I couldn't raise my enthusiasm for learning, I spent 4 years of mediocrity, I didn't learn real skills, I didn't improve my ability, and I hit a wall everywhere when looking for a job.

Even life is a problem, let alone contributing to society, or realizing any life value, without a sense of achievement, there is no sense of happiness.

The girl wanted to be a teacher, and when the results in the middle school entrance examination were very good, her parents did not have a deep-rooted high education complex, requiring her to go to high school and university, but let her apply for the orientation teacher training that was not favored.

Children have less pressure to study, can receive higher education, can do what they like, and work hard with enthusiasm in the future, harvest a sense of achievement, and happiness will naturally come.

Written at the end: In this era, high education does not necessarily mean a good future and a happy life. Not following the crowd, respecting your inner thoughts, and choosing your favorite work direction is much better than squeezing a single bridge.

Therefore, there is no need to feel sorry for the girl, what is suitable is the best.

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